If given a choice between cybertickling and cybersex...

[cassandra1]

Yup, tickling is the unanimous choice. Still, I often wonder what will happen if I state in my sig that I'm... you know... open for business. Something naughty like "PM me for cybersex". Will any guys (not just the ones who posted in this thread) accept the offer, knowing that they will not get flamed by me for doing so and it's not cybertickling? Just a little cybering experiment.

Of course, since I'm not THAT slutty, there are requirements to be met even if someone is interested.

 

[The Sean Man]

Yup, tickling is the unanimous choice. Still, I often wonder what will happen if I state in my sig that I'm... you know... open for business. Something naughty like "PM me for cybersex". Will any guys (not just the ones who posted in this thread) accept the offer, knowing that they will not get flamed by me for doing so and it's not cybertickling? Just a little cybering experiment.

Hmmmm...that's really dumping gas on the fire:laughing:

Good luck with your experiment:super_hap

 

[Master Chief]

Hmm....Given the choice between the two of you I'd pick, THE SEASICK CROCODILE!!!! Sorry, I watched the old cartoon last night and I am still reeling from it. 😀

 

[cassandra1]

The first rule, and the most important one, is that if you have a wife or girlfriend who considers cybersex cheating, don't PM me. Stay faithful, I mean it.

Rule number 2, no SMS style PMs. "U wan 2 cyber with me?" kills the roleplaying mood.

Rule number 3, no weird stuff like butt licking or poop eating.

Rule number 4, you indicate the scenario you want the roleplay to take place in. If attire matters, you also specify what you want me to be wearing (in the roleplay, not real life). The scenario doesn't have to be a thousand word essay with plot twists. Something simple will do, like what you might find in an amateur porno movie.

Rule number 5, not everyone has a scanner or webcam. Really, some people think scanners and webcams are like standard issue accessories that come free with every computer. If you don't have one, and therefore don't have pics of yourself, OMGWTFLOL YOU MUST BE A GUY!

Rule number 6, I have a boyfriend. This is something I do in my spare time. I'm not going to meet someone I do it with, because a) it will cause complications with my real-life relationship, and b) it is extremely dangerous considering what happened to young people who chatted with strangers online and met them in person. Just because I insist on playing it safe doesn't mean OMGWTFLOL I MUST BE A GUY!

 

[nessonite1]

I have a rather strong distase for either activity. I see no fault with those who would participate, but I would never seek it out myself. It seems like mutual masturbation minus the intimacy. No thanks. xp

 

[MistressValerie1]

The first rule, and the most important one, is that if you have a wife or girlfriend who considers cybersex cheating, don't PM me. Stay faithful, I mean it.

Rule number 2, no SMS style PMs. "U wan 2 cyber with me?" kills the roleplaying mood.

Rule number 3, no weird stuff like butt licking or poop eating.

Rule number 4, you indicate the scenario you want the roleplay to take place in. If attire matters, you also specify what you want me to be wearing (in the roleplay, not real life). The scenario doesn't have to be a thousand word essay with plot twists. Something simple will do, like what you might find in an amateur porno movie.

Rule number 5, not everyone has a scanner or webcam. Really, some people think scanners and webcams are like standard issue accessories that come free with every computer. If you don't have one, and therefore don't have pics of yourself, OMGWTFLOL YOU MUST BE A GUY!

Rule number 6, I have a boyfriend. This is something I do in my spare time. I'm not going to meet someone I do it with, because a) it will cause complications with my real-life relationship, and b) it is extremely dangerous considering what happened to young people who chatted with strangers online and met them in person. Just because I insist on playing it safe doesn't mean OMGWTFLOL I MUST BE A GUY!

This is the best post I have ever seen about cyber roleplaying. These rules would be good advice for everyone to follow.

 

[meangry1]

Cyber tickling with the right person can be highly erotic !!!
it would result in cyber sex , but most of the time its just innocent fun.
i just had my 1st cyber tickle experience.
omfg , I'm still dizzy from it 😛

Is it possible for someone else you test this out? Yes...I am that forward. :redface:

The first rule, and the most important one, is that if you have a wife or girlfriend who considers cybersex cheating, don't PM me. Stay faithful, I mean it.

Rule number 2, no SMS style PMs. "U wan 2 cyber with me?" kills the roleplaying mood.

Rule number 3, no weird stuff like butt licking or poop eating.

Rule number 4, you indicate the scenario you want the roleplay to take place in. If attire matters, you also specify what you want me to be wearing (in the roleplay, not real life). The scenario doesn't have to be a thousand word essay with plot twists. Something simple will do, like what you might find in an amateur porno movie.

Rule number 5, not everyone has a scanner or webcam. Really, some people think scanners and webcams are like standard issue accessories that come free with every computer. If you don't have one, and therefore don't have pics of yourself, OMGWTFLOL YOU MUST BE A GUY!

Rule number 6, I have a boyfriend. This is something I do in my spare time. I'm not going to meet someone I do it with, because a) it will cause complications with my real-life relationship, and b) it is extremely dangerous considering what happened to young people who chatted with strangers online and met them in person. Just because I insist on playing it safe doesn't mean OMGWTFLOL I MUST BE A GUY!

I can actually dig that kind of candor. Often it is a very boring or drab experience involving very little imagination and someone having to carry the action. If you have a propensity to write, you usually get stuck on the raw end of having to visually create a world in which someone else garners a majority of the pleasure from.

