TicklishPoison
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Hey guys, since many of you wrote me telling you would like to know more about me helping my boyfriend exploring the tickling world for the first time, I decided to write a thread dedicated to the topic, so I can tell you this crazy story and you can give me suggestions about.
Have to introduce you to a couple of things first. I've always been interested in tickling, mainly on the ler side, even if I played as a lee as well, being the ticklish I am. On the opposite, he has always avoided as much as he could to be tickled, due to his incredible ticklishness and some bad experiences he had being gang tickled in the past. That said, we share a big interest in foot worship, me receiving and him giving, with him liking a submissive role in this. Which was someway promising. As he was sincere since the beginning about his foot interest, I was about my tickling one. He explained he was a bit unconfortable with this, so I told him I would have tickled him for no reason. That was before we started dating as a coupe in life. This changed a lot of stuff and he stated we should have found a soultion for the tickle thing.
He was so brave to give a try and even if I was absolutely dying to tickle him, we gave us rules. No tickling outside dedicated moments, with a precise beginning and end, no bondage (at first), no teasing, instant stop as he asked. This worked so damn good, helping him to get some control back on his panic. Of course he's still the insanely ticklish he was, but at least he can face it without having to run miles away.
Little by little, since our relationship and trust became more consistent, he accepted to do some steps forward. First, he let me tie him without touching him. After a few times, he agreed to try a little tickling, avoiding his worst spots. It was so cool he could deal with it, surviving to a feather dancing across his tummy. Of course he laughed so bad and made me stop several times, but hey! that was a great step.
First time he allowed me to use fingers while he was tied, didn't go well. Even if I did as soft as I could, the tickling ovewhelmed him pretty soon and I had to untie him. That was the most difficult moment, and it was clear it was more a psychological fear than an actual sensation. We stopped trying for a little while and tried again after a couple of week. This time was a lot better and even if he said it tickled him half to death, with me using just a couple of fingers, he was still in for going forward.
The next months have been the best and he accepted several challenges, like wearing a blindfold for a few minutes during the session or dealing with 30 seconds of no safeword tickling. All in order to make him every time a little more comfortable with the sensation of losing control. I was still not allowed to use other tools or to explore those he considers his worst spots, his armpits and his feet.
He is still not ready yet to get his pits tickled, we tried just once and he almost screamed like if I was stabbing him. And I was simply caressing him. With the feet is different. He agreed to try but anytime I move near there, he starts to wiggle his feet like mad and it doesn't help to calm down and discover it's not that bad. I suggested to let me tie his big toes together, so I can go very easy on him without hitting the wrong spots. He agreed, so now he's getting used to have his big toes tied, without me even moving near there. Even if I was very careful, placing shoes strings between his big and second toes seriously tickled him bad already, so it will take time to.
Where are we now? He spends tied more or less 15 minutes per time, during which I go very easy on his upperbody, with feathers first, fingers then, avoiding his armpits. At times, for a couple of minutes, he wears a blindfold, which is very effective on him, to the point he can laugh out of control without being touched. Plus, anytime he says it's ok to, he gets tickled without safeword for like 30 seconds. He kinda likes to go on the edge for a very short time, since he discovered he' not going to die. And I mean literally. His feet and big toes still get tied but not touched.
Stay tuned!
Have to introduce you to a couple of things first. I've always been interested in tickling, mainly on the ler side, even if I played as a lee as well, being the ticklish I am. On the opposite, he has always avoided as much as he could to be tickled, due to his incredible ticklishness and some bad experiences he had being gang tickled in the past. That said, we share a big interest in foot worship, me receiving and him giving, with him liking a submissive role in this. Which was someway promising. As he was sincere since the beginning about his foot interest, I was about my tickling one. He explained he was a bit unconfortable with this, so I told him I would have tickled him for no reason. That was before we started dating as a coupe in life. This changed a lot of stuff and he stated we should have found a soultion for the tickle thing.
He was so brave to give a try and even if I was absolutely dying to tickle him, we gave us rules. No tickling outside dedicated moments, with a precise beginning and end, no bondage (at first), no teasing, instant stop as he asked. This worked so damn good, helping him to get some control back on his panic. Of course he's still the insanely ticklish he was, but at least he can face it without having to run miles away.
Little by little, since our relationship and trust became more consistent, he accepted to do some steps forward. First, he let me tie him without touching him. After a few times, he agreed to try a little tickling, avoiding his worst spots. It was so cool he could deal with it, surviving to a feather dancing across his tummy. Of course he laughed so bad and made me stop several times, but hey! that was a great step.
First time he allowed me to use fingers while he was tied, didn't go well. Even if I did as soft as I could, the tickling ovewhelmed him pretty soon and I had to untie him. That was the most difficult moment, and it was clear it was more a psychological fear than an actual sensation. We stopped trying for a little while and tried again after a couple of week. This time was a lot better and even if he said it tickled him half to death, with me using just a couple of fingers, he was still in for going forward.
The next months have been the best and he accepted several challenges, like wearing a blindfold for a few minutes during the session or dealing with 30 seconds of no safeword tickling. All in order to make him every time a little more comfortable with the sensation of losing control. I was still not allowed to use other tools or to explore those he considers his worst spots, his armpits and his feet.
He is still not ready yet to get his pits tickled, we tried just once and he almost screamed like if I was stabbing him. And I was simply caressing him. With the feet is different. He agreed to try but anytime I move near there, he starts to wiggle his feet like mad and it doesn't help to calm down and discover it's not that bad. I suggested to let me tie his big toes together, so I can go very easy on him without hitting the wrong spots. He agreed, so now he's getting used to have his big toes tied, without me even moving near there. Even if I was very careful, placing shoes strings between his big and second toes seriously tickled him bad already, so it will take time to.
Where are we now? He spends tied more or less 15 minutes per time, during which I go very easy on his upperbody, with feathers first, fingers then, avoiding his armpits. At times, for a couple of minutes, he wears a blindfold, which is very effective on him, to the point he can laugh out of control without being touched. Plus, anytime he says it's ok to, he gets tickled without safeword for like 30 seconds. He kinda likes to go on the edge for a very short time, since he discovered he' not going to die. And I mean literally. His feet and big toes still get tied but not touched.
Stay tuned!
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