pfromptown
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They might look on it as being a little weird, but most people just go, "well, whatever turns you on, it's cool".
Bloody hell, apparently I've got to move to Nottingham! I've got to say that I've never heard of many people let alone "most people" taking it as casually as that before, but OK, fair point, maybe a shit fetish would be frowned upon even more than ours. Everyone with any sexual deviance is innocent as far as I'm concerned, and I would include the Michael Jacksons of this world in that as well, 100% (Although its funny that I just typed the actual term out and almost automatically deleted it straight away, it's still a very harsh word to use, and I find it ugly). They need our help people, not our hatred! But anyway, I'm digressing...
There's some really interesting stuff cropping up here. The William Rossi book will be among my posessions soon methinks. As to my opinion, I think that the term 'pervert', like many others I can think of (Such as the aforementioned other 'P') are thrown around far too readily as a result of the globalization of trashy mass media. Most people will regularly behave in a voyeuristic manner, but many trivialize it by cracking a joke or bringing someone else in on it etc. I think the unfortunate cases are with lookers who are unable to do this, because of embarassment or whatever, and who are sometimes wrongfully branded 'perverts' by the common person (Often the person being observed) who finds them just as creepy as someone who leaves video cameras in tanning salons, who I think are the real sorts who the term was coined to describe and are the only people I know of who have it levelled at them justifiably. I think we fall into the second bracket because (for the most part anyway) we have a problem publicising our desires, and so remain silent and thus creepy in the eyes of the commoner, although fortunately I don't think many of us get caught. I think I've been spotted looking a couple of times, but I have never been confronted about it, either because the person was too embarassed or because they wouldn't have considered that I was gaining pleasure from looking at what is to them an obscure body part. I think unless you're hiding under tables and licking ladies feet (like that total arsehole who got caught doing it a while back - I'd tie his dick in a knot if I ever got the chance!) then despite what people say, you're simply a healthy observer like most people, and shouldn't be losing any sleep.