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GF wants me to stop my tickle fetish!!!

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My Girlfriend has threatened that if i didnt stop with my ticke fetish she was going to leave me! She says that I'm am more into tickling than her! She was ok with it to start with, she would let me tickle her before sex, but all of a sudden she wants it to end. She even wants me to stop coming to this site, what should I do? I could really use some advice from you guys.
 
A person's fetish is part of what makes him or her who they are. You have to decide whether your relationship with your girlfriend is more important than your sexual interests. No one can tell you that she is or is not worth it. I'm sure the fact that you are conflicted on this issue means that you care for her. But little is quite as frustrating as a relationship that has no sexual gratification, especially if it makes you feel like she dislikes you as a person because of your sexual interests.

It could also be that you are ignoring what she finds sexually pleasing. Perhaps your wanting to tickle is keeping her from what she really wants to do, in which case I recommend openning up to what she wants and seeing if she's more willing to compromise on ticking afterward.

I personally would say move on and find a girl who is more open minded, but that should be taken with the grain of salt that I know nothing about you or your relationship, and I think this is my first post.
 
I thought that if I would focus more on pleasing her sexual needs that she would be more open to mine, but it has been far from that. Ive done everything possible to keep her involved with tickling and so far it has failed.
 
It's a tough choice. But give her this thought: Turning off your interest in tickling would be like her turning off her interest in < insert whatever you want >. It's something you like. How can you turn off something that's a part of you?

-- I'd suggest for the interest be something she happens to enjoy in bed.

As for her leaving you... I really don't know what to suggest about that. Question is, how bad do you want to keep her, or how bad does she want to keep you?
 
time to find a new gf bro! Your fetish is part of who you are.You just can't stop it on someone elses whim! That's like someone saying "I don't like the way your voice sounds..change it or stop talking" .......ridiculous right?? same thing here.......let the girl go and find someone else open minded enough to accept ALL of you for who you are.
 
If she merely had a problem with the method you utilize to satisfy your fetish (as watching tickling videos could be akin to pornography), then it may be worth staying through. Think about it this way - if she doesn't find a part of your persona appealing, there is a good chance she might find something else down the line to disapprove, as one's interests and preoccupations tend to be related.
 
My Two Cents

First off, I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I do have a few things that come to mind here. First, by her saying that you're more into tickling than you are in to her, she may feel as though your just in it for tickling. If you are in to her as a person, prove it to her, and not just in the bedroom. Secondly, because she wants you to quit coming to this site, she may feel like your just using this site to find fantasies to play out with her. I think many women have that feeling when their significant others look at any adult material.

I think most of all, you need to talk with her. Find out why she liked it in the beginning, and not now. (This makes me wonder if she just tolerated it in the beginning just because she knew you liked it.) Find out just what it is that she hates about tickling, and why she wants you to give it up. Find the true reasons she has. They may be completely selfish, but then again, you may find some ways you're lacking in making her happy. This may result in some soul searching for both of you.

There's my two cents.
 
I'm just wondering how you can stop a fetish...

It's like switching off your sub-concious...just ain't possible.
 
Unless you're a Vulcan.

...

Never trusted those introverted pointy ears...
 
anyone who asks their partners to stop something that is that important to them is just selfish, and a bitch and not worth your time. dump her. seriously. no girl who is worth being with would ever ask you to stop being yourself.
 
Try to talk to her about whats so bothering about tickling to her. If she's giving you an ultimatum about the situation, my advice is to leave HER instead of the other way around. It could just be that simply she thinks you might love tickling more than her and are just using her. If that IS the case, what you should do is prove to her that's not all you're about. But be sure to let her know that tickling is a part of who you are and you can't just change.

Best of luck.
 
Budweiserbob! said:
I'm just wondering how you can stop a fetish...

It's like switching off your sub-concious...just ain't possible.
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You're right you really can't, psychologically its on such a deeply rooted level of your psyche it would be the same as a gay person trying to live a straight life. You'd be living a lie. Repressing your true sexual identity will only make you an irritable and frustrated individual.....think of how much she'll like that...

(puts on Yoda costume)
"Repression leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering...."
 
I say talk to the gal first if she's someone important to you...find out, like many have already stated, what her concerns are? Be open and honest...you may not like what you hear, but at least it will be the truth...and if she really can't be a part of your needs, then I think it's time to move on...as Cheshire and many before have said, denying something like this is impossible...I knew I had a fetish before I realized my sexual orientation...denying both was/is impossible--it's who I am. And if she cannot appreciate that, then it might be time to find someone who will! Good luck with everything babe...I can't imagine how difficult this must be...you know you've got the support of the community, no matter what...
 
Thanks You Guys! You Have Been Alot Of Help To Me, I Feel Better About It All, She Really Has Tried To Make Me Out To Be The Bad Guy With This, Like Its Some Great Sin! I Dont Think She Is Going To Give In, So I Guess It May End Soon
 
I'll support the suggestion of discussing this with her. Granted that I know nothing about yours/her character and what your relationship is like, I can just say it's best to find out what she finds lacking and make steps to fulfil each other accordingly.
 
If she doesnt like a part of you, I'd get rid of her. That is just selfishness on her part!
 
I was wondering, why on earth is she aware you come here?
You shouldn't have told her that soon...
 
I'd agree there, I wouldnt tell anyone until I really really knew them.
 
I too would agree. I wouldn't say anything unless I was 100% sure she'd be cool with it and I knew her well enough.
 
Only three others share this secret: our friend the Sorceress, Man-at-Arms and Orko.

...

No, wait...

😀
 
lonelykimiko said:
Why the hell did they let orco know?!
Go Prince Adam!
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They probably thought the guy with no visible mouth can't say anything 😛
 
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