How to tickle a teacher

[kingp]

I plead guilty

To tickling teachers in my past, from 2nd grade on up. I was never reprimanded, but I could tell when my move toward good natured jocularity was not welcomed, and sometimes it was welcomed. In fact there was one lady who was my favorite target throughout high school and I would only tickle her after the school day was over and I got to tickle her often. I never thought I could be suspended for it, but then again, I was never threatened with it. All I can say is, befriend this teacher, be gentlemanly. If you get an opportunity after school, take it and gauge her reaction. If you get the cold death stare, then DON'T push your luck. If she takes it in the fun nature in which it is presented, then maybe you will be able to tickle again.

Follow her lead and respect a No if you hear it. Its a generally good rule to carry on in life and not just in tickling. I think you can tell when a tickle is kinda liked and enjoyed by the lee and when it isn't.

 

[vsa7a]

here you go..tell your brother to buy/watch this instead

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[penny lane]

Damn you really live in a very scared society! Is sexual harassment just to tickle a cute feet?

Welcome to the 21st Century. 🙂

It's a big taboo here in the States to touch your students or your teacher. It's really not appropriate, and it can be used as grounds for sexual harassment.

Speaking as a teacher, I would be a bit weirded out if one of my students tried to tickle me. But I don't think I would cry sexual harassment...well, actually it would depend on the situation. I would first sit them down and politely tell them that it's NOT acceptable to touch someone like that. And if the person continued after that, then yes, I would take some sort of action. I would probably just send them to the principal and let them deal with it.

 

[blktklr]

tickling a teacher

Don't do it. I'm pretty sure your fantasy outcome is better than the real one, stick with the fantasy. When I was in elementary school I had the same fantasies. I knew back then that actually doing so could be uncomfortable and embarrassing for me and her. Your brother is young and impressionable and it is up to you to advise him against things that could be harmful for him......I believe this is one of those cases.


Blktklr

 

[alf]

I'd rather don't try. Unless she asks for it, or her shoe slips and you are the lucky one to put in on ( dream it occurs rarely 🙂 !! ). If i had the will to tickle all the teachers that were quite cute, i'd have finished school quickly.

Trust me 😛

 

[ViperGTS]

You don't.

We don't talk about this kind of thing here as your brother is a minor.

 

[Space-marine]

Interesting

Some interesting info gathered here. I doubt where I live that he would get into much trouble for a quick foot tickle.
The warnings you all gave are good though.
He wants to tickle an english,maths,german,science,french and school secretary.
He is generally liked by teachers.
So I'll tell him to avoid it but if it comes down to it to be careful.
Any other advice?

 

[Oddjob0226]

Generally, here in the south we're much more laid back than the rest of the fearful paranoia-juiced U.S. of A. Except when it comes to Mexicans. But beyond that, I recall 4 separate instances where teacher/student tickling occurred in my high school days. I don't doubt more occurred that I didn't see. NOBODY got suspended or "in trouble". Oh no - a school kid getting into trouble? What kind of Moseys imperfection strip are kids these days trapped upon? I blame the media!

If others can assume he's a minor in high school then I can equally assume that he's 18, even 19, and therefore completely legal free game. Without making an ass out of himself - that WILL get him into trouble - he just needs to do it. Quickly, as a joke, no big deal, he‘s met his objective; It‘s done, be kind - rewind.

Unbelievable as it sounds people in an educational setting can use the Sherlock Holmes method of deduction and figure out, with great effort, that 3 seconds of tickling is not the same thing as rape.

I’m not talking about having a school-wide David D’Amato theme day here, I just mean teachers are generally too busy trying to argue creationism vs. evolution while watching out for the Eric Harris & Dylan Klebolt reboots bent on hunting down the REAL pedophile teachers who introduced them to cheese heroin to seriously worry about some Trekked nerd that, in humiliation, will predictably fall back into line, Pink Floyd/The Wall-style, with a simple finger waggin’ scolding from the teacher that didn’t appreciate his goal-oriented drive.

In Marble Falls, Texas elementary kids were found to be giving each other ORAL SEX IN THE CLASSROOM and no one got suspended.

"But OJ, it's a different world now.'

