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Is an extremely sensitive lee a turn on or a turn off

GarnettRose

GarnettRose

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I've seen a few threads talking about whether a person not being ticklish or hating tickling would be a turn off or a deal breaker. It made me wonder if the reverse is true. I'm so sensitive that though I enjoy the sensation immensely, it is extremely difficult for me to endure more intense play without a certain amount of warm up to acclimate my nerves. So, as the title says, would a man or woman being too ticklish turn you on or off?
 
Well, my last two girlfriends (which includes my current girlfriend) have been off-the-charts ticklish. I mean, I didn't think it was possible for people to be as ticklish as they are. And I absolutely love it. I love that I can devastate her with things like feathers and microfiber keyboard brushes. I love that she starts feeling tickled before we even start playing.

I like to start slow anyway, so I'm more than happy to build up to more intense tickling as time goes on.
 
I wouldn't say a turn off per se', but I may be an outlier, in that I'm not into torturing people or breaking them.

I link to think I'm a gentle player, so If the reactions were that extreme, I'd certainly slow down, let the lee take a break, and offer up the myriad of candy i bring along to sessions.
 
I like most kinds of tickling, I suppose. But preferentially, more sensitive is better. On the extreme end, I want to make sure the person is still getting what they want out of it. I guess the best way to explain is that I want them to love hating it...The reactions of intolerance are the icing on the cake, I think. Again, that is preferential, but I'd also love it if they could tolerate it just fine. But there will always be something magical about a girl that's so extremely ticklish that she'll nearly lose her mind before you even touch her.
 
Tzing said:
No. The more ticklish the girl, the greater the turn on 100%. But like wolfman40, I want her to enjoy it. I'm WAY into fun or arousing tickling, but suffering is an instant turn off for me
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Couldn’t agree more with this sentiment you shared, Tzing! Yes! Fun and arousing tickling where the woman is into it and hopefully getting a little (or alot) turned on by it is the way to go in my humble opinion 🙂 🔥🪶👣Thanks for sharing🙏
 
If they are truly suffering or sound like they are, it is an instant turn off for me. If they mostly scream, shout things seemingly in anger, or the way they laugh doesn't agree with my ears, I am also turned off.
 
It depends - I do like a little bit of a challenge and figuring out what works best/keeping them on the toes, no pun intended. If they’re going to completely turn into a screaming mess within a second of barely being touched it kinda becomes “it doesn’t matter what I do or what technique is used” type session.
 
There's a model who I met at a fetish get together and she mentioned being deathly ticklish. She said that she hates being tickled because the tickled area would feel painful like it was on fire, so she just can't do it. Nothing about that seemed appealing to me.
 
It's a turn on for me. My favorite spots to tickle are the feet and belly button. Just the sensation of their nerves twitching under my fingers is a great feeling
 
Turn on for sure. I can imagine the fun from just feather tickling a hyper sensitive lee.
 
I am very ticklish so for me I don't like being pushed too far. Kink is supposed to be fun for everyone taking part, I think its very important to remember that!
So many things these days are about going the extra mile, pushing the envelope, going to the extreme. Even as I write this I can see an advertisement for videos stating things like 'No Safe Word', 'No turning back', 'total surrender', only if you dare! That's sort of thing. I find that a total turn off. I mean sure yes it's fun to play things up a little but if I was curious about something, not necessarily kink or fetish mind the first thing I would do is Google it. Now if I see something that looks very extreme, over the top all that sort of thing. Well it would put me off for sure.
If you could look at the members on this website and it was possible to see how many are men and how many are women. I would think there are more men, a lot more men than women. Now if you ask the member if they would prefer things to stay as they are or have more female members, well I think I know what the answer would be.
Women like to be daring too. I like some fairly kinky things and some of them really do make me blush even though they are my fantasies and some yes I think will only ever be that because I am not brave enough to try them also I think the reality would not live up to my fantasy. I think it is up to the individual what they like but its worth keeping in mind that not everyone feels the same way.

