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How to identify a fetishist?

Mehcookie

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Hello there, some of you may know me, some may not.
I have had a tickle and foot fetish my whole life now. I keep them secretly, and I do I damn good job at it too.
Only 2 people I know, know my secret. But I trust them for a reason.
But I cannot openly admit my fetish, because mainstream close-minded people will think me as a freak.

I do playfully tickle friends once in a while, but they are clueless I have the fetish. Not even the faintest thought.

But I really want to share my fetish with someone with the same fetish. So far I have had no avail.

Share your ideas on how I can identify a fetishist secretly without blowing my cover.
So far the only suspect I have or a prime target would be a girl I know, but I want to know how to share my fetish without getting fucked.
 
Step 1: Fiddle with one of your shoes in public.

Step 2: Look around for boners.

Step 3: Profit.


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But I cannot openly admit my fetish, because mainstream close-minded people will think me as a freak.

The only person who needs to know about your fetish is your s.o. - so don't openly admit your fetish. Nobody cares. I don't tell anybody which position I like in bed, it's nobody's business.

Sorry to disappoint you - you can only identify a fetishist by asking or going to a fetish convention or another environment like that.
 
Unfortunately, all the girls that might share your fetish are also probably really nervous and uncomfortable talking about it to other people, so the only way to really know is to get to know the girl, and bring it up casually in conversation, and see how she reacts.
 
I am actually working on a DNA test so soon all you will need is a sample of that 😛
 
Easy.

If she's carrying a small can of MACE or Pepper Spray on her keychain, she definitely LOVES tickling, and especially loves it when a guy sneaks up behind her and grabs her around the waist. Try it sometime. 🙂

Seriously, what do you want, for everyone to wear a little ID tag so you never, ever, have to worry about getting shot down when you confess your little fetish? Great. So, they'll have to deal with the possibility that you only want them for that one thing (sadly, there may be one or two women on the forum who know all about that). But at least you wont have to have your widdle feewings hurt.

Here's a hint...come closer.

Closer....

{OUCH} Too Close. Back up.

Okay...here goes. Ready?
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Learn to fuck really good. I mean really, really good. No one's saying hide your desires. But bring something else to the table.
Most people aren't just fetishists, or just vanilla (and I personally hate the negative connotations of that word). Most people have at least one or two hidden swirls of flavor.

Or you can go on looking for someone who shares your EXACT interests.
How's that workin' out for you so far?
 
Easy.

If she's carrying a small can of MACE or Pepper Spray on her keychain, she definitely LOVES tickling, and especially loves it when a guy sneaks up behind her and grabs her around the waist. Try it sometime. 🙂

Seriously, what do you want, for everyone to wear a little ID tag so you never, ever, have to worry about getting shot down when you confess your little fetish? Great. So, they'll have to deal with the possibility that you only want them for that one thing (sadly, there may be one or two women on the forum who know all about that). But at least you wont have to have your widdle feewings hurt.

Here's a hint...come closer.

Closer....

{OUCH} Too Close. Back up.

Okay...here goes. Ready?
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Learn to fuck really good. I mean really, really good. No one's saying hide your desires. But bring something else to the table.
Most people aren't just fetishists, or just vanilla (and I personally hate the negative connotations of that word). Most people have at least one or two hidden swirls of flavor.

Or you can go on looking for someone who shares your EXACT interests.
How's that workin' out for you so far?

Your post had me cracking up XD
 
I have 2 girlfriends (just friends). Who really like tickling me and eachother. And there is that girl I mentioned that regularily takes off her shoes and sometimes talks about her socks.

My prime suspects.
 
And your problem with that is...... ?
 
"I do playfully tickle friends once in a while, but they are clueless I have the fetish. Not even the faintest thought."

Trust me your friends already know about your fetish....:bugeyed:
 
I'd say that it'd be really difficult to tell for a lot of people, especially just at a glance or by appearances. A lot of people keep their cool, even when something 'interesting' is happening nearby. Not to mention - tickling is barely known as a fetish, so it's not like people expect random others to be into it! As mentioned before, just see if the person you end up in a relationship with is cool with your fetish and will play along, and hopefully develop one of their own.

Now, every so often, people talk about making a tickling 'symbol' for us to wear, that'd be inconspicuous to those not in the know...
 
Learn to fuck really good. I mean really, really good. No one's saying hide your desires. But bring something else to the table.

So far the only suspect I have or a prime target would be a girl I know, but I want to know how to share my fetish without getting fucked.

He said in the beginning that he didn't want to get fucked.
 
I normally use body language(eye contact). When I'm conversing; I maintain eye-to-eye contact, because I am interested(getting to know her!). Outside of that: boobies, belly, and feet. Her butt, if the opportunity presents itself.

I am very obvious and honest...
 
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