No, it isn't. People have always had real stuff to worry about, then they piled on phantom pooka quandaries to tremble at so as to thoughtfully protect us from ourselves. Yes, people have paid a heavy price in disturbing those cardboard fear-goblins that societies prop up, but it's still as stupid now as it has been throughout history.

“But sexual harassment, OJ! Sexual Harassment!”

Time and time again U.S. courts have ruled that for a charge of sexual harassment to be valid there has to be:

A.) A pattern of harassment.
B.) The harasser has to have been warned previously in clear terms to knock it off yet still kept up the pattern.
B.) subsection 1.) Most of the time, in successful cases, there were clear roles of supervisor/subordinate.

And the long arm of the law would have to prove that a couple seconds of tickling equates something “sexual”.

Let him tickle. Let him have a laugh or get shot down. Those are the only two realistic outcomes.

Be careful, like you say. Like everything else in life, that's all.





Besides, this poster might just be jackin' with us.

 

[bellystrokes]

This really makes me sad, because I so adore oddjob and Kingp but I so disagree with you both.

1. My body, my self, my say on who touches it!!!! Yes a tickle is not the same as a rape, but it is still my body receiving the touch and I have the right to say who gets to touch and not touch it. Please extend that courtesy to teachers too.

2. The original character does not sound as if he is very astute so I doubt he will be savvy or exercise the good judgment when presented an opportunity. So to encourage him is like encouraging a non-swimmer to jump off cliffs in Acapulco.

3. I have had a million crushes and fantasies in my life and some of you who know me know how I have managed to fulfill some of my dreams with some of my crushes way beyond my expectations---but never did I assume I had the right to anyone's body or privacy, etc. I was terribly respectful and was invited into to their lives.

4. The woman is question is not a classmate or possible prom date, she is a teacher and she needs to grade his work, discipline him in class, etc. Best to keep the relationship teacher/student.

5. In high school, he is probably a minor, read what Viper said.

6. My body, my self, my say on who touches it and who does not.

7. Even at some gatherings (and no I won't mention which ones; but there have a few in different areas of the country) there have been problems with "uninvited touch" and now we are encouraging a kid to touch his teacher in such a manner.

8. My body, my self, my say on who touches and who does not. Case close.

 

[vsa7a]

how bout this tell the guy to get himself a girlfriend be with her and get to know each other for quite a while, maybe use alcohol if he could legally get away with it. flirt, get her to flirt and then tickle her.

or tell him to keep his wanking to this

vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&VideoID=22186351

after all. tell him to grow up and show some self-control.

 

[ViperGTS]

lol that's hot...I might have to do a shoot in a classroom one of these days.

 

[Oddjob0226]

This really makes me sad, because I so adore oddjob and Kingp but I so disagree with you both.

There’s no need to be sad; it’s intellectual wrangling, not the establishing of public policy.

I think if we spoke truthfully, outside of our personal fetish niches, we’ve engaged in a lot of nonconsensual - but social and harmless - touching. Be it handshakes that we perform as part of an automatic ritual of society, or spontaneous hugs. Or even tickling that we have given or gotten over the course of our lives. Out side of our kink, we didn’t ask permission or give permission for most of these touches.

Part of the issue’s crux is this ... he has to tickle her in order for her to say ‘no’ in the first place. And if she does say 'don't do that again', then he'd presumably obey her wishes (or suffer the consequences) and the world would spin on… It isn't that big of a deal. Really!

What this guy wants to know is, since he does have a fetish for tickling, how can he indulge with an older authority figure and make it “vanilla”. Part of the problem, though, is, since he’s trying to set something up, he’s making it too “fetishy” . For the action to be appropriate it just needs to happen naturally and then that’s that. My German teacher broke a strap on her shoe in class once and I offered to fix it. We twisted up a paper clip and I managed to create a kind of temporary fix. But while down on the floor fixing the strap I also gave her arch about a 2 second tickling. I got a cheap little thrill out of it, she had a light moment in the day, and the sun came up the next morning. That’s all it was. And all it should have been. It all seemed normal; in fact it all pretty much was. Anything ‘fetish’ about it was MY issue, and I handled it. Self control, as V said. But also a happy medium. Life isn’t always worse-case scenarios. By bringing them up we have the illusion of having some contol in the bigger world out there.