So sorry for the long explanation but my answer would be no I do not find all that screaming and very over the top reactions from either over sensitive ticklees or in some cases overacting to be a turn on, very much a turn off.
 
As someone who convulses and emits squealing giggles at the very first touch and continues in hysterics until mercy is finally given, I would think I'd be a less attractive target -- too easy, too unchallenging, offering no sense of build or thrill of victory -- but it would seem not everyone feels that way.
 
Only hating being tickled is a turn off. Being very ticklish rather a turn on, obvious. I'd be thankful if the lady I'm with happens to giggle at the slightest touch, Just start off slowly and find the lee's sweet spots. It's about the reaction for me.
 
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jujimbo said:
Only hating being tickled is a turn off. Being very ticklish rather a turn on, obvious. I'd be thankful if the lady I'm with happens to giggle at the slightest touch,
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It's a turn-off when the ticklee HATES being tickled to the point of yelling and preventing you from EVER tickling them again. It's not the sensitivity, it's the tolerance.
 
tickle_maniac said:
It's a turn-off when the ticklee HATES being tickled to the point of yelling and preventing you from EVER tickling them again. It's not the sensitivity, it's the tolerance.
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Exactly. And I also agree about screams. I prefer uncontrollable giggles and laughter over screams. I'd even tickle her more lightly just to get the right reaction.
 
When you tickle someone who's super ticklish and hates being tickled and say they hate it, but then they actually can take lots of tickling and laugh, even though they hate it, it's defs a turn-on. But if they are super ticklish and can't take being tickled at all - whether that's anger, pain, aggression, etc. It's defs a turn off.
 
Lisahs2 said:
I am very ticklish so for me I don't like being pushed too far. Kink is supposed to be fun for everyone taking part, I think its very important to remember that!
So many things these days are about going the extra mile, pushing the envelope, going to the extreme. Even as I write this I can see an advertisement for videos stating things like 'No Safe Word', 'No turning back', 'total surrender', only if you dare! That's sort of thing. I find that a total turn off. I mean sure yes it's fun to play things up a little but if I was curious about something, not necessarily kink or fetish mind the first thing I would do is Google it. Now if I see something that looks very extreme, over the top all that sort of thing. Well it would put me off for sure.
If you could look at the members on this website and it was possible to see how many are men and how many are women. I would think there are more men, a lot more men than women. Now if you ask the member if they would prefer things to stay as they are or have more female members, well I think I know what the answer would be.
Women like to be daring too. I like some fairly kinky things and some of them really do make me blush even though they are my fantasies and some yes I think will only ever be that because I am not brave enough to try them also I think the reality would not live up to my fantasy. I think it is up to the individual what they like but its worth keeping in mind that not everyone feels the same way.

So sorry for the long explanation but my answer would be no I do not find all that screaming and very over the top reactions from either over sensitive ticklees or in some cases overacting to be a turn on, very much a turn off.
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The “longer” the explanation, the better. Awesome insite. I agree on virtually all points that you made
 
Soles_Scream said:
There's a model who I met at a fetish get together and she mentioned being deathly ticklish. She said that she hates being tickled because the tickled area would feel painful like it was on fire, so she just can't do it. Nothing about that seemed appealing to me.
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I’m like that with my ears. They are so sensitive it’s painful if they’re touched. Almost everywhere else it’s a pleasure/desired feeling. That’s why discussion and boundaries are important before people play together. Thank you for mentioning it!
 
Oh the more ticklish the better, as long as they are enjoying themselves! My wife is very ticklish and enjoys being tickled by me, but we keep it in the bedroom pretty much, she doesn’t really like it in a social setting. When she’s in the mood it’s great, but I don’t like to do it when she is uncomfortable or pushed beyond her personal boundaries. So in short I like them very ticklish, but there just has to be a willingness to be tickled there. I find a woman saying “I hate being tickled” just as much as a turn off as a non-ticklish woman.
 
Definitely a turn on. All the way on. Though I prefer silent laughter over screaming. Screaming gets overstimulating quickly.
 
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