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Some of you may be aware of this but in case you don't know..I am very unhappy in my marriage that up till now has lasted 6 years, no kids..I am going to need all my TMF friends to keep me in their prayers,to be here for me now that my hubby and I have decided that we are going to proceed with divorce proceedings 🙁 My tickling passion and him not sharing it has caused a rift between us growing bigger to where we will remain friends,but we are ending the marriage,relationship..I am sure that this is the right thing to do,I am hoping for brighter days somewhere in my future.
 
:twohugs: I very much hope that you do find happiness, TicklesHotel. :twohugs:
 
I hope all goes well, and you find what your looking for!! Good Luck!! Ever want to chat I am here just PM me!
 
TicklishSinner said:
I hope all goes well, and you find what your looking for!! Good Luck!! Ever want to chat I am here just PM me!
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Thank you for your wonderful kind words ticklishsinner 😀 :twohugs:
 
It will be painful....

But in the long run, it will be for the best for both of you. Try not to get too hung up on the financials of things and it should be a mostly amicable break-up. We only have one life, why not be happy in it. If you feel this is for the best, then, most likely it is. I married my wife before I got the internet and saw a world of ladies who actually liked to be tickled, who would seek it out, something I thought impossible before my marriage. Today, 2 kids, 2 cars, and 1 house later, a divorce would hurt more people then just my wife and I. She is not into the tickling like she used to be, and it is very frustrating to me, but I will have to be frustrated and try to work my situation out.

In some ways, I envy you, for you will meet that tickler of your dreams one day, and will be satisfied in your choice of lifestyle. May God bless you and your soon to be ex, and keep in mind it is for a better kind of life.

KingP
 
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kingp said:
But in the long run, it will be for the best for both of you. Try not to get too hung up on the financials of things and it should be a mostly amicable break-up. We only have one life, why not be happy in it. If you feel this is for the best, then, most likely it is. I married my wife before I got the internet and saw a world of ladies who actually liked to be tickled, who would seek it out, something I thought impossible before my marriage. Today, 2 kids, 2 cars, and 1 house later, a divorce would hurt more people then just my wife and I. She is not into the tickling like she used to be, and it is very frustrating to me, but I will have to be frustrated and try to work my situation out.

In some ways, I envy you, for you will meet that tickler of your dreams one day, and will be satisfied in your choice of lifestyle. May God bless you and your soon to be ex, and keep in mind it is for a better kind of life.

KingP
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Thank you KingP for your wonderful right on target advice😀 I try not to burden myself thinking,questioning myself if I can really make it by myself financially ,when in my experience I have pretty much been taken care of by someone or other..
Thank you for your words of envy,though I don;t think anyone would want to be in my shoes now but I feel it is best for my hubby soon to be ex and me to move on..
I have the feeling that somewhere out there is my tickler of my dreams and I will be so happy if/when I do find him if he tells me he has been looking for me for most of his life..😉😉:twohugs:
 
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tactillianlover said:
Sounds like your embarking on an adventure.
May the wind be at your back!
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Not sure if it is could be considered a adventure ,thinking it is going to be a journey taking a new path to hopefully find rainbow at end 😀
 
I am so very sorry to hear this Laurie....

I will be here for you whenever you need me. I'll be visable in yahoo from here on in so that you'll know when I'm on line. Please don't hesitate to chat and i'll listen as long as you need someone to listen.

You are not alone...
 
As much as I dislike the idea of divorce, I can understand that sometimes they are necessary.

As you already know, TH, I will always be an ear for you to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, and a friends to encourage you, tickle you, and help you through this difficult time.

Now is the time to put your own life back in order and getting the new job is an excellent first start.

I am always here for you.

All the best to you.
 
mgctouch said:
As much as I dislike the idea of divorce, I can understand that sometimes they are necessary.

As you already know, TH, I will always be an ear for you to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, and a friends to encourage you, tickle you, and help you through this difficult time.

Now is the time to put your own life back in order and getting the new job is an excellent first start.

I am always here for you.

