Has anyone...

[TickleKay]

Has anyone met the love of their life, or even a GF through this board? You now, the one that goes along with all your crazy tickle ideas and even maybe adds to them?

It's tough to meet those that are at your precise levels. After a while you get to know where they stand in just a few sentences in email.

But there has to be some love stories here!

Kay

[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

 

[TickleKay]

Sorry if I posted this thread twice!

 

[TKLVR181]

I found Senshi through TT, and yes, he is my soul mate. I'm thoroughly convinced we've known each other for countless lives, how else can he know me better than I know myself? It's possible--and Fate, God, Destiny, whatever you believe in (I believe in God personally, just to clarify), has a funny way of connecting you and your Other Half through the most interesting ways😉

~K

 

[maniactickler38]

Kay, i think us meeting could be destiny! 🙂

 

[chode]

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[BigNorm]

why yes, i've met a special someone through TT. she doesn't want to be named just yet, but we have a special connection. in fact, i'm going to see her in march, if not before. i feel butterflies in my stomach when i talk or even think about her. she's really special to me.

 

[TickleKay]

Kay, i think us meeting could be destiny! 🙂

Hey! Ya never know! 🙂

 

[P[a]pi]

Meka and I met on TT two years ago and we have been living together for about a year and a half. We love each other and plan on getting married relatively soon.

So, it can happen! haha

BigNorm - Cool man. I'm happy for you. And butterflies are always good.

 

[maniactickler38]

Hey! Ya never know! 🙂

Oh i know! it will happen! 😉

 

[Anon2]

How fantastically phoney these replies are.

 

[nessonite1]

I've met a few people here who are very special to me. <3 ^^

 

[TickleKay]

How fantastically phoney these replies are.

Yup

 

[nessonite1]

How fantastically phoney these replies are.

What makes you say that? Is it so unthinkable that people could meet someone they like? XD A few of my best friends are people I've met through this forum and others. So neener neener =p

 

[Dannigrl]

Ness is right. I joined because I was sick of the tickle fetish as it was going for me at the time and I was trying to find a very special tickler who's work I loved. I found him to be very hot but couldn't seem to find his email address. Very frustrating for almost a couple years.

I finally did find him through TT and some connections here. So it can happen, certainly. It's slim pickings for sure. No doubt not every guy is a talented Prince Charming, but I got lucky. I'm sure many here exaggerate their connections and meetings with others. But it did happen for me and I'm real happy with the results.

 

[ghosthunter0]

Internet dating is harder in general. It requires a special class of charm that not all of us have. The ability to be friendly is waayyy different then real life. Improv is a lot harder. Moreover there's the stigma of the "creepy guy" hanging in the air, and no body language available to say "hey! I'm just a normal guy who's into this and trying to make friends and/or flirt!"

I know I've banged my head off my monitor more then once over sounding like a moron online. I'm convinced that it's just a sorting problem. When you talk your brain picks words and sorts them by context and routes them through the areas which control your larynx, making you talk. I'm thinking that there must be a different pathway (or at least a weaker pathway) used when writing that causes me to blank. Perhaps crafting literature (which, when not PMing internet speech really is) is another, weaker (in me) pathway in the brain which makes me sound like I'm socially inept.

...

Too much on the sciencey stuff?

 

[Ticklish_shorty]

hahaha, no...i totally get what you mean. I'm completely hopeless over the internet.

I've given up on it, I've attempted the whole 'posting in personals section' with no luck....but, i figured thats whats to be expected....the "creepy guy" syndrome strikes again. So, i just stick with lurking and posting every once in a blue moon. 😛

 

[TickleKay]

I think you both hit the nail pretty good there, and I sympathize with you and for most decent guys who get a bad shake.

The problem is in the old story of when a younger brother has to attend the HS that his older brother went to. If the older dude was a horse's ass, then the younger one has to spend four years unsucessfully trying to prove he himself isn't.

The jerks in TK and bdsm that came along before you and hurt people have totally left a scar on all meetings to come. Most of them just wanted sex. Tickling was a means to get it. Others thought themselves 'experts' when far from. They even physically hurt some people.

The internet made it easier to contact people- and yet not be yourself. It didn't make it safer to meet people, nor easier to meet those at your level of play, nor easier to maintain relationships after meeting. It made things shallower.

