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[P[a]pi]

TickleKay - If you are looking for someone who is into scenes and headspace then that is gonna decrease your chance of meeting someone outside of your group. Of course, the guy could have been nicer about not being into either one.

 

[nessonite1]

Papi has a good point. ideas like "headspace" or roleplaying scenarios are totally not my thing and (if I were to want to meet new poeple irl) I probably wouldn't want to meet people who couldn;'t do without that sorta thing. I assume Im not the only one who thinks that way.

 

[Ticklish_shorty]

posting twice in under a week.....what is the world coming too.😕


Anyways, great post Kay. I've always wondered how there could be so many 'experts' out there....😀

 

[ghosthunter0]

I love headspace. And I understand those points of view who say "Headspace, ho hum" (Not to be confused with Kay's experience of "headspace, who gives a shit?)

Headspace for those who have never (or could never) done it is a frame of mind somewhere between hypnosis and meditation. You're able to focus on sensations easier, and you don't care what's going on outside of that space.

(Example: my first time in headspace was at the Floating World this past september. I was able to all but screen out the 10 or so cries from people in the other adjacent dungeons, and focus on what was happening to me. Not easy for a guy with ADD!)

I could NEVER have done, tolerated, or enjoyed what my mistress did to me without headspace in place. With that being said, it isn't for everyone. For instance, you need to be able to attain the state- not everyone is. Second of all, you need to understand that you're totally helpless (regardless of the bondage conditions you might actually be in). And third of all, you need to be able to trust the person who's putting you there. Once all 3 are met, you'll have a memory that still keeps you warm on these miserable, cold, soul sucking late fall and winter months. (Can you tell I like warmer weather?)

Daniel

 

[TickleKay]

TickleKay - If you are looking for someone who is into scenes and headspace then that is gonna decrease your chance of meeting someone outside of your group. Of course, the guy could have been nicer about not being into either one.

I've a feeling that's why he's still alone. He's into himself only.

Well Papi, I truly appreciate the warm thoughts and honesty behind your advice, but I think you have the misconception that I'm out there seeking meetings or feeling unfulfilled. Nothing could be further from where I am.

Truthfully I've been in and around this tickle world for some time now, left it, came back (read blog at www.myspace.com/ticklekay) and know my way about it pretty good. I came back here and lurk less, speak out more about the female POV, feel I have the experience to do so, and try to help where I can, having fun along the way. I don't put much more faith into posts than that. If the right ladies or gentlemen are there and wish to meet, fate will push them our way or they'll PM me.

I find my chances haven't been decreased at all, Pappi, if anything the opposite!! It's expanded my range of friends. By not sacrificing my values to quicktime tickle meetings I now find meeting people (m&f) of more depth has occured, and I've made some truly great female friends too, a couple of whom I've met and played with already, and some I plan to meet. I had a chance to meet one of the all time great ticklers at this, better than I imagined he could be, and have been very happy in their playing circle too for some time.

So seeking isn't high on my agenda. I already have what I love.

You're right in what you're saying; most people here are simply into tickling for fast, light, fun, no sweat times. No connections and no depth. I understand that and the reasons behind "quickies". I respect it for if it's what they choose, so be it. It's good for what ails them. And yes I agree with you; if someone is looking for more, then perhaps they shouldn't only look here.

However that said, I feel I speak for a lot of ladies who may be afraid to speak up here when I say that we do seek something "more", deeper, more satisfying. Certainly something more cerebral or headspacy. A connection, something emotional too. Someone who is actually interested in our desires and tries to cover all the bases.

It can happen. It does.

Yes, we often run into a nasty, self centered guy such as we've spoken about here. But he only makes it bad for the other guys, not us- because we don't meet him! He loses out.

Kay:super_hap

 

[TickleKay]

Papi has a good point. ideas like "headspace" or roleplaying scenarios are totally not my thing and (if I were to want to meet new poeple irl) I probably wouldn't want to meet people who couldn;'t do without that sorta thing. I assume Im not the only one who thinks that way.