If this guy wanting to tickle a teacher makes it anything more out of the situation then yes, of course he is crossing a line. But just to briefly tickle someone he has his eye on, and all these adults giving advice filled with fear and outrage, what silliness. Could he go too far with it? Yes. Humans are capable of taking anything to far. Should he completely remove the thought from his mind. Why, exactly?

Sexual harassment? Job loss? Suspension?

Nope, that too much of a vengeful/paranoia mix to take seriously. Why is no one seeing that this is how this would go realistically?. We are such adults; sometimes we need to act less than our age. No need for moral over-correction. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Sometimes tickling is only tickling.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

Should he completely remove the thought from his mind. Why, exactly?

Sexual harassment? Job loss? Suspension?

Nope, that too much of a vengeful/paranoia mix to take seriously. Why is no one seeing that this is how this would go realistically?. We are such adults; sometimes we need to act less than our age. No need for moral over-correction. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Sometimes tickling is only tickling.

i have to disagree, Oddjob. if the OP is serious, and the brother went through with it, many things can happen afterwards...with quite a few of them being bad.

you gotta remember the society we live in. no matter if you live in Longview or Long Island, people go nuts over the smallest, dumbest things, especially if they deal with children and teachers, preachers, cops, etc.

it's good to have a few fantasies, but not good to act them out with the wrong people.

 

[baubaloo]

Luckily for me my brother is into tickling. He is still in highschool and he would really like to tickle the feet of a teacher he likes. How can he get an excuse or a reason to tickle her soles?

Well, just an idea... He could always ask. What I mean is, he could be straight up and just ask if she is ticklish, then ask to try to tickle her. I ask ladys this all the time at bars. =) Or even be kinda sneeky about it and say he's writing a paper on being ticklish, and ask if she can help him for a minute.

I don't see him getting in trouble for asking... And I always say ask first...

Just my 2 cents...

Bobaloo

 

[Oddjob0226]

you gotta remember the society we live in.
QUOTE]

Yes, but the people exsisting in an uncomfortable combo of self-rightousness & fear, allowing others to cow them with 'consequnces' over what is obviously the smallest, dumbest things, those are the people who help the society we live in stay the way it is, until it takes the next, worse step.

A student goofin' with his teacher, society hasn't changed that much. That's Groucho Marx puncturing the artifice of authority stuff. In the right dose it's harmless & silly.

 

[milagros317]

1. My body, my self, my say on who touches it!!!! Yes a tickle is not the same as a rape, but it is still my body receiving the touch and I have the right to say who gets to touch and not touch it. Please extend that courtesy to teachers too.

6. My body, my self, my say on who touches it and who does not.

8. My body, my self, my say on who touches and who does not. Case close.

This is the key point and deserved to be repeated.

 

[bellystrokes]

Thank you dear Mils.

 

[Space-marine]

This really makes me sad, because I so adore oddjob and Kingp but I so disagree with you both.

1. My body, my self, my say on who touches it!!!! Yes a tickle is not the same as a rape, but it is still my body receiving the touch and I have the right to say who gets to touch and not touch it. Please extend that courtesy to teachers too.

2. The original character does not sound as if he is very astute so I doubt he will be savvy or exercise the good judgment when presented an opportunity. So to encourage him is like encouraging a non-swimmer to jump off cliffs in Acapulco.

3. I have had a million crushes and fantasies in my life and some of you who know me know how I have managed to fulfill some of my dreams with some of my crushes way beyond my expectations---but never did I assume I had the right to anyone's body or privacy, etc. I was terribly respectful and was invited into to their lives.

4. The woman is question is not a classmate or possible prom date, she is a teacher and she needs to grade his work, discipline him in class, etc. Best to keep the relationship teacher/student.

5. In high school, he is probably a minor, read what Viper said.

6. My body, my self, my say on who touches it and who does not.

7. Even at some gatherings (and no I won't mention which ones; but there have a few in different areas of the country) there have been problems with "uninvited touch" and now we are encouraging a kid to touch his teacher in such a manner.

8. My body, my self, my say on who touches and who does not. Case close.

Yes I respect that but tickling is just playful.
For example if you were tickled by a group of friend, you might not want to be tickled but yet you wouldn't feel offended or violated.

 

[bellystrokes]

The young man in question is not a friend of the teacher. He is a student. Big difference.
I have expectations and tolerance for friends that I don't have for colleagues, certain relatives, certain neighbors, total strangers, etc.

