How Many 'Lees Like Switching?

[Redmage]

I posted a thread a few months back about 'lers switching, and it occurred to me that I should give 'lees equal time.

Do you identify as a 'lee primarily, but enjoy switching? Or not? I'd like to hear your thoughts on why you like it or don't like it.

'Lers, do you have any issues or boundaries about playing with a switchable 'lee?

 

[Italian_Touch]

uhm... being a switch should be quite self explanatory about not having problems with a switchable lee/ler...

 

[DGF1976]

I love to be a ler, it's just doesn't happen that often any more. I always end up on the recieving end.

 

[drew70]

I've been a lee since I was a toddler, literally for as long as I can remember. During the last 4 years or so that I've been attending gatherings, I've been asked to reciprocate with some tickling. I've found that I do enjoy tickling someone, if it's consensual. But by nature I'm submissive, and lack the sadistic streak that drives most Ler's. Still, each time I tickle, I enjoy it a little more, so who knows.

In this poll I voted yes, but I switch rarely.

 

[Redmage]

uhm... being a switch should be quite self explanatory about not having problems with a switchable lee/ler...

I'd expect so. But how do you connect that to what I wrote?

 

[Redmage]

I love to be a ler, it's just doesn't happen that often any more. I always end up on the recieving end.

Why does it seem to work out that way?

 

[miss_nylons]

I'm more lee then ler, but like to switch. There's nothing better then when you receive tickling and after that want to revenge, to wiggle my nails on ler's feet and underarms, to play his/hers ribs like accordion... 😀 😀 😀 but I usually don't have too much chance to switch. That's maybe the reason why I like so much to switch.
Revenge is sweet.

 

[Redmage]

I'm more lee then ler, but like to switch. There's nothing better then when you receive tickling and after that want to revenge, to wiggle my nails on ler's feet and underarms, to play his/hers ribs like accordion... 😀 😀 😀 but I usually don't have too much chance to switch. That's maybe the reason why I like so much to switch.
Revenge is sweet.

Well, welcome to the forum! I'd be surprised if you don't find some switch-friendly 'lers here.

 

[DGF1976]

Well, most of the girls I have dated recently have not been ticklish, but when they find out how ticklish I am, they qiuckly become evil lers. Actually even when the girl has been extremely ticklish, I still end up on the recieving end, I'm just that ticklish.

Why does it seem to work out that way?

 

[isabeau]

this may sound selfish, but i never had any interest in being a ler. not sure why. just always wanted to be the one tickled so i voted A. if i do have an urge to tickle hubby, its only because i am trying to get him to tickle me back.

isabeau

 

[Redmage]

this may sound selfish, but i never had any interest in being a ler. not sure why. just always wanted to be the one tickled so i voted A. if i do have an urge to tickle hubby, its only because i am trying to get him to tickle me back.

I don't know that I'd call that selfish. After all an enthusiastic 'lee gives back as much as he or she gets, just in a different form.

Not every bottom wants to top. That's part of what I'm exploring here.

Well, most of the girls I have dated recently have not been ticklish, but when they find out how ticklish I am, they qiuckly become evil lers. Actually even when the girl has been extremely ticklish, I still end up on the recieving end, I'm just that ticklish.

Can't find ticklish women? That's a run of bad luck for sure. The overwhelming majority of women I've dated have been ticklish, though they vary in how much they like it.

If you're so ticklish that you're hopeless in a tickle-fight, then may I suggest cheating? Tie them down first, then get your 'ler fix. 😉

 

[Mimi]

I started off as a strict lee. The only time I had an interest in lering was specifically to instigate and nothing more. Then I attended my first gathering in NY and was asked by the lovely lady half of the Venrays to help torture her poor ticklish hubby to insanity along with njjen.

That shrieking and begging and laughing and squirming just did something to me I can't explain. I discovered a whole new sadistic streak I never knew existed. It's probably still thanks to Ray (and Tracy) to this day that I am now an equal switch.

And Lazzy is VERY happy about that. 😉

Mimi 😀

 

[WraithTickler]

I identify myself mostly as a lee since that's where I get most of my pleasure from tickling and all things being equal I'd rather be on the receiving end than the giving. That being said, I'm not adverse to tickling either since it is something I enjoy, but to a lesser extent. Still, it's all in good fun for one so there's no need to be selfish, and sometimes a provoking a tickle is a good way to get it back. 😀

 

[MAticklee]

Before I had a real tickling experience, I always considered myself a 'lee. Then one night I was talking to someone on the phone about tickling and the girl said she'd want that to happen to her, and wanted me to describe what I would do. As I went into some detail based on what I would want done to me, I started to really get into it and then realized I'd actually enjoy being a 'ler as well.

This summer I met a girl on here and had a few tickling experiences for my first times. I ended up liking being the 'ler almost as much as being the 'lee! however I still consider myself a 'lee (hence "MAticklee") because that's where I get the pleasure from; being tickled and feeling it.

So for the answer for this poll, I am a lee that doesn't mind switching.