Ness, I didn't say I couldn't do without it; and often vary my plate from easy to pure fun to wild. And yes I'm sure there's many like yourself who only want it light an easy and never anything more. I say good for you if it makes you happy. Nothing wrong with that. But without a doubt it severely limits your experience irl with tickling and closes the door on anything that could be of more fun to you. Again, a personal choice.

I've met and tickled with a lot of people, well over one hundred since I've been online. This is in real life- not posting threads on TT. Posting under a screen name is easy. Real life is not. Adapting is the key.

For a couple years I was with a tickler who only wanted it one way, light and easy. Each time we engaged in a tickling time it was the same and all surfacy. No effort on his part at all. Whenever I tried to introduce something new to it, he'd blow it off.

If someone likes dry meatloaf every single night of the week, lettem have it I say! Me? And most here? We need more variety. I know this for I'm PM'd and emailed by ladies here all the time who agree with me, but are afraid to speak up here at the same time. Funny but I find no fear here at all. Why alter the truth to merely fit the mold here when you can be yourself and offer more, I say.

When you do the same thing over and over it becomes mundane. That's deadly. That's what kills most relationships. I feel theres more people out there who'd give their right arm for something fun, deeper, more exciting, more levels. I don't know any female, vanilla or fetish, who wouldn't want a deeper emotional connection to their partner.

Just look at the many artists drawings here and the stories- they're almost all more involved and deeper than most any meeting here. Why would they write them if that type of adventure wasn't in them and screaming to get out? If they're dreaming it, drawing it, writing it, then it's in them, excites them, and (in the case of the fetish world) they wish it could happen irl. Unfortunately- for whatever reason- they can't make it happen, so they create it. Believe me if they had a choice between doing it and just sitting there writing about it, their keyboard would grow cobwebs.

So don't knock the magical few that can actually make times like that happen. These are rare people unselfishly dedicated to making your time be the best that it can be.

As I said, fast quick playtime tickles of no comittment, no headspace, no sweat, no bondage, no work, and lesser levels are fine for those that they fullfill. But not for all of us.

Kay :happy:

 

[Dannigrl]

I agree with Kay about how there's so many against any type of tickling that's even slightly off the simple plain white bread type. I don't understand the reasons for this or not wanting to try something new in life, but that's other's losses and not mine. We share a similar taste in tickling and play in the same circle, Kay. I've seen Cavum and many others post as you have. We're far from alone.

I don't agree with your fate theory. I feel people need to design their own fate and path.

I agree with Nessonite that if you only want it plain and simple then that's what you should seek. It's your life and you need do as you see fit. I don't agree that most side with you however. That simple style is not all that should be offered here. I'd quit if so. TT would be too boring. There's more than one way to skin a cat. Same for tickling.

I agree with Papi that this is not the place to find anyone who wants anything more advanced mainly because people simply aren't capable of such here. A look at any available material and photos here tells you that.

However since Kay and most of the ladies I know here aren't seeking such giants from TT, that's not a prob.

I'd like to see this thread get back on course. I was enjoying reading the success stories.

I've a feeling that's why he's still alone. He's into himself only.

Well Papi, I truly appreciate the warm thoughts and honesty behind your advice, but I think you have the misconception that I'm out there seeking meetings or feeling unfulfilled. Nothing could be further from where I am.

Truthfully I've been in and around this tickle world for some time now, left it, came back (read blog at www.myspace.com/ticklekay) and know my way about it pretty good. I came back here and lurk less, speak out more about the female POV, feel I have the experience to do so, and try to help where I can, having fun along the way. I don't put much more faith into posts than that. If the right ladies or gentlemen are there and wish to meet, fate will push them our way or they'll PM me.

I find my chances haven't been decreased at all, Pappi, if anything the opposite!! It's expanded my range of friends. By not sacrificing my values to quicktime tickle meetings I now find meeting people (m&f) of more depth has occured, and I've made some truly great female friends too, a couple of whom I've met and played with already, and some I plan to meet. I had a chance to meet one of the all time great ticklers at this, better than I imagined he could be, and have been very happy in their playing circle too for some time.

So seeking isn't high on my agenda. I already have what I love.

You're right in what you're saying; most people here are simply into tickling for fast, light, fun, no sweat times. No connections and no depth. I understand that and the reasons behind "quickies". I respect it for if it's what they choose, so be it. It's good for what ails them. And yes I agree with you; if someone is looking for more, then perhaps they shouldn't only look here.

