Is it a turn off when someone is either not ticklish or hates being tickled?

[Swertz]

Non ticklish females are turnoff.

 

[QuietTickleGuy]

I have a female friend who is not ticklish at all on any spots, but she loves having her feet played with and she loves to tickle torture other people

 

[Toesheldback]

I guess the main reason I’m ok with non-ticklish people is that you get to explore if they consent.

 

[dashboard]

Non-ticklishness is definitely a turn-off but not a complete dealbreaker. After all there are other way to explore my fetish. If they hate being tickled, I guess it depends on how much. I had an ex who didn't like being tickled but she would still let me tickle her because she knew it turned me on. If a woman hated being tickled and wouldn't let me tickle her at all, then that would probably be a turn-off.

 

[BlueLine7045]

Non-ticklishness is definitely a turn-off but not a complete dealbreaker. After all there are other