I'm back, with wonderful news for men!

[new2sceenbob]

Years ago I was very active on this site hoping to meet women with whom I could my interest in this wonderful fetish! Unfortunately, after a great many bad experiences, I gave up and left this site, and decided to only meet women through "vanilla" dating sites. Well, what I discovered to my surprise and delight is that there are plenty of women out there who were only all too happy to let me tickle them(as long as it wasn't excessive) after I told them how much it pleased me to do so! I discovered to my delight that so many women really want to please their man, and all I had to do was just lose my shyness, and tell them want I wanted! In fact I just recently met a woman on a "vanilla" dating site, and after I tickled her for the very first time, and I asked her what she thought about it, she said that it "aroused her very much, and that she didn't know whether to laugh or to moan"!

Well guys, if this could happen for me, and I sure as hell am not any kind of Adonis or movie star, then there is an extremely good chance that this can happen for any one of you also! I truly wish all of my fellow lers the very best of luck!

 

[thetmfobserver]

I think it all comes down to trust and approach. If you mention it within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone, or you get all "drool-y" about it, you're not going to get anywhere. However, if you take it slow, let a relationship build, then mention that it interests you when the time is right, I think you'll almost always get a positive or neutral response. Unless the person you're with has some scarring experience with tickling, in which case, it wasn't meant to be no matter what you did.

Tickling is a pretty tame fetish, and I think most people recognize that. Of the women I've mentioned it too, most have thought the notion is cute at first. Can't go wrong with that.

 

[chicago]

Some people like to build the relationship before explaining the tickling thing. I'm kind of the opposite. I would hate to get so emotionally involved with someone and then find out they think I'm a freak or that tickling is weird.

Obviously, bringing it up in the same breath you introduce yourself is not good, but I'd say within the first two weeks of seeing someone is probably a good idea. That way, if they're not into it, you can keep it moving to the next one with minimal to zero heartbreak.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Some people like to build the relationship before explaining the tickling thing. I'm kind of the opposite. I would hate to get so emotionally involved with someone and then find out they think I'm a freak or that tickling is weird.

Same. I don't know, I've never understood the whole "OH CHRIST EVERYONE WILL THINK I'M A DEMENTED LOSER 🙁" thing.

Like I don't need to advertise it at every given opportunity, but people know I like it and it hasn't affected my daily life in the slightest.

 

[chicago]

Same. I don't know, I've never understood the whole "OH CHRIST EVERYONE WILL THINK I'M A DEMENTED LOSER 🙁" thing.

Like I don't need to advertise it at every given opportunity, but people know I like it and it hasn't affected my daily life in the slightest.

lol Honestly, I've had more problems with the whole tickling thing from this forum than from people in my real life that I've talked to about it.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I want to start a thread about honest to god "Tickle fetish ruined my entire life" experiences. I'm willing to bet (besides a few people getting way too overzealous with unwilling people) it almost never happens, at least not anything worse than getting laughed at for a little while.

also hijacked- my bad.

 

[robmic]

"Well guys, if this could happen for me, and I sure as hell am not any kind of Adonis or movie star, then there is an extremely good chance that this can happen for any one of you also! I truly wish all of my fellow lers the very best of luck!"

There are two things that have dampened my spirits about your good luck. When I was young and carefree, I would agree 100% with you. But now that I am older and currently unemployed, I have had zero luck even getting a date on the "vanilla" dating sites, let alone here. It's not for lack of want. I just feel like I have nothing to offer, though deep inside, I know I have. I just don't seem to get the opportunity to show what I do have to offer. It's kinda like a catch "22". But, I keep trying.......

 

[new2sceenbob]

"Well guys, if this could happen for me, and I sure as hell am not any kind of Adonis or movie star, then there is an extremely good chance that this can happen for any one of you also! I truly wish all of my fellow lers the very best of luck!"

There are two things that have dampened my spirits about your good luck. When I was young and carefree, I would agree 100% with you. But now that I am older and currently unemployed, I have had zero luck even getting a date on the "vanilla" dating sites, let alone here. It's not for lack of want. I just feel like I have nothing to offer, though deep inside, I know I have. I just don't seem to get the opportunity to show what I do have to offer. It's kinda like a catch "22". But, I keep trying.......

I felt the same way when I was unemployed, and then things changed drastically for the better once I went back to work! Just hang in there, and best of luck!

I would like to thank everyone for the great comments on my thread! I also don't mention my interest in tickling within the first 5 minutes either, but I usually don't have to wait until after too many dates in order to talk about it, and I usually get mostly positive responses! I started this thread because I think that everyone should be encouraged! This is a wonderful fetish for a lot of harmless fun, and there is an excellent chance that everyone who would like it to be a part of their relationships, will be able to have this desire fulfilled!

 

[sparkybdj]

Years ago I was very active on this site hoping to meet women with whom I could my interest in this wonderful fetish! Unfortunately, after a great many bad experiences, I gave up and left this site, and decided to only meet women through "vanilla" dating sites. Well, what I discovered to my surprise and delight is that there are plenty of women out there who were only all too happy to let me tickle them(as long as it wasn't excessive) after I told them how much it pleased me to do so! I discovered to my delight that so many women really want to please their man, and all I had to do was just lose my shyness, and tell them want I wanted! In fact I just recently met a woman on a "vanilla" dating site, and after I tickled her for the very first time, and I asked her what she thought about it, she said that it "aroused her very much, and that she didn't know whether to laugh or to moan"!