If a person has to think about how can I tickle her, then he is not in her life to the extent that it will happen naturally and playfully. And it probably wouldn't be welcomed. Sometimes, one should think about the other person---strange concept I know.

Tickling is not always playful to the person receiving it. It is sometimes invasive and annoying.

When I attend a gathering I expect to be handled even if I walk across the room. I have given carte blanche consent for the duration of the party. But there are times I want to be untouched and I expect my friends to respect that. But most of them know me well enough and can read me as I can read them; and it is rare when a good friend invades or annoy me. But then again, they are not writing to forums asking for ideas how to ambush a person into a quick tickling moment. Again, if you have to work that hard at it, you probably shouldn't be doing it.

 

[vsa7a]

you know your brother is about to get his ass kicked if he like continued on with this. its kind of like saying he may not get charged for sexual assault but he may get charged for assault. are you his bigger or better brother? if you are, then you need to tell him to show some self-control, self-discipline or self-restraint. dont do nonsense like that because 1) its embarassing and 2) grow the fuck up.

 

[Palendrome]

well, I hear what everyone was saying, but I had a different situation in highschool. I had a teacher (theater) whom I tickled on a few occasions with no reprocussions, but it was a perfect storm situation

1. she was very young at heart and never really took the student-teacher relationship seriously

2. she was one of my older sister's good friends that I had been around quite a bit outside of school.

3. I only tickled her when conditions were ABSOLOUTELY PERFECT; (no one around, feet perfectly exposed, in context where I could give excuse) and only on the feet

4. I did it extremely seldom ( like twice a year seldom)

I will never forget that either, she had the softest soles, and they were extremely ticklish. Ahh, good times

 

[baubaloo]

When I was in high school I tickled one of my teachers feet. And yes, I asked first, and she let me. Like above, the situation was ideal. No one around, we were in a comfortable environment. She was an older lady, but was still very attractive, and her feet were out of this world...

It's funny, cuz she always wore some really sexy shoes, like she knew her feet were hot, and when I asked, she acted a little shocked. But then she shocked me with, yes.

I never got in trouble, and I don't think she should have either. Not that I was going to tell or anything...

 

[Umojar]

Please listen to the smart people and don't do it.

Anyone posting on this forum clearly doesn't see tickling as just playful, so that argument doesn't fly. Like bellystrokes stated, some people can have a negative response to tickling, and you really don't want to go for it just because you don't have to worry about getting in trouble like oddjob is suggesting(which is also wrong). If it's unwanted contact, it's sexual harassment by definition. It has potential to create too many problems. Let it go.

 

[vsa7a]

well, I hear what everyone was saying, but I had a different situation in highschool. I had a teacher (theater) whom I tickled on a few occasions with no reprocussions, but it was a perfect storm situation

1. she was very young at heart and never really took the student-teacher relationship seriously

2. she was one of my older sister's good friends that I had been around quite a bit outside of school.

3. I only tickled her when conditions were ABSOLOUTELY PERFECT; (no one around, feet perfectly exposed, in context where I could give excuse) and only on the feet

4. I did it extremely seldom ( like twice a year seldom)

I will never forget that either, she had the softest soles, and they were extremely ticklish. Ahh, good times

very good for you..why dont you post that in true stories forum??

When I was in high school I tickled one of my teachers feet. And yes, I asked first, and she let me. Like above, the situation was ideal. No one around, we were in a comfortable environment. She was an older lady, but was still very attractive, and her feet were out of this world...

It's funny, cuz she always wore some really sexy shoes, like she knew her feet were hot, and when I asked, she acted a little shocked. But then she shocked me with, yes.

I never got in trouble, and I don't think she should have either. Not that I was going to tell or anything...

now those two above may have gotten away with it. but you definitely have to take into account that those <u>WERE</u> the days. YOU are less likely to be lucky today.

nowadays america is reactionary towards even the simplest mischief

regardless you are just asking for your ass to be kicked <b>BIG TIME</b>

 

[giggle-maker]

8. My body, my self, my say on who touches and who does not. Case close.

Moreover, this is WHY he'd get into so much trouble. It's just unadvisable all around. Great for fantasy writing. Bad for real life.