All the best to you.
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Thanks mgctouch and Yes I did know that you are a friend that I can definitely count on to know how to bring a smile to my face,make me laugh even on my unhappy days.😀 :twohugs: :twohugs: I love knowing you'll be a friend for years to come😀 😉
 
Iam truly sorry to hear this, hotel. Divorce is a very difficult thing. My parents divorced in 1989 after 21 years of marriage, and it was very rough. In your situation, you mentioned how your husband doesnt share your tickling passion, and apparently this was causing serious problems, so if you are incompatible, you will probably be better off apart, in the long run, even though it may hurt at first. Good Luck to you, you are in my thoughts, and I hope you find the right man to make you happy, and satisfy your tickling needs.

Mitch
 
Mitchell said:
Iam truly sorry to hear this, hotel. Divorce is a very difficult thing. My parents divorced in 1989 after 21 years of marriage, and it was very rough. In your situation, you mentioned how your husband doesnt share your tickling passion, and apparently this was causing serious problems, so if you are incompatible, you will probably be better off apart, in the long run, even though it may hurt at first. Good Luck to you, you are in my thoughts, and I hope you find the right man to make you happy, and satisfy your tickling needs.

Mitch
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Thank you so much mitchell 😀 :twohugs: :twohugs: Yes hear divorce is a difficult thing but I take comfort in knowing that my soon to be ex and I are agreed on divorce and that the divorce should go fairly quick as there is nothing we are contesting..NO property,kids,ect to divide..Basically just have what belongs to me and go my own way..
What really disturbs me is during a conversation last night my ex stated that I hadn;t told him about my ticklish passion and how much it meant to me beforehand which is a absolute flat out lie..I am positive I had told him about my love for tickling,being tickled since I was a child and I sincerely think my ex said that to basically drive a knife through my back trying to make me feel guilty for feeling the way I do about tickling whether being on the receiving or giving side..
 
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i am so sorry to hear about your situation sweety,,i know from what you have said that it was a difficult thing thing to deal with,, my heart definately goes out to you and if you ever want to talk i will be there for you,,durring this time you will get lots of advice,, some helpfull some not,,i may not be the best one to give advise but i definately know that you are better off following your heart,,

god bless,,

sincerely v,t,f
 
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vryticklishfeet said:
i am so sorry to hear about your situation sweety,,i know from what you have said that it was a difficult thing thing to deal with,, my heart definately goes out to you and if you ever want to talk i will be there for you,,durring this time you will get lots of advice,, some helpfull some not,,i may not be the best one to give advise but i definately know that you are better off following your heart,,

god bless,,

sincerely v,t,f
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Thank you so much Vry for your post and for confirming that I knew I could count on you as a good friend of mine😀 😉 :twohugs: :twohugs: :twohugs: Wish I had better news to report 🙁 but things will get better as I know this should have been done a long time ago,just sad that I feel 6 years is wasted from my life..
 
Laurie, don't feel that way. Look at it as a learning experience. We all learn from life's challenges and we have to learn from it and move on. Remember, it's all about your happiness now. This chapter is over, time to write another. Here are some blank pieces of paper for you to write. If ya wanna talk, you know where to reach me
 
I'm with wise NT~although in some ways, I can relate to your situation, you have my sympathy. I'm a firm believer that NO ONE is sent into our lives for no reason at all--think of it like a journey, all the people you meet are little stops along the way to your final destination.

On a brighter note, you get to start fresh now. (My situation is a lot like KingP in that "the interest" only became REALLY important to me fairly recently.) One of those bizarre things that happens in life is the way I see it~no one's fault really, it just turned out that way. Laurie~our little friend in SD knows how to reach me if you need to talk. Hang in there, girlie! :twohugs:

XOXO
 
One nother thing: for every door closed in life there are 20 more open. Take the time to find out what you truly want, then find the door that applies. You'll bounce back on your feet soon enough. There are many more fish in the sea. Schools, as a matter of fact😛
 
You'll have PLENTY of support from the good folks here, tickleshotel...

Feel free to PM me anytime. I've been divorced twice myself; it wasn't easy either time, but I'm truly better off...and now I have kwildoctr, who I wouldn't have even met had I stayed married.

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natural tickler said:
Laurie, don't feel that way. Look at it as a learning experience. We all learn from life's challenges and we have to learn from it and move on. Remember, it's all about your happiness now. This chapter is over, time to write another. Here are some blank pieces of paper for you to write. If ya wanna talk, you know where to reach me
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Thank you NT for showing me a new perspective on all this 🙂 There is one thing,at least now I know what to avoid in the future !😀 😉 :twohugs: :twohugs: I'll be in touch NT tomorrow 🙂😉
 
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