First session jitters?

[natural tickler]

If I know I'm going to have a "session" (God, I hate calling it that. Sounds like a dentist appointment or something) with someone, even if it's not for the first time, I get jitters. But they are a good kind of jitters, like really excited/nervous. Usually, it adds to the intensity of the experience and I'll be laughing before anything even happens. So, I don't try to get rid of the nerves. I enjoy them. For the most part, though, I don't plan my tickling. It's rather spontaneous and that's cool too.

that's good to know, seeing you still owe me one...😱

 

[Artoo]

I hate that word as well! Sounds like there should be an acoustic band involved; all retro guys with long hair and donkey jackets and jeans from 1992, who vote for the SSP.

That sounds like my first one too.

 

[Miss Serendipity]

Mine was so random. I've always secretly wanted to try bondage but I never acted on it til NEST which is where I had my first bondage experience. I was definitely nervous but I consider myself lucky to have had someone who really understood my feelings.

I remember thinking wtf are you getting yourself into? Afterwards it was really the best feeling I had ever felt. The rush, the heightened awareness. It was euphoric & I was so glad I went through with it! It was amazing!

 

[kayaker273]

I had my first experience after chatting with some people on the forum for a few months that were having a little get together during an upcoming vacation of mine. I was definately nervous but so excited at the same time. The first time jitters are wonderful if you relax and enjoy the feelings!! It is a contradiction just like the tickling itself, you want it to stop and continue at the same time!! The get together was at my friends house and he had invited over a few other guys and two girls, one girl I had gotten to know pretty well who was also friends with my friend. My friend had his bed all set up for me, and after a little socializing the girls called me in his bedroom! OMG! This was it! My first tickle torture and I was gonna be tied and tickled by two girls!! I was nervous but I hit it off with the girls really well, we laughed and joked as they tied me up. I had never been tied before and I was wondering if the cuffs were going to leave any embarrassing marks for my family to see while I was vacationing. Surprisingly, they were very comfortable and I really enjoyed being tied up. So the girls went to town on me, finding all my most ticklish spots, and I had the best first time I could ever hope for! Only being moderately ticklish, I happily endured an hour of their wonderful tickles. Playful teasing tickles mixed with moments of sheer torture! I had a blast! We then switched up and I got to explore my Ler side with the two girls which was also a blast. This first time was perfect and I wouldn't change a thing. 😀

 

[CD216]

Having never had a session, I can't respond with total accuracy, but I would bet my left nut that I will be completely nervous and jittery as hell. I get nervous if tickling even comes up in conversation under most circumstances, so meeting with someone just for tickling would probably send me into overdrive.

 

[naughtylucy]

That sounds like my first one too.

Slag

 

[adrenalayna]

I can't wait to have a real meeting, soon enough, soon enough. I'll probably be excited more then nervous...then at least a little nervous in the moments where you can't move right before it all begins. : )

 

[Tissueboy]

I've often wondered about all this. I think I'd be most nervous when just about to walk into the place where we'd meet, and when just about to walk into the place where we'd do the tickling...

Maybe getting a bit off track, but how do people actually bring up the subject when it's time? Like "So...wanna do some tickling now?" haha. There just seems to be no easy way to do it!

 

[Amanda Cortez]

Awww ..don't worry about it too much. It's fun ad for the thr person too and they won't kill you. You all wanna enjoy it and so it will be good. Juz don't be too nervous. Lol, I got it at such a lil S&M party and first I was a bit nervous to, but my friend was with me and so I felt a bit better. Look, nobody killed me and I'm still alive and happy. Hehe ...

 

[rhiannon]

I've often wondered about all this. I think I'd be most nervous when just about to walk into the place where we'd meet, and when just about to walk into the place where we'd do the tickling...

Maybe getting a bit off track, but how do people actually bring up the subject when it's time? Like "So...wanna do some tickling now?" haha. There just seems to be no easy way to do it!

LOL...when my ler and I first met, we would talk about all kinds of shit - like the weather. 🙂 And then he suddenly asked: "So, how ticklish are you today?" - and that was it! 🙂

 

[naughtylucy]

I've often wondered about all this. I think I'd be most nervous when just about to walk into the place where we'd meet, and when just about to walk into the place where we'd do the tickling...

Maybe getting a bit off track, but how do people actually bring up the subject when it's time? Like "So...wanna do some tickling now?" haha. There just seems to be no easy way to do it!

Oh god no...well, perhaps, but there are better ways to get into it. Eye contact and so on. I mean, if you're going to have garden variety sex with someone, you don't say "So, shall we leave the bar now and engage in some basic caressing leading up to at least one orgasm each?"

Do you?

 

[naughtylucy]

That sounds like my first one too.

Ha! Sounds like my last one.