I need help- am I being stupid?

[steph]

Well. We need more info methinks.
First, why does she wear them when you're not around? In many corporate environments in the US, bare legs are a no-no. I've worked for hospitals where nylons are MANDATORY. Is that the case here?

If the above doesn't apply, I'd point you towards the 38 Special song~"Hold On Loosely..." Being a control freak about her behavior, clothes, etc. will rarely win you the girl in the end. And if she's just a mind fucker just for the sake of being cruel, well, you don't need me to tell you how to handle that, hmm?
XOXO

Hey everyone. I need advice. Ok here's my problem. My gf and I have a long distance relationship and I have a massive fetish for tights (nylons). Because I have a huge fetish for tights, when she wears them and I'm not around I get really frustrated because it makes me want to be there. I know I can't tell her what to wear but I really don't like her wearing them when I'm not around as it is incredibly frustrating for me because I see them as very sexual clothing and I think that they should be just for me and not anyone else to see her in. I know I am being just stupid with my thinking but I can't help it. What can I do? I really need help.

Thanks in advance

GC

 

[WorkInProgress]

I like your last post, CG4AH, because I agree that this is more of a relationship trust issue than a fetish issue. I agree with your sense that it's more a matter of strengthening the relationship and your security in it than finding a specific solution to this particular matter.