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I can't date a girl who isn't ticklish..

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So, I've dated a few girls in the past couple of months to try finding a "match" for a relationship. Of course, I'm not JUST looking for a sexual partner but am feeling a need for a serious relationship at the moment that's both physical and mental. Although, not many want to read about the other portion of my needs so let's get to the point. To me, a girl being ticklish is a major point because that's what majority of the foreplay would be. So, I dated this girl who actually just left my apartment and we fooled around.. she let me tickle her for a minute and she wasn't ticklish at all.. what a downer. I just can't see myself with someone like that because my interest is tickling, my main turn on is tickling.. does everyone here feel the same way?
 
Your desires may change over time and what you may find to be a turn on now, may change dramatically. It is the human way.
 
I agree with you. Call me shallow if you want, but tickling is a huge part of my life and my main turn on. I want a relationship with someone who can share this part my life. I found someone who shares this with me and it is great!
 
I echo that. I need a woman who is ticklish and can accept my foot/tickling fetish. Why can't you find someone like that and not be called shallow. Women demand certain things in a man and no one calls them shallow. Good luck finding that someone special and ignore the critics.
 
It's ok to want tickling in a relationship ^_^
I would want it to, which is why I told my girlfriend about it, and it actually improved our relationship!! Like duck17 said its quite fine!
Dont go looking for a girl just because she's into tickling like us. Establish a friendship/relationship, and be honest with her. If she trully cares for you she will embrace your love of tickling, because its a part of you and she loves that. Just go out there as usual, know that your love for tickling isnt wierd or preverse, and act like it. Just be patient 😉
 
i know how you guys feel, i want a companion who understands that i want everybody to die and burn in the flaming pits of hell, why is that so difficult
 
How can a girl be "the one" if she ain't ticklish or accept your fetish?
I can't understand people who get together with a girl where they have to
hide theyre fetish. Aucklandtickler respons "Like her for who she is! Otherwise you'll be lonely and deservedly so?" is a typical im trying to be so romantic bullshit statement. A relationship have to parts. It's you, and the girl. Both parts must be satisfied if it's going to work. Yeah sex ain't EVEYTHING, but it is a BIG part of a relationship. If the sexlife don't work, then the whole relationship will die fast. So keep on looking dude and don't feel bad. Your doing the right thing by looking for a girl where you can live out your fetish side.
 
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Journia said:
Your desires may change over time and what you may find to be a turn on now, may change dramatically. It is the human way.
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Well...you don't have a fetish for tickling, so that statement is kind off bull if you ask me 😉 If you have a fetish, it's there for the rest of your life. If it changes...well...then you just like it. There is a big difference between to have a fetish for something or to like something.
 
oriyaborealis said:
i know how you guys feel, i want a companion who understands that i want everybody to die and burn in the flaming pits of hell, why is that so difficult
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Guy, I understand your needs and know exactly how you feel.

Wanna fuck?
 
It's very rare as you look for someone perfect for you. Not because of their good looking (as would some ppl be going for), but for who they are, and how they like or dislike. So I say this: don't give up, or you'll end up sipping a cup full of sick pup.
 
It's important that people accept tickling, if they are your girlfriend or whatever. However, that's different from actually being ticklish. If they aren't ticklish, there's really nothing anyone can do about it and if you don't accept their non-ticklishness and turf them aside because of it that makes you just as bad as the girl who is weirded out (and possibly hurts your feelings) by your tickling fetish.

Your thoughts/comments/observations?
 
aucklandtickler said:
It's important that people accept tickling, if they are your girlfriend or whatever. However, that's different from actually being ticklish. If they aren't ticklish, there's really nothing anyone can do about it and if you don't accept their non-ticklishness and turf them aside because of it that makes you just as bad as the girl who is weirded out (and possibly hurts your feelings) by your tickling fetish.

Your thoughts/comments/observations?
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Thats stuff you find out BEFORE starting dating the girl...
 
Thats stuff you find out BEFORE starting dating the girl
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Exactly. The whole point of dating is to find out who you have a connection with. Relationships break up over many things, like because someone talks too much or has an annoying habit. Hell you can loose a girl just for leaving the toilet seat up too many times. I dont think not being ticklish is a bad reason, esp if its a very important issue with you.
 
But the moust important thing of em all....COMMUNICATION!!
If your not able to share stuff, tell what you feel, tell what you like etc etc
it woun't be a good relationship. Moust people SUCK when it comes to communication in relationships. No wonder the devorce rate is sky high!

Be honest and don't keep secrets.
 
If your not able to share stuff, tell what you feel, tell what you like etc etc
it woun't be a good relationship
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Once again, you are exactly right. It feels great to share your deepest secrets with someone you totally trust.
 
For me, tickling would be a major part of a relationship too. I've been put off guys/girls before because they aren't ticklish.
 
My ler is the first person I've dated with whom I've been completely honest about my desires. She and I have the most healthy relationship I've ever experienced. And she LOVES making me squirm/laugh/lose it...it's become a turn-on for her, as well...and she's super ticklish herself, has the most beautiful laugh, and occasionally allows me to tickle her...she's amazing...today is our 4 year anniversary...and we're fabulous!!!

I couldn't have gotten into a relationship without telling my significant other about my needs/desires early on to find out if we were compatible...otherwise, without us both being honest about our tastes, it leaves too much room for lies, deceit, and dishonesty...which is never good for any relationship.

I couldn't have dated someone who wasn't open to trying new things...that's how I feel about it...and it's not fair to judge someone else for ending a relationship that wasn't going to work out for them before it got too serious emotionally--I commend you for knowing what you want, and for going after it without allowing things to go on and on unhappily for both of you.
 
I agree with you Camel. For me, Tickling is more of a thing than Sex, and so being in a relationship with someone who isnt ticklish would be like being in a relationship with someone and not being able to make love...
 
I'm the only one who is 50/50 on this situation. :S

There's one side of me who agrees with the majority. Sex and intimacy is a huge part of a relationship, and we must satisfy that in order to have a good relationship.

But I can't bring myself to say that tickling has to be a major significant factor to whom I go out with. It's like you find someone with killer looks and personality (and likes you back), but if she isn't that ticklish you jsut shove her away. I'd find a way around it, like finding someone who'll be a "tickle slave" or go to one of those dungeons. 😛

But that's jsut me personally. I know what you're all saying, it's just how I feel. :super_hap
 
If they dont have the qualities you are looking for, then you must move on. You will eventually lose patience at some point in the relationship if you try to find a way around it. Its black or white in this situation, especially when it involves a meaningful relationship. Now, if it were more temporary fun, then yeah, find a way around it, lol but I wouldnt hire a person if I did not believe they were qualified.
 
ok
just date a lot of girls
DONT break up with them just because they dont have one thing that doesnt please you
THAT IS BEING A FAG!
DONT DO THAT!
just like the girls for who they are
but Im not saying you have to stay with a bitch
IF SHE ISNT TREATING YOU WITH RESPECT
THAN DUMP HER AND MOVE ON


thats my 2 cents
 
haha revboy, that is like the best post in this thread so far, except for any posts that were made by me because i am of course the awesomest thing since sliced bread
 
Yeah that was great advice. Instead of having a real relationship just mess around with everyone, that way you wont be a fag.🙂
 
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