I can't date a girl who isn't ticklish..

[TheChameleon]

ok
just date a lot of girls
DONT break up with them just because they dont have one thing that doesnt please you
THAT IS BEING A FAG!
DONT DO THAT!
just like the girls for who they are
but Im not saying you have to stay with a bitch
IF SHE ISNT TREATING YOU WITH RESPECT
THAN DUMP HER AND MOVE ON


thats my 2 cents

Y'know... thats not really a cool thing to call people.

Alot of my good friends "play for the other team" so to speak, and, there's not really anything wrong with that, the way I look at it.

I'm not saying this as a Mod, but, as a member of the site, really, is it that important to use a sexual orientation as a demeaning word?

Also, you call women "bitches" which, is apparently the new way to say "woman" in the 2000's, which, is also horrible.

I'm not saying I haven't been guilty of using both of those words in a negative connotation, but, remember that there are many people from many different walks of life here, I believe it would be in everyone's best interest to remain as peaceful as possible.

For example, would you call someone "A fag" if you were in a building with a large group of really tough and strong looking homosexuals? Probably not...

Its like people who say the "N" word, most of them aren't going to say it when there's a group of black people walking towards them.

Remember, I'm not saying "I am Mod, listen to me for I control your postings!"
But, I'm saying this as a person who believes that words like fag, bitch, and the "N" word shouldn't be used in a hostile or destructive way.

 

[Journia]

But, I'm saying this as a person who believes that words like fag, bitch, and the "N" word shouldn't be used in a hostile or destructive way.

Say it...Say it.....

 

[Camel26]

Wow Revboy...you sound like you must belong to MENSA.

And you must have ladies crawling all over you. Especially when you call them bitches--us classy girls LOVE that!!!

Let me help you with your definition of the word "fag":
1) The British slang for cigarette
2) A small bale of twigs bound together for kindling
3) An EXTREMELY hurtful, hateful term for a male who identifies as a homosexual

If someone is dating a person of the opposite gender, and decides that said person is not right for them, for whatever reason, and dumps them...well, your terminology doesn't fit the definition.

Educate yourself before you speak.

Please.

 

[Darth Vegeta]

Frankly i don't see the problem? She isn't ticklish? Ticklish is a nice extra like say a girl is a good lover. But it shouldn't be the core of things.
For example if a woman isn't that active or good at certain sexual activities... does that mean she'd make a bad girlfriend or lifemate, wife, counterpart or so? Not in my book and i do have a fetish.
But there's more to life than focussing on it.
Like love, compagnionship, mutual support, etc.
But it's your call to determine how vital it is. I myself don't think it should be a deciding factor...

 

[mart]

I believe that one should try in all possible ways to establish compatibility before starting out on a relationship, in order to avoid hurting another person, who feels rejected by not meeting expectations that he or she cannot fulfill. The only way to do this is to establish it by 1) trial, or 2) asking. It could just take a little more time than going straight on a date and hitting the sack afterwards - to one's mutual disappointment.
Take in a cup of coffee, drive somewhere and either, if it can be done without appearing like a pervert on the make, testicle, I mean, test tickle her, or bring it up in some non-committal way in conversation. If you do not get the results you are looking for, carry on a reasonable and decent conversation for friendship's sake and don't ask her out again. Best is that she never finds out why it does not go further, but has a pleasant memory of a good, interesting chat with a decent guy.

 

[chode]

okayokay.................How old are you dude? As you get older, as i have, im a whopping 30 as of this past july, you will let certain things go, and some others you just cant. Like i stopped wanting a girl to have like perfect toes or whatever. But stil ticklish with "decent" feet worked for me. Bu then she ended up being more fucked up in the head than i can comment on. And if your going to be "messing" around with a girl whom you claim to want to have a mental connections with, then drop her for not being ticklish is pretty cowardly in my opinion. If you want this mental part equally, then you need to hold off on messing around with anyone, period. Ive dated girls for a couple months and done nothing buyt kiss them. They would even get pissed about it, but i wanted to see if there was more to her than just a slammin body and how good she gave me head while i tickled her. Point is this: Making out and stuff is cool, doing it wiht a girl who you feel you have a conection with is better, but then finding out she isnt ticklish and ditching her is pretty fucking lame.

 

[duck171]

I wonder what Dr Phil would say?😀

 

[revboy]

WOW
i feel kinda bad for using those names
but the way okayokay worded his thread kind of made me mad
it was kinda a strange night
so...
I APOLOGIZE IF I OFFENDED ANYONE WITH MY LANGUAGE EARLIER

 

[P[a]pi]

okayokay - It's perfectly okay (haha) to have "ticklish" on your list of requirements for your future girlfriend or wife.

 

[-Kunoke-]

I don't believe there is a central, right answer to this.

If tickling is important enough to you that you can't have a happy relationship without it, then you shouldn't have a relationship where you can't have tickling. It's not mean...it's just how things work. Personally, I would find out if the girl was ticklish and how she felt about tickling far before hand. Now, I wouldn't base the relationship off of that. But things like that should be some of the first things you figure out when you're looking for a partner.

Some of you are saying forget the tickling and just accept her, even if she isn't ticklish, I'm not so sure I'd say that. Perhaps you don't perfectly identify with how it works for some people. I'm sure some of you ticklers could get by without a ticklish girl but, for some of us, it's really hard to do. Believe me, I have tried it, and even though she let me play with her feet or do whatever, without being able to tickle her, I didn't feel comfortable somehow. Since tickling is such a big part of who I am, it needs to be in the relationship for me to be happy with that relationship. So I guess I identify with some of you folks.

I don't mean to seem shallow. But, in my opinion, that's not being shallow, that's just choosing to be yourself.