Importance of looks...

[Iggy pop]

Sunrise pretty much said it. For me to ask how important looks and body types in the people may play (tickle) with is like asking how important they are with people I play pick up games with. It's not even a factor. As far as preferences, ticklishness makes almost any woman lovelier and I find far too many women of far to many different sizes, shapes and color to be able to define a template.

You mentioned pick up games at park and equated that to tickling games. Does this mean you do not care about gender in your tickling games? If so then I would have to say that tickling is not sexual for you(unless of course you happen to be bisexual) Which is completely cool but diffrent from me. I find tickling completely sexual.

 

[Iggy pop]

But for those lers who have been honest enough (no judgements here, to each his/her own) to admit that appearance does make a difference in who they tickle, remember that there are just as many lees who are checking out your package too before he/she will let you touch them.
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Yes and that is to be expected. And even if you do not care he or she may. I actually prefer someone who is choosy to some degree.

 

[chrisheaven]

it's all a matter of personal taste really

 

[ViperGTS]

Yes it is, one person's opinions on this are never wrong, not to them. Others shouldn't try to tell them that they are wrong either.

 

[terorizer]

You mentioned pick up games at park and equated that to tickling games. Does this mean you do not care about gender in your tickling games? If so then I would have to say that tickling is not sexual for you(unless of course you happen to be bisexual) Which is completely cool but diffrent from me. I find tickling completely sexual.

In terms of those I choose to play with, be it basketball or tickling, I don't take attractiveness into account. In terms of gender of those I play with, I choose female because of the nature of the activity; some contact I just typically reserve for woman, sexual or not. I could give my mom a footrub, but pops gets the footbath from Conair! I have had playful, spontaneous tickles from males in a group setting, and it neither aroused or disgusted me. Just not something I'd ever seek out because it holds no interest for me.

As to whether it's sexual or not, it is as sexual as intercourse, and as non-sexual as embracing my brother. That is to say that the tickling itself does not dictate what I feel for those I tickle. Rather, it's my feelings for them which dictates the kind of tickle I give.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Looks do play their part....

I'm definitely not looking for Mr. GQ, but in order for me to get into tickle play with a guy, there has to be some kind of attraction between us (after all, we are getting physical). He doesn't have to be a stunning six foot greek God or anything (although, I certainly wouldn't turn him away if he was...lol). But he does have to be very well groomed. He also should have a smile that turns me to goo, a twinkle in his eyes that makes me think that he might just be up for a little mischief, a great sense of humor, and a laugh that makes me laugh when I hear it.


....Also helps if he knows how to wrestle me to the ground 😉


Maggie

 

[JPie1]

As to whether it's sexual or not, it is as sexual as intercourse, and as non-sexual as embracing my brother. That is to say that the tickling itself does not dictate what I feel for those I tickle. Rather, it's my feelings for them which dictates the kind of tickle I give.

Very good teror, I like that way you expressed this.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Whew it's been a long time! Thought I'd dust off this thread and see what the frequent posters of today thought about this topic. It's always been interesting to me.

 

[DJ Tickler]

I think my signature says it all:

The third sexist thing in the world is a woman smiling
That goes for ANY woman…they always look more attractive when they smile

The second sexist thing is a woman laughing
If I here a woman laughing I instantly get aroused…I cant help myself but granted some do it better then others

The first is her being tickled
I’ve tickled all shapes, sizes, colours, etc and it is great. I must say that I like a woman with some meat on her bones, but I like tickling physically beautiful women that little bit more. However there needs to be the personality as well otherwise NONE of the three works. I love a woman with a flirtatious personality…that gets me going like you wouldn’t believe LOL

Just my opinion

DJ Tickler

 

[asutickler]

The main things that make someone attractive (to me, at least) from a tickling standpoint are ticklishness, personality, and especially attitude. Someone who's very ticklish, fun to be around, and just a touch on the sassy/bratty side is pretty much ideal. 🙂

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Well to be truthful I would not want to be tickled by someone I do not feel attractive. For me it is a sexual thing and I would want to share that with someone I feel sexually attracted to.

