Girls Are Mean

[CDFGA]

....Well, how are thing's going, Biggie? ...Something I learned a while back: Treat a Queen like shit, and treat shit like a Queen. -They'll never leave you then.
Sad, but true.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

All Righty Then!

I could not let this thread end on that note.

I read each post carefully and I would like to say that I appreciate most of you guys for being encouraging and positive in your answers. And I respect those of you who shared your painful experiences for the simple reason of wanting to build a friend up. That is truly wonderful! *hugs* 🙂

Truth be told, we have all been hurt by the opposite sex (even the same sex for some). And I don't believe more negativity is the solution to erasing the pain or even warding off pain in the future.

Biggles of 266, I know how you feel, believe me! And I know how much you are hurting. Been there, done that... have the scars on my heart to prove it. But let me tell you something SIR... You keep being who you are. You keep treating women like the Queens that they are, you keep your soul and your heart honest, and I swear to you, you will be blessed with the most amazing girl in the whole world.

Let me tell you how I know.... right now there are about 1 million other females talking to a best friend or someone or other, saying how mean guys are and sharing how they gave all of their hearts, treated their men like Kings, only to be treated like Dung. There are a million girls out there who are looking for a good man, a REAL MAN!

Now I am not telling you to let girls walk all over you. Or any one for that matter. But there is a right way to handle each situation.

Bottom line...You keep being a real man and a REAL WOMAN is going to find you.

So keep your chin up. Garbage is for one thing only... the trash can. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't mature enough to figure out true love. Time will come when that girl will remember how good you were to you and she will come crawling back.

Like I said, I know from experience. Do you know I got emails from 2 exboyfriends on Valentine's Day. All saying they were sorry and that they missed me. BooHoo (makes a girl feel kind of special... heehee)

But you continue being a man. God knows I am all woman! The one man that ends up being with me, I will treat him like the King that he is. And any man that is blessed to be with me will treat me like the Queen that I am. I don't expect anything less and neither should YOU.

With that being said... Take care Sweetie.
Love, Laugh, and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee

 

[kurchatovium]

I would agree with most everything that Sunriseticklee said and admire her positive attitude when it comes to the dating game. I have waited a long time for the right lady, thought I finally found her then she left me for her car mechanic. That sounds almost too cliche to be true, but it is. I still love her but I realized finally that ship had sailed. I also finally realized that you don't need anybody but yourself to make yourself happy. Now I don't worry about finding the right woman before I get too old to remember what to do with her. I just try to have fun whenever I can and if the right woman should come along so much the better. So even if you never do find the right person, enjoy your life to the fullest. Just a little friendly advice from the Kurchatovium Love Network.

 

[Shaggy]

Dating sucks. It's much too complicated.

 

[Strelnikov]

Re: Valentine's Day emails from two ex-BF

Women have emotional resources that aren't available to men. When a relationship ends, a woman will cry with her girlfriends, pig out on chocolate, and then it's over. She goes on with her life.

Men, on the other hand...

In about 6 months, while drinking heavily, you may feel the urge to make a drunken 3 AM phone call to your ex. If you do, the topic will be "You bitch, you've ruined my life, but we can still be together, sweetheart." This is the "I Hate You/I Love You" phone call, and every man will make at least one such call in his lifetime. The next morning, the memory of what a sorry whining asshole you were will add piquancy to your hangover experience.

If you feel the urge to make the call, have another beer. Then another, and another, until the urge passes. Take a cab home, and come back for your car in the morning. You'll thank yourself for doing so.

The voice of bitter experience,
Strelnikov

 

[Biggles of 266]

I fought the ***** and the ***** won

I'm sorry to everyone who is getting sick of my whining. To them I say:

shaddup

well, this just fecking makes it all even better. Her ex (in the army, took her virginity and dumped her the next day, *beats her up!*) is now her 'true love, her one and only'. Excuse me while I vomit over the pile of knives I've just removed from my back. To make it all worse I'm home alone with nothing to dull the pain (a mouthful of rum, that's it...) I just want to fall asleep for a long time and not feel the pain.

I'm really sorry to keep bringing this up, and I wouldn't have posted this now if this post wasn't already at the top. Leaving these messages on here with so many caring people makes me feel a lot better, and it's stopped me from doing some really stoopid shit since it first happened. There ya go, the TMF has saved it's first life!

 

[SlaverTickler]

Deaf Leapared

Deaf Lepared said it best...LOVE BITES!!!