Meeting someone at your level of play is also a problem. No one wants to play with someone who is boring or inexperienced or fumbling in bondage let's say. Most call themselves experts here but in person they're simply not. If you meet someone who bores you to tears, it's very uncomfortable to say "Hey I just don't want to do this with you" and leave. There's no good way to judge compatability.

The other thing is in people's stats. Of course everyone wants a good looking partner or partners. But you won't always get that. Putting that aside, it's nice to at least have them in your age range. Most guys in their 40's and 50's don't understand that girls in their 20's want guys in their 20's. It's a simple thing that seems to be overlooked. They want to be able to have more than just tickling as their common source, they want to be able to relate to the guy, his music, and everything. (That's not saying there aren't some exceptional looking guys in their 40's who could easily woo a girl in her 20's. I know that for fact.)

But over all it's the guys that hound you that are totally incompatibale with you and your playstyle that gets annoying and yet again makes it bad on guys like you who may be good a decent and a lot of fun to meet.

It's all about wanting to take a chance versus how many times you've been burned in the past 🙁

Kay

 

[blackmagicjack1]

Isn't that what life is all about?

 

[duck171]

Very well put Kay.

 

[Noeyes1]

there will be a few love stories but even more frustration.a great many folks here and throughout the tickling community tend to be without a like minded or even a willing playmate. You can visit chat rooms or the personals of pages like this but you run into one of this communities biggest problems distance.
you could find just the right person and find out they are on the other side of the contenent or even the other side of the world.
another problem is getting to know someone well enough to trust them.on the net anyone could be anyone.you will have to filter each and every response you get carefully if you are planning to bring them into your like as a playmate or better yet a lover. relationships on the net can be iffy on a good day. when your looking for something a little out of the main stream however qualified applicants tend to drop off fast.
after all have you ever tried to slip the subject of tickling into a conversation with anyone outside these rooms. I have it almost always did not end well.however the few times it did work well lets just say that there is hope for you out there.

 

[darktime666]

Uh, hello everybody.

I think you both hit the nail pretty good there, and I sympathize with you and for most decent guys who get a bad shake...

The problem is in the old story of when a younger brother has to attend the HS that his older brother went to. If the older dude was a horse's ass, then the younger one has to spend four years unsucessfully trying to prove he himself isn't....


The internet made it easier to contact people- and yet not be yourself. It didn't make it safer to meet people, nor easier to meet those at your level of play, nor easier to maintain relationships after meeting. It made things shallower...



The other thing is in people's stats. Of course everyone wants a good looking partner or partners. But you won't always get that. Putting that aside, it's nice to at least have them in your age range. Most guys in their 40's and 50's don't understand that girls in their 20's want guys in their 20's. It's a simple thing that seems to be overlooked. They want to be able to have more than just tickling as their common source, they want to be able to relate to the guy, his music, and everything. (That's not saying there aren't some exceptional looking guys in their 40's who could easily woo a girl in her 20's. I know that for fact.)



It's all about wanting to take a chance versus how many times you've been burned in the past 🙁

Kay

Well, what can I say? For some reason,
this post actually made me decide to post... for the very first time.

So heyy... how is everybody? Good? Dude, you at the back? Doing good?
Cool.
It's all good.

I've been a member (lurker)
for years...
more than 5, I think.

Guess I was just too nervous to post.
People who are close to me ah,
don't know this aspect about myself.

Pretty much what you said was the reason I gave up
on internet dating years ago...
Wait. I actually gave up on dating period.
Dammit!

And I'm 25.
Mann... soon I'll be 30.

What? Oh, right.
Get to the point.

The point is... heyy everybody!

There's a slight chance that I may be high
right now.
Just a little bit.
On boredom.

 

[TKLVR181]

High on boredom's no fun🙁

Welcome anyway!😀 I'm Karen, local Godfatheress. You probably know of me by now. Got a problem, see myself or the Mods, HDS or Missy Val.