Tickling can just be for fun, but I would still want it to be in that certain same context.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

If their personality or true identity is utter shit, then that's what makes them ugly.

In all aspects, it truly is what inside that matters.

Our first impression is always physical, however, physical fades to personality.

 

[Cy/MiG]

I would rather tickle a 7 who is very ticklish than a 10 who is just moderately ticklish at best

So very true.

I'm not going to say that 'looks don't matter' or deny that I'm superficial (cause I can be), but quite honestly it's not THAT big a deal to me.

If I had to pin down one area of looks that I go for it'd be the smile(cheekbones/teeth/lips) or laugh, but then again that's only one factor of it.

Basically, it really just depends, but overall I'd say that looks aren't overly important to me.

And I like your style DJ. Kind of sums up everything nicely. Crystal and ASU nail home some good points as well.

 

[maniactickler]

For me, the hotter the better!

 

[tklee88]

When I am looking for someone to play with, it doesn't matter to me what they look like. As long as they are ticklish, goofy, and fun, I really could care less about what they look like. Sometimes tickling is sexual, and in that case, a person I may find attractive (which is not neccessarily looks, I usually go for Jack Black as opposed to Brad Pitt) would be a better candidate. If it's just fun though, I could care less. I say "bring it on" hahaha.

 

[Libertine]

She has to be attractive for a very important reason

I must confess I've always gone for attractive women when pursuing 'the hobby', because it's important to me that her interest in it is genuine.

If a woman's beautiful, she has her choice of men and doesn't have to put up with kinks she doesn't enjoy in return for attention/companionship.

Even though it took decades to find her, I've been fortunate enough to marry such a one.

 

[Spot_Lady]

I must confess I've always gone for attractive women when pursuing 'the hobby', because it's important to me that her interest in it is genuine.

If a woman's beautiful, she has her choice of men and doesn't have to put up with kinks she doesn't enjoy in return for attention/companionship.

Even though it took decades to find her, I've been fortunate enough to marry such a one.

And congratulations and best wishes to you both. You are beautiful people.

 

[KrazieDog]

If their personality or true identity is utter shit, then that's what makes them ugly.

In all aspects, it truly is what inside that matters.

Our first impression is always physical, however, physical fades to personality.

My exact words almost to a tee. Get outta my head woman. Personality is always what grabs me in anyone.

 

[ShutterTickle]

For some reason people have told me that my standards are quite low. For me when I look at a girl I look straight for their feet. Beautiful looking feet with okay face is fine with me lol. If their ticklish then that's an almost done deal for me. I like a girl with more meat on them...I don't want a full coarse meal or a buffet...but a mid afternoon snack is fine with me lol

 

[Adam]

Honestly? Never been that big of an issue, and I'm very serious about that. As long as we're both having a good time, that's what is important.

 

[tru x factor]

Honestly? Never been that big of an issue, and I'm very serious about that. As long as we're both having a good time, that's what is important.

If their personality or true identity is utter shit, then that's what makes them ugly.

In all aspects, it truly is what inside that matters.

Our first impression is always physical, however, physical fades to personality.

i fully agree with these two posts i mean i know i'm not brad pitt or clooney heck i even stated i look like sloth from goonies but i do agree Adam says as well Crystal the inner beauty is alot stronger then the outer.

 

[cutenticklishnc]

re:looks

Looks shouldn't matter because we are all here for the fun and love of tickling. I like to be up front though and let my ler or lee that I am a BBW so just in case they don't wanna play. It doesn't matter to me bacause there is nothing hotter than a ticklish guy or girl! and I am extremley ticklish all over and love it! hehe

 

[ElephantEye]

It's all good, but ideally I'd prefer to tickle volleyball/swimmer type women (tall, Amazony) and be tickled by gymnast/soccer types (pixieish, elfin).

 

[P[a]pi]

Thin, long legs, long feet/toes

 

[ShutterTickle]

I mean think about it this way...

Weight can be lost.

Beauty is to be deteriorated with aging.

But a good heart always stays true.