I personally do not mind either, as it is a stop gap. Writing is a passion, and in the past has been a source of pleasure in this sort of fashion in long distance relationships I have been involved in where the options available are very limited. To some, that might sound exceptionally creepy or sick. But put yourself in a situation where you work nearly a thousand miles away from your significant other. You can not get down to the apartment every weekend, and even if you do, you do not want your brief time spent always to be a romp between the sheets, followed by tender and bittersweet goodbyes.

With the right person, it's a very erotic experience. Writing can be a gateway drug into a different state of imagination and being. To use it for the sake of carnality is not exactly something I see as an issue. To be quite honest, we have a tickling art forum, tickling video, and tickling story forum, as well as images and the like. I do not see a separation from gaining sexual gratification from one of those items somehow is more acceptable than the other.

 

[cassandra1]

Well said. Now, with the rules in mind, what kind of sig should I have that would attract guys who want cybersex? Hopefully without inciting PMs of disbelief like "Are you serious?", while at the same time not making me sound like a desperate hooker.

 

[blackmagicjack1]

Stop worrying about how people are going to see you and just state what you want. People will draw thier own conclusions anyway. Though you could advertise yourself as TT's first Cyber-Companion. In fact if you did that you could people apply for the priviledge of playing with you. Set up your own IM account strictly for playing and only give it out to those who have passed the test.

 

[cassandra1]

I'm not really a fan of IM. If I am doing this, it will be entirely through PM on this site. "TT's first Cyber-Companion" sounds okay but I need to specify that I'm looking for cybersex, not cybertickling. "TT's first Cybersex Companion" should be fine, followed by a short summary of the rules if not a link to this thread.

How do I find out whether a guy in a cybering mood will be good at it? One way is to ask them to talk dirty, then see if they have too many typos, grammar mistakes or SMS language.

 

[FeatherDaemon1]

Well I would say just give the guy a trial run. If you don't think he's a good match for you then put him on your ignore list. If you find someone that you really like then made a note to yourself. You could whip up a little dossier in a word file. You could keep track of what certain people are into for future reference.

You should send your rules as your first PM response.

As for a sig just make something cute that states I'm PM-friendly for Cybersex 😉 . That should get the message across.

 

[cassandra1]

It could use something extra because guys might overlook the word "Cybersex" and think I'm offering cybertickling, which is more popular here but quite different from cybersex. I can specify that there will be no tickling, just fucking and maybe blowing, but that's hardly a "cute" sig (Speaking of cute, that kitty is just adorable! Is that a real cat or a toy? 😀) Is it possible to sound so dirty in my sig that guys are turned off by it?

 

[Featherdemon]

I don't think its a concern at turning people off. As has all ready been stated, I think people want to have Cybersex and are suitable for it, will appreciate the cander and openess.

 

[blackmagicjack1]

It could use something extra because guys might overlook the word "Cybersex" and think I'm offering cybertickling, which is more popular here but quite different from cybersex. I can specify that there will be no tickling, just fucking and maybe blowing, but that's hardly a "cute" sig (Speaking of cute, that kitty is just adorable! Is that a real cat or a toy? 😀) Is it possible to sound so dirty in my sig that guys are turned off by it?

Miss, the guys you are looking for aren't going to be turned off by you sounding too dirty.

 

[FeatherDaemon1]

Miss, the guys you are looking for aren't going to be turned off by you sounding too dirty.

I would say that I agree here. Some may not have the "roleplaying skills" to keep up, but I don't see the content being an issue.

And yes, the cat is real in the pic. 😉 I didn't make the photoshop image, but I'm enough of a cat fancier to see the reality.

 

[cassandra1]

Hmm, okay then. I can start with "I'm PM-friendly for Cybersex (PM only, no AIM)" and follow up with "No cybertickling, no chatting. Just roleplaying with cybersex, cyberfondling my 32DDs (my actual bra size 🙂), cyberbondage and cyberblowjobs. Must specify the roleplaying scenario before we do anything. No SMS language allowed (I get the feeling that this rule will be overlooked most often, which is why I'm adding it to the sig and leaving the other rules in a link)"

Okay, I wasn't sure whether to mention my real bra size in there, in case someone reads it and thinks, "32DD? Yeah right."

 

[FeatherDaemon1]

Hmm, okay then. I can start with "I'm PM-friendly for Cybersex (PM only, no AIM)" and follow up with "No cybertickling, no chatting. Just roleplaying with cybersex, cyberfondling my 32DDs (my actual bra size 🙂), cyberbondage and cyberblowjobs. Must specify the roleplaying scenario before we do anything. No SMS language allowed (I get the feeling that this rule will be overlooked most often, which is why I'm adding it to the sig and leaving the other rules in a link)"

Okay, I wasn't sure whether to mention my real bra size in there, in case someone reads it and thinks, "32DD? Yeah right."

I think that everything sounds good. I wouldn't add the bra size. They may think that everything is too good to be true. Plus, you may turn off guys who may wish to role play with a lady who has lesser 'tracts of land'. Let the guy (gal?) see you as their fantasy person.

 

[cassandra1]

Good point there. Alright, no more changes left to be made.
Ta Daaaa...

 

[Volsung1]

Hmm... I love larger tracts of land... hehe
I have never tried Cybersex... have only done cybertickling up to this point.

You think you could show me the "ropes"? :rolleyes