I Have A Confession

[newyork07]

listen to yourselves

Hmmm...just because I'm into sex and like to talk about it and I'm not so goddamned uptight about it like everyone else in America, people are questioning my gender just because I was stupid and posed as a guy and now am admitting I'm a girl. Interesting. Seems like I'm the only person who has a sense of adventure in this little forum.

I made a mistake, alright? I just wanted attention, and I thought I'd get a lot of it that way. I was wrong, and I'm now admitting the truth. Get the hell over it.

 

[Bugman]

I made a mistake, alright? I just wanted attention, and I thought I'd get a lot of it that way. I was wrong, and I'm now admitting the truth. Get the hell over it.

You are new here and don't understand how many people have been misled i think.It happened to me when i joined,and it's not fun.Try to understand that and don't be suprised if people are confused.If you really want to be a member here and enjoy the forum it will take some time concedering your confession.Once you get to know us most of us are great people.😀

 

[Ayla ny]

In this day of webcams, cell phones, anonymous voicemails… is there really still reason to wonder? If they can’t prove it… they aren’t (or are too complicated to deal with). It’s just too easy to do.

I have been tempted to post as a man myself. Sometimes it’s hard to get those questions out there without seeming like you are trying to feed a fantasy or invite seduction. Good luck!

 

[Babbles]

~Victor/ia...

In this day of webcams, cell phones, anonymous voicemails… is there really still reason to wonder? If they can’t prove it… they aren’t (or are too complicated to deal with). It’s just too easy to do.

I have been tempted to post as a man myself. Sometimes it’s hard to get those questions out there without seeming like you are trying to feed a fantasy or invite seduction. Good luck!

Exactly -- some of us have been identified beyond doubt, but otherwise, a bit of disguise is often understandable,

(I've heard of the fake online moustache
as well as the contrived girlish falsetto )

...as long as those you might meet, or get into in-depth conversations with, know who/what they're dealing with.
The irony is I can't deal with f/f so for me, this is now a closed door 😛
Nothing wrong with it, but it's just not my cuppa. (I was tempted to write earlier, not that I often do, but can't now.)
For others with the same inclination, however, it will be ideal Best of luck

 

[inthenameoffun2]

In this day of webcams, cell phones, anonymous voicemails… is there really still reason to wonder? If they can’t prove it… they aren’t (or are too complicated to deal with). It’s just too easy to do.

I have been tempted to post as a man myself. Sometimes it’s hard to get those questions out there without seeming like you are trying to feed a fantasy or invite seduction. Good luck!

Thats what I have been thinking and saying to myself for a while.
Ok there are those that can not afford the webcam, mic, and are affraid of the cell phone because there are so many that will not respect someone and when they are told they can call one time, they call and call and, and, ok you get what I'm saying. Too bad because it makes it hard for those that are honest to be trusted. I have always said in any PM that this is a husband and wife username. The problem is, that it is not belived ( due to pass problems some have had ) In all, I guess if I think about it, what newyork07 has done is really no differant than what many here have done. At least he/she
( thats a joke ) did come clean, so props to you newyork07 and I wish you luck on what your looking for. Maybe others will follow. Then again, I have been around here long enough to know that will not happen. By the way, we have the webcam, mic and cell phone. But we still having to watch who we talk with in the ways of communication. Because a few just are not wanting to be respectful.
Honesty is the best way to go.

 

[911]

You posed as a man, that's a sure way to be rejected.

 

[newyork07]

I know

Yeah, I learned that the hard way.

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

With all the gender confusion, and now some doubting that you are really a girl, why not just wipe the slate clean, set up a new id at the TMF and start all over again. You wouldn't be the first person here who did that (except for me of course )

 

[Oddjob0226]

The truth is, I'm actually a computer-generated 'bot who captures the embedded codes here in these threads to retro-trace e-mail addresses to then generate mass-mailed spam, for which my administrator gets a nickel for each e-mail opened; a quarter for every link that gets clicked within that opened e-mail.

So, NY70, now that you've exposed yourself, fret less. You've only posted here a few 50+ times. Keep posting, keep being social, and people will learn about you and trust you more over time.

If anyone needs any Herbal V.iagra or wants to sign up for Bill Gate's e-mail tracking software to earn a big, big check, you know where to find me.

 

[cettorpes]

I haven't heard from you for ages. How are you today?

 

[drew70]

My opinion, worth every cent it costs.......

This is the Internet, folks. Regardless of how civilised or regulated you might think it has become, it's still the wild frontier of communication. People come here not always to be themselves but rather to be somebody else. Look at all the unrealistic signature pictures floating around this place. I personally don't have a problem with it, and have masqueraded as other people from time to time, though never for sexual reasons.

I've been fooled more than once and I've decided that I no longer care. If somebody claims to be a woman, I generally give her the benefit of the doubt, unless I'm given reason to believe otherwise. If it turns out I've been misled, well so what? Somebody got a laugh out of it, and that's good enough for me. If anybody is looking for some tickling action in the real world, surely they must realize they can't hide behind a fictitious internet personality forever. In short, I don't believe or disbelieve claims of gender until I at least hear a voice. That's the point in which a person's gender gets locked in for me, and even then it's possible (though not nearly as likely) to be fooled.