However that said, I feel I speak for a lot of ladies who may be afraid to speak up here when I say that we do seek something "more", deeper, more satisfying. Certainly something more cerebral or headspacy. A connection, something emotional too. Someone who is actually interested in our desires and tries to cover all the bases.

It can happen. It does.

Yes, we often run into a nasty, self centered guy such as we've spoken about here. But he only makes it bad for the other guys, not us- because we don't meet him! He loses out.

Kay:super_hap

 

[P[a]pi]

TickleKay - I was stating more of a hypothetical. I know that you are in a group that you obviously like.

TickleKay and Dannigrl - You can have no headspace, no scene, no roasting, no itching powder, no bastinado, no genital tickling and the experience not be "light and easy" for the lee.

I thoroughly exhaust Meka with just tickling in bondage. I make her feel like she is gonna puke, her head is gonna explode, or pass out with just tickling in bondage.

Our videos don't represent this fully because we don't feel the same when we are being taped. We don't feel alone.

 

[Meka1]

I agree with Papi that this is not the place to find anyone who wants anything more advanced mainly because people simply aren't capable of such here. A look at any available material and photos here tells you that.

Okay... advanced? Advanced at what? I don't see anything advanced happening with what you two like to do lol. That's funny that you actually said that. And when you say capable, what do you mean by that? It just seems to me that most people aren't interested in what you are doing, but that doesn't mean that they're not capable of doing it.

Also ticklekay, "fast, light, fun, and no sweat?"..i don't know what kind of tickling you've experience in the past but if thats the way you have to describe it then you're ler must've really sucked lol.

 

[nessonite1]

There are a lot of things that fall outside of the two options "light and easy" and "omg headspace wherethefuckami". I dont go for the hardcore stuff and I would never never never meet someone online for a "quickie". Doing it for tk reasons seems ever bit as distasteful as doing it for sex. Rather, I prefer being with people I'm close to. People who I could just as easily waste an evening chatting and playing video games with.
I'm not for a moment going to believe that I've closed any doors on things that I might find more enjoyable because that stuff simply isn't for me. It certainly decreases the number of experiences I'd otherwise have...but there's no way that would ever bother me. I'm not after quantity. Sure, I'd rather have more than have less, but if it would mean going into a situation that isn't my style or hang with people I wouldn't choose as friends otherwise, then I'd just end up regretting ever going and probbaly wouldnt enjoy it in the first place. No point in that. XD

 

[Featherdemon]

AN interesting one....

Hi there folks,

Only just noticed this particular thread, to my ultimate shame and it is such a wonderfully probing question that I couldn't wait to jump on and answer it. 🙂

I've been visiting this forum for many years, most of which spent lurking in the shadows and sneeking at the artwork ^^ but in the couple of years that I have started posting and chatting, its really changed me. 🙂

The love of my life was not met on this forum, nor is she into tickling all that much. O.O However, I have to be honest and say that there are ony a handful, two or three, four at the most (you know who you are) of people on this forum who I feel genuinely close too or would consider as anything close to friends.

TTC is the friendliest, most inclusive and upbeat tickle art/forum I have visited! There are none to equal it. 😀 So thanks to everyone for making me feel welcome when I joined.

But I am always conscious of the gap between who a person really is and how they can put themselves across as on a messenger screen or a board. I think there has to be more than a love of tickling for friendship to bloom, although it may be enough in the beginning. I used to think that everyone I chatted with I could class as friends but that was a little naive methinks....a lot of random chatters and mistaken identities got a hell of shock I can tell you 😛.

I love the fact that I can share and indulge my wonderful tickle obsession in a mature and safe way. And I hope to make more friends in my time here. 😀 😀

Feathers,

 

[PurrBast]

TickleKay, I agree with you (but I think you already know this due to the pm). I have had a handful of good experiences here, but a lot of them pretty weird (or miserable at worst). Not that I am going to lump all guys here into one category and stamp it saying "jerks", but I have to say, for the most part? That's how it's been. I think one of the members here summed it up best in a conversation I had with him on IM when he compared the personals to a cyber singles bar. As a girl, it doesn't seem to matter what you say or prefer on there, it's ignored and a guy will post anyway with what he wants or expects. It's enough to make you want to give up on seeking someone all together. I love tt and I love making new friends on here. But seeking a relationship or just a good tickling experience? INCREDIBLY frustrating to say the least.

 

[TMJ Productions]

I agree with Papi that this is not the place to find anyone who wants anything more advanced mainly because people simply aren't capable of such here. A look at any available material and photos here tells you that.

Really??????

Viper
Laugh out Loud
these are just 2 producers that post their material and photos here. They are sweet!
There are a few others that do a great job too!!

So, should we stop posting our stuff?
I have always thought that being different and meeting people who are different was cool, not to be looked or talked down upon!
Why do you come here if you are so advanced and we are all just simple folk???
What I really like about TT is that it is a place where one can find fun open-minded people. Open-minded about life, experiences, other people's passions, just a place where everyone was accepted. I so hope this doesn't change!!!

Meka, Papi~ you both ROCK!!:ayyy:



Back to topic!

It's very cool to hear that people are finding partners and friends here!!!
Maybe posting a personal is worth a try. One of my friends here at TT keeps telling me to try, but I always tell her that it would never work! I've heard nice guys finish last, even at TT! 😉
I've pm'd a few people, some cool, some not so cool.
As a long time lurker, who unexpectedly (I still can't believe it) started making tickling videos, it's fun to hear of real life connections being made here!!
Peace and love and tickling for all!!! For All! Even those who are so advanced they're simple!!:tired:

Sorry, i had to write that! hehehehehehehe

Silly😛
Dorky
Nerdy:nerd:
TMJ😍

 

[duck171]

So, should we stop posting our stuff?

NOOOOOOOOO!!😉

 

[mtt14]

I'm pretty sure I'm capable of putting electrodes on my nipples and itching powder on my balls, but I think I can speak for many other members when I say I just don't want to. I'm into being tickled, that's it. (bondage just adds to the tickling experience)

 

[P[a]pi]

TMJ -Thanks man. You rock too. I checked out your site. And I agree with everything you said.

I'm pretty sure I'm capable of putting electrodes on my nipples and itching powder on my balls, but I think I can speak for many other members when I say I just don't want to. I'm into being tickled, that's it. (bondage just adds to the tickling experience)

Haha, nice.

Are you sure? The electricity on your nipples and the itching powder on your balls will make them more ticklish! Oh wait... you don't give a shit.

 

[Cybertickler]

Maybe I should just stop producing all together....

 

[duck171]

Noooooooooooooo!!😉

 

[P[a]pi]

Maybe I should just stop producing all together....

Nope.

As a totally off topic side note: Do you own a Viper GTS?

 

[TMJ Productions]

Nope.

As a totally off topic side note: Do you own a Viper GTS?

I'm guessing yes!!!

Viper and Papi, we need to keep producing videos!!!
Main reason:
if we don't, Duck17's head might explode!!!😉

 

[duck171]

I'm guessing yes!!!

Viper and Papi, we need to keep producing videos!!!
Main reason:
if we don't, Duck17's head might explode!!!😉

😀 🙂 😉 I am surprised that it seems my head would be the only explosion.
PS. please dont say these things again, yall are great!

 

[TMJ Productions]

😀 🙂 😉 I am surprised that it seems my head would be the only explosion.
PS. please dont say these things again, yall are great!

Duck17,
I would never wish your head to explode!😉
You rock!:bluestar:

 

[Sockstickler]

I'll second that. You guys come up with some great materials. TMJ in particular, I'm especially impressed by a lot of your stuff. I don't think any of you are ready to hang up the feather just yet.
To bring this thread back on topic though, I can't say that I've met any girlfriends on here, but I can say that quite a few of the people that I've met on here have ended up becoming some of my best friends on or offline.

 

[duck171]

I agree this thread is way off. So, I have not met any one here that I have ever really talked to online so if anyone wants to talk, pm me or look at my yahoo address on my profile. I would like to get to know people better on this forum and Ive been here a long time. I dont want any kind of hook up, just like to get to know people better.🙂