how did you meet your love of your Life?

[SilverleafLycan1]

Oh my, I met my current (and only) gf in high school. We dated in sophomore year, broke up quite badly in junior, and then started talking again a little after senior. Well that's all for the boring part of the story.

Freshmen year of college we began talking about hanging out and flirting online. Unknown to me she had just started dating a guy because he wouldn't stop asking her out. Well, she came over to my place to watch a movie, called up her current bf to tell him she wasn't going to be meeting him (due to my high charisma rolls (I'm a nerd)), and broke up with him a week or so later.

Story doesn't end there. After we broke up in high school she dated a guy who was basically sum. I'm not being bitter about it, he was a drug addict (multiple drugs), failed at cheating on her...I feel like I should emphasize that part. He actually failed at cheating on her, I honestly didn't know that was possible until I heard. They split up when he went into boot, but he said that they would start dating again when he got back.

So this is the awesome part of my story, in my opinion because I'm a horrible person. It was a chrstmas party at her house. I was upstairs kneeling behind her while she was in a chair with my arms around her. He walked up the stairs filled with confidence, gift in hand. He looked over, our eyes met, and all of his hope crashed out of him. I'm pretty sure I could hear his soul break. Really, if this ever happens to you, it is a great feeling if you really despise the other person...and if you're an awful person like myself.

Oh, yeah, forgot to put down how we met. Ap Eurpopean in high school, I stole her purse and wrote my name and number in her adress book. Not as interesteign as the rest, but I think it's cute. This january will put it at 3 years we've been dating, thinking of proposing on January 21st, it's when we started dating the first time, it was january 7th the second. I'm picking the 21st because she can only remember that date for our anniversary and forgets our actual one.

 

[the_jimmy_james]

Met mine in high school. Later she became a goth and got pale and made me drool and stuff.

Yes, oh yes I love that Sam of mine.

 

[Bashiku]

All right, m8, another lesson: learn to respect yourself, find your qualities, and change your attitude into: Who wouldn't want someone like me? Because if you think so low of yourself, how do you expect other people to have higher opinion of you? Also, the image of yourself you create in you is the image people get. Example: if you walk in front of the crowd telling yourself 'I can't do it', they will think 'he can't do it', but if you walk in front of them thinking 'I can do it', they will think 'he can do it'... your state of mind really affects your non-verbal and paraverbal communication, things most people don't notice, but are crucial to most successful conversations, since about 75% information is carried by them.

Oh don't worry duke i respect myself... I respect evil me... and mini me 😀
No seriously I am not lacking in that department, but I have neither time no will to go with a serious relationship for a while, so I am saying, who would like a guy who would stay home and study instead of going out with his girl 🙂

 

[tickledpinkfeet1]

:laughing: I met my girlfriend at work over a year ago. I just liked the way she looked andwe started going out. She is very easy going and when I admitted my foot and tickling fetish she got really in to it! Next thing she was buying feathers and sexy shoes....we have had quite a few tickling sessions but I have to be honest and say that I love her and don't let it take over all the times because there are other things in life! The nice thing was that after trying to meet someone on-line and getting no-where, I just met a normal girl who is quite open to something that these days is getting quite mainstream anyway. We now have feathers on display in vases and some playfull ties on each corner of the bed - I feel very lucky indeed!

 

[Cavum]

I met absentia on a internet society just by a coincidence. On my profile I could see the last 10 people who had been there. One of them was absentia. When I went to her profile she had the words "If your Dominant enough, Im all yours". Just as a joke I sendt her a mail saying I taught it was rude that she hadn't written in my guestbook when she was on my profile. Luckely she joined in on the fun saying sorry and as a "punishment" she had to write something to me everytime she was online.

Time went and we got to know eachother more and more. We went from writing to eachother online to send SMSes to eachother. One day she was really sad cause her parents had found out about her BDSM life and they where pretty stressed out about it and gave her a hard time. That day I called her and talked with her for the first time. I tryed to comfort her as best as I could and I really wanted to help her. She had becomed my special friend.

After this day the phone calls went crazy! I spendt about 20-30 dollars on calls to her every day and we got to know eachother more and more. This was also the time we started to talk about playing with eachother and not long after we decided to meet. One week before we where supposed to meet I had night shift at my work. I had just banged my head in a metal door when she called me. She had becomed really sick and was trowing up. It was then I desided to use one sickday at work and go to her. I was planning to take a sickday anyway because I banged my head. When I got home from work I packed some stuff and went on the first train to the place she lived. I had asked her for the adress so I could find the house, so when I arrived I found a taxi and went stright up to her place. When we got there I called her and described the house and asked her if that was the house. I got a weak little yes back and I told her I was there. After a knock on the door she opened the door. My first look at absentia in real life. A cute little girl wrapped in her blanket. She went stright back to bed after opening the door cause she felt so bad. I got a bucket that I putted by her bed and got some towels and something to drink in cause she trew up again. She was also really cold so I covered her up with more blankets. Even then she was still freezing, so I lay down in her bed and holded around her to warm her up. Since I had been on a night shift it all ended up with me falling asleep. When I woke up I was alone in the bed. I sat up and I saw her in the livingroom. It was first then we sayd "Hello" to eachother. A pretty weird, but funny way to start a relationship. A month later we where official together. It was the start of a great life!

 

[the_jimmy_james]

Now THAT is a beautiful story. Congrats, Cavum! 🙂

 

[melanie2]

yes i agree with the Jimmy man there...Cavum thank you for that beautiful story...she sounds adorable..

 

[chicag0]

Cavum, I read that story on your blog and thought it was awesome. You guys have a great relationship.

 

[Cavum]

Now THAT is a beautiful story. Congrats, Cavum! 🙂

yes i agree with the Jimmy man there...Cavum thank you for that beautiful story...she sounds adorable..

Cavum, I read that story on your blog and thought it was awesome. You guys have a great relationship.

Thanks alot all 🙂
Feel like the woulds luckiest guy to have found her :happy:

 

[the_jimmy_james]

Her eyes are absolutely enchanting.

 

[Mercury1]

My boyfriend and I got together very boring-like, compared to the adventurous stories of yore in this thread. We met in high school, and... Well, that's it. No hard breakups in between, no prior dating.... Met in high school, and that's that.

Now we live together, but my darling has no interest in this side of me, so.... Yeah. But I love him anyways. ^_^

 

[little lanthi]

The love of my life I met at school, and almost 6 years later, he left me :S

My ticklepartner, I met through my bestfriend's bestfriend! And now we are all bestfriends xD

 

[Cbarton]

For MDJ and I, it was a pillow fight...

Yes, that's right

I was part of a Christian fellowship group called Koinonia at the University of Iowa. We were just getting ready to pack up for our fall weekend retreat. I was carrying things out the door of the Baptist Student Center and she had just joined and was coming the other way thru the door. I decided to be funny and playfully blocked her path. After a minute or two of banter, I let her go out. I came out the door after a few minutes and WHAM! This pillow hits me out of nowhere. I grabbed my pillow and swung back, the two of us having a full-flegded pillow fight for about 10-15 minutes in the middle of the university campus! We called a truce and loaded up. I got to know her during the retreat, started dating her, fell in love a month later, and now, 24 years later, we celebrated our 20th anniversary as man and wife.

I'm just glad she hadn't packed an anvil...:ggrin: