Unfortunately, it seems like Tamara must have run into some of the situations Jim mentioned on here. I will admit that I do leave PM's, and I will discuss tickling in them, but I never, ever, become perverted or suggestive in any PM or conversation. That is rude and uncalled for. Unfortuntately, a few bad eggs can ruin it for us guys who have honorable intent, and just want to talk tickling, and make new friends. Rather sad.
I have also noticed that Tamara has come into the chat and not spoken on several occasions. I sincerely hope that a couple of bad apples havent ruined her TMF experience, or made her wary of all guys. Tamara, while there are certain guys on here like that, there are some kind and good ones as well, gentlemen who are just looking to talk tickling in a non perverted way, and make new friends. If I may, might I suggest that you place whoever has been rude on ignore, and try talking with people who are kind and engaging. There are some very good people on this site, and it is a shame that a couple have to turn off women, and ruin it for all the rest of us guys who want to be kind and welcoming, and make new members feel at home.
Elf, I did leave you a PM yesterday, so when you get a chance, it is in your private message box. I was kind and welcoming in it. (I hope) I also sincerely hope that I will fall into the 8% of good men that Jim mentioned, so take care, and enjoy, and I do hope to hear from you with a PM soon. As for Tamara's situation, dont give up, as Iam telling you, you will meet nice people on here if you just give the site a chance, and seperate the bad from the good. Good Luck.
Mitch