Well guys, if this could happen for me, and I sure as hell am not any kind of Adonis or movie star, then there is an extremely good chance that this can happen for any one of you also! I truly wish all of my fellow lers the very best of luck!

Congrats on your find!!!! I realized that too, and look what happened!!! I found a woman who now loves tickling, all though shes yet to try her hand at being a ler ( hint, hint to all the lees ) and always wants to indulge "our" fetish....life is good!!!!! 😀

 

[mustang]

I am completely out of the closet in regard to my foot fetish. I feel that the general piublic has been exposed to it and that it is pretty much a non-issue these days. However, I am much more reserved about the foot tickling aspect of my fetish. It just doesn't compute with straight folks. However, if you ever want to have any foot/tickling experiences you will just have to bite the bullet and come out with it. The women that I have known throughout my life all went along with it. In fact, after the initial surprise it was no big deal with them...sort of a whatever floats your boat kind of a thing. The biggest boogums in regard to my fetish were in my own head.

 

[Em Es]

new2sceenbob

Thanks for your great news. The key words you wrote, "so many women really want to please their man," say it all. The best tickling times I've had were with girls who wanted to please me, as opposed to female tickling enthusiasts I've known. What good is knowing a girl who's into tickling if she does not like you? All that matters is being with a woman who thinks the world of you; when you've got that, if tickling makes you happy, she will put up with it and even learn to enjoy it.

 

[new2sceenbob]

Thanks for your great news. The key words you wrote, "so many women really want to please their man," say it all. The best tickling times I've had were with girls who wanted to please me, as opposed to female tickling enthusiasts I've known. What good is knowing a girl who's into tickling if she does not like you? All that matters is being with a woman who thinks the world of you; when you've got that, if tickling makes you happy, she will put up with it and even learn to enjoy it.

You're very welcome! I only wish that someone had shared this information with me years ago, so that I would have found so many great women, and been much happier, quite a lot sooner!

 

[badreligion]

Some people like to build the relationship before explaining the tickling thing. I'm kind of the opposite. I would hate to get so emotionally involved with someone and then find out they think I'm a freak or that tickling is weird.

Obviously, bringing it up in the same breath you introduce yourself is not good, but I'd say within the first two weeks of seeing someone is probably a good idea. That way, if they're not into it, you can keep it moving to the next one with minimal to zero heartbreak.

You arn't the only one I do the same thing .

 

[Em Es]

Women do the choosing

I don't know your age, new2sceenbob, but I was way older than I should have been when I found myself wondering why nobody shared that information with me when I could have used it.

While it's not impossible for a male tickler to find a girl who shares his enthusiasm for tickling, he has a better chance with one who simply wants to make him happy. When a woman wants to satisfy a man, her limits will match his fantasy.

Zero in on the girls who are noticing you. They won't always be as attractive as the knockouts but the good time they'll show you will make up for what they lack in looks.

 

[DEEPSHOTONE]

We have a winner!!

I think it all comes down to trust and approach. If you mention it within the first 5 minutes of meeting someone, or you get all "drool-y" about it, you're not going to get anywhere. However, if you take it slow, let a relationship build, then mention that it interests you when the time is right, I think you'll almost always get a positive or neutral response.

This can be applied to any situation in life...

 

[SteakDinnerBoom]

Awww, from the title of the thread I thought you cured male pattern baldness.

 

[new2sceenbob]

I don't know your age, new2sceenbob, but I was way older than I should have been when I found myself wondering why nobody shared that information with me when I could have used it.

While it's not impossible for a male tickler to find a girl who shares his enthusiasm for tickling, he has a better chance with one who simply wants to make him happy. When a woman wants to satisfy a man, her limits will match his fantasy.

Zero in on the girls who are noticing you. They won't always be as attractive as the knockouts but the good time they'll show you will make up for what they lack in looks.

I am now 56, and I have not had any problems finding warm and charming women who were will to let me tickle them in order to make me happy! Most of them were much younger then me. The last woman that I met, and who I referenced in my start of this thread, I met less then 1 month ago, and she is 38. And, as I said, I am certainly no Adonis or movie star! It is never too late!

 

[Leo tickles]

It's all about trust, that's for sure. I throw out my fetish within the first 3 dates. I haven't been pushed away from it not once.

Some people have hated it, weren't ticklish, whatever, but they always let me (try) to have my fun because they wanted to see me happy.

 

[Em Es]

When a guy's 56, a 38-year old woman is like a college girl!

More power to you, new2sceenbob!

 

[new2sceenbob]

It's all about trust, that's for sure. I throw out my fetish within the first 3 dates. I haven't been pushed away from it not once.

Some people have hated it, weren't ticklish, whatever, but they always let me (try) to have my fun because they wanted to see me happy.

Yes, that has been my experience also! It is now hard for me to believe that I once felt like I could not talk about tickling with so-called vanilla women! Well live, learn, and be happy!