~K

 

[TKLVR181]

"Online" by Brad Paisley 😀


I work down at the pizza pit
And I drive an old Hyundai
I still live with my mom and dad
I'm 5'3 and overweight

I'm a Sci-Fi fanatic
Mild asthmatic
Never been to 2nd base
But there's a whole nother me
That you need to see
Go check out MySpace

'cause online I'm down in Hollywood
I'm 6'5 and I look damn good
I drive a Maserati
I'm a black belt in Karate
And I love a good glass of wine

It turns girls on that I'm mysterious
I tell 'em I don't want nothing serious
'cause even on a slow day I can have a three way
Chat with two women at one time

I'm so much cooler online
So much cooler online

I get home, I kiss my mom
And she fixes me a snack
I head down to my basement bedroom
And fire up my Mac

In real life the only time I
Ever even been to L.A.
Was when I got the chance with the marching band
To play tuba in the Rose Parade.

Online I live in Malibu
I posed for Calvin Kline, I've been in GQ
I'm single and I'm rich
And I got a set of six pack abs that'll blow your mind

It turns girls on that I'm mysterious
I tell 'em I don't want nothing serious
'cause even on a slow day I can have a three way
Chat with two women at one time

I'm so much cooler online
Yeah I'm cooler online

When you got my kinda stats, it's hard to get a date
Let alone a real girlfriend
But I grow another foot
And I lose a bunch of weight everytime I log in

Online I'm out in Hollywood
I'm 6'5 and I look damn good
Even on a slow day, I can have a three way
Chat with two women at one time

I'm so much cooler online
Yeah I'm cooler online
I'm so much cooler online
Yeah I'm cooler online


😀

 

[duck171]

Alright, we have a country fan. You need to watch the video on cmt, its really funny. Also, wecome portalmortal.

 

[TickleKay]

To add a piece of perfectly timed irony to this post of how the good guys get benched by the actions of a few jerks---

I just had an annoying PM with a guy (in his 50's) who wouldn't discuss with me what type of scene, what bondage would be used, nor the headspace- the three main things that mean the most to me. He said they were unimportant to him and if they meant anything to me, too bad. He wouldn't discuss anything claiming he "wasn't going to audition for me". I was to take his word for it that he was an "expert" or "so be it".

Sure, I'll just take his word for it. Right after I buy that bridge in Brooklyn.

Anyone with a selfish and uncaring attitude like that will remain alone for a long time.

I don't consider discussion (discussion now, not cyber tickling) an audition as much as I consider it good common sense. I don't gamble. I've had my fill of meetings that totally sucked with incompatible guys with this gentleman's same attitude. No more. I'm very happy with the guy and the company I play with now where there are no such attitudes.

Kay 🙁

I think you both hit the nail pretty good there, and I sympathize with you and for most decent guys who get a bad shake.

The problem is in the old story of when a younger brother has to attend the HS that his older brother went to. If the older dude was a horse's ass, then the younger one has to spend four years unsucessfully trying to prove he himself isn't.

The jerks in TK and bdsm that came along before you and hurt people have totally left a scar on all meetings to come. Most of them just wanted sex. Tickling was a means to get it. Others thought themselves 'experts' when far from. They even physically hurt some people.

The internet made it easier to contact people- and yet not be yourself. It didn't make it safer to meet people, nor easier to meet those at your level of play, nor easier to maintain relationships after meeting. It made things shallower.

Meeting someone at your level of play is also a problem. No one wants to play with someone who is boring or inexperienced or fumbling in bondage let's say. Most call themselves experts here but in person they're simply not. If you meet someone who bores you to tears, it's very uncomfortable to say "Hey I just don't want to do this with you" and leave. There's no good way to judge compatability.

The other thing is in people's stats. Of course everyone wants a good looking partner or partners. But you won't always get that. Putting that aside, it's nice to at least have them in your age range. Most guys in their 40's and 50's don't understand that girls in their 20's want guys in their 20's. It's a simple thing that seems to be overlooked. They want to be able to have more than just tickling as their common source, they want to be able to relate to the guy, his music, and everything. (That's not saying there aren't some exceptional looking guys in their 40's who could easily woo a girl in her 20's. I know that for fact.)

But over all it's the guys that hound you that are totally incompatibale with you and your playstyle that gets annoying and yet again makes it bad on guys like you who may be good a decent and a lot of fun to meet.

It's all about wanting to take a chance versus how many times you've been burned in the past 🙁

Kay