Have you ever not broken someone from tickling

[tickleteasing]

Just wondering

 

[Redmage]

Sure. It's not like "breaking" a partner (whatever that means) is always the goal.

 

[GC4AH]

Define "break". Then I can answer.

 

[tickleteasing]

made them say the safeword

 

[Redmage]

Oh. Then no, I usually don't "break" someone I'm playing with. I consider the use of a safeword to be a sign of trouble. It means that I (as the Top) have made a mistake somewhere, missed a signal that I should have caught, and gotten my partner into a space that she needs to bail out of.

And then of course there are the times that I don't use safewords at all.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

only once did i not break my lee as hard as she was laughing and squirming to break free she never surrendered so here's to you Tina

 

[CurtWild]

i have never tried to break anyone as thats not really my style.

although....if someone said "you can't break me", it's on like donkey kong

 

[GC4AH]

I can't answer this question as me and my gf don't use safewords. I have asked her to use one for herself but she says that when she's being tickled she can't remember the word haha! Even if it is really simple like red. We use a different system. If the other person looks like they really can't take anymore we stop for a few minutes, ask how they are and if they want to continue or end the session. If they say continue then the tickling carries on, if they wanna end- it ends.

I don't know if I have broken her or not for this reason but I have made her cry on several occasions- consensually of course.

 

[-Hari-]

I tend to prefere keeping constant just barable tickle going if i can, rather than an intense session of madness and breakages

 

[Redmage]

I tend to prefere keeping constant just barable tickle going if i can, rather than an intense session of madness and breakages

Ditto likewise. My ideal is to get my 'lee thinking very, very seriously about her safeword, but never quite make her use it.

 

[Artoo]

Yep.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Hmmm I have to say yes sadly there have been times I have not really been successful in causing the other to say the safeword. There have been quite a few times unfortunately that I have not been able to "break" my lee. But I must say I agree with alot of the members especially also RedMage, for me "breaking my lee" is not really my main goal and not really my objective-I mean yes it is a great fun thing to have happen-like a sweet dessert after dinner that I have been craving suddenly have finally at last-yummy and great-savor and love that-just like I savor and bask in the moment of joy and yummy taste of victory when I eventually at last do find a way to "break my lee"

However I must say that for me I don't think "breaking a lee" is however necessary solid concrete absolute evidence and prowess of whether or not a person has the gift or not to be potentially in future a incredible powerful ler or a incredible powerful switch. You just can't make a judgement from that little bit of information from something like that.

I mean come on, anyone can "really break" a person if he or she really sets one's mind and heart on something-I mean how hard is it to "break a person" right away with no slow tickle build up and slow build up from tickle anticipation. However if a ler or switch quickly attacks and tickle pounces on their lee; especially if their lee is either shackled by hand cuffs, leather restraints, or velcro under bed restraints for tickling purposes-so he or she is defenseless and can not get free-if 15 tickle spots are tickled and pounced ruthlessly upon back to back, no break in between and without mercy...no slow teasing, no slow tickles, no slow tickle warm up and suddenly a person is pounced upon and tickled without mercy-depending on how extremely ticklish a person is---likely the person is going to "break" and say their safe word...that doesn't take rocket science lol

However I think it is more a challenge and it is even more a greater and sweeter victory when the lee is so convinced and sure he or she is strong and can hold out and "not break" then slowly tease and tickle and show them your tickle skills as a powerful ler or switch, show them how much he or she is secretly dying to just let loose and give in and surrender and scream out the safeword-when the tickling is so sweet and so intense and driving him or her completely bonkers and making him or her squirm, thrash, wiggle, and go insane with laughter and joy and it is great fun to slowly and playfully and sweetly but relentlessly and gently and a bit rough at times but not too much-try to persuade the lee to give in and surrender and "break"

Because as well as all of you know-it is agony pure agony and pure tickle bliss and pure tickle ecstacy to be btw the point of going tickle bonkers, and wanting to hold on to will-"not break" not surrender yet another side-dying yearning to just let go and let down the emotional barriers and be one's true self and just let the laughter go and release all that stress and tension...what do all of you think, what are your thoughts on this...? what you think of this tickleteasing, what are your thoughts....???? anyone else have any thoughts or want to contribute some views on this.... do some of you agree w bunny or more you can agree what tickleteasing says is true?? thanks

 

[DimpleToes]

Ditto likewise. My ideal is to get my 'lee thinking very, very seriously about her safeword, but never quite make her use it.

I like your responce.. I rather have a long fun session of play time than a serious kill say safe word over and over for them I wont want to play with you ever again. Tickling should be fun and wanting all parties looking forward to the next time.

 

[theshire]

Oh yes, plenty of times. I don't always want to "break" her anyway.

 

[taz_tickler]

I like your responce.. I rather have a long fun session of play time than a serious kill say safe word over and over for them I wont want to play with you ever again. Tickling should be fun and wanting all parties looking forward to the next time.

I am in full agreement with you - fun and pleasure for both sides

 

[ticklebunny 2]

I agree with you dimpletoes and I agree also with you taz_tickler-it needs to be a significant and a crucial key and a big time element-that both parties, both the ler and the lee it should and needs to be enjoyable and pleasurable for both parties. Yes, it is nice and great at times ocassionally get the other person to "break" but it is not necessary every time and with every session w that person or in general when having tickle sessions whether that be privately one on one or publicly having tickle sessions in front of others. Needs to be pleasurable and enjoyable---not all about "breaking" a person...

Yes "breaking" a person can be fun and enjoyable at times but me I find it more fun to slowly tease and slowly tickle and slowly drive the lee crazy with my tickle skills-seems to be more reward and seems for me to be more satisfying and a really great wonderful feeling for me-makes me happy and feel great. Tickling is about the enjoyment, laughter and enjoyment-never should be about pressure or humiliation or defeating someone-but a mutual joy and pleasure.

 

[DimpleToes]

I am in full agreement with you - fun and pleasure for both sides

thanks dear,, always leave them wanting more...🙂

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Yes I have to wholeheartedly agree with you both taz and dimpletoes; because leaving them wanting more -is more than half the fun and the greatest fun part about tickling and teasing being paired dynamically together. Without the playful sweet great teasing paired with the tickling-it is like a banana split without the chocolate and without the cherry. Teasing is what makes tickling great and dynamic and a true real thrill and a incredible tickle experience and a great happy positive one.