How do you find 'lees online?

[texastickler]

I can tell everyone here has the same idea. The issue here is that without getting to know someone, to just talk tickling out of the blue will scare most people off. Every 'lee I have had has been a friend, girlfriend or a wife. Someone I have known for a while. If you meet at a gathering through this site then there are no worries. Everyone is there on a common purpose. I turned everyone mentioned above on to the fetish, but in time.
Not right away. Gain a respect for one another as well as trust. You will find someone.

 

[ZenTickling]

You could sign up for ALT.com (top banner at ticklingtv.com). They're a dating site for people with various fetishes. You could also sign up at fetlife.com and look for people in your area.

 

[DarlingDaisy]

Well when finding people to play with its important to have a connection. I work at a Dugeon in La. california and I can say being on the same page is important.


*Darling Daisy*
From the Dominion






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[hotdog]

Usually I lure them with candy.

 

[Raytheon]

You know ive never understood the want to meet up with someone from the community. It all seems very over rated and a lot of hard work for not much bang. Not that im knocking it lol but wouldn't it be easier just to buy the attractive girl down the pub a few drinks and ask her? 🙂 I tried this the other day in class and a few peeps were actually interested lol

 

[rhiannon]

Thank you all for providing me with your input. I think I'll just do what I did in high school, find a girl make friends with them and.... tickle them. One more thing though, can anyone give me any ideas on how to ease them into tickling once I've established that they are cool with it?

Don't overdue it, that's my idea. 🙂

 

[fightinggirl666]

You know ive never understood the want to meet up with someone from the community. It all seems very over rated and a lot of hard work for not much bang. Not that im knocking it lol but wouldn't it be easier just to buy the attractive girl down the pub a few drinks and ask her? 🙂 I tried this the other day in class and a few peeps were actually interested lol

Thats right hun this kinda of approach, meeting people locally is far more likely than a meet up on here. It's also likely safer.

 

[Obelon]

I agree with what’s has been said and would like to add, it is better to know the person first rather than not know them at all. I know you’re probably thinking you would rather have a stranger than no one at all but honestly it is much better getting to know them first.

as been stated here you will have better luck finding a ticklish partner and will have a much better experience when you do play together.

 

[BOFH666]

You know ive never understood the want to meet up with someone from the community. It all seems very over rated and a lot of hard work for not much bang. Not that im knocking it lol but wouldn't it be easier just to buy the attractive girl down the pub a few drinks and ask her? 🙂 I tried this the other day in class and a few peeps were actually interested lol

Well, the idea of meeting someone from the community isn't always about 'want to be tickled / be tickled, hey YOU'LL do'. The community offers a way to get to know others before meeting them and establishing relationships. That's a little bit more work but the rewards are vast and plentiful. I've made some great friends through the tickling community and met my wife through here and the UKTF. Granted there was the small matter of the Atlantic Ocean between us but, you know, true wuv, no boundaries yadda yadda.

If you're after play partners only I'd strongly suggest getting to know the fetish scene in your area. Play parties are a good way to meet people who are not only likely to be up for some fun but will also have a reasonable chance of knowing what they're doing when it comes to bondage and safety. Of course it goes without saying that you need to be honest at those parties about your own skill level and experience as well as establshing a solid system to let you both say 'enough' if you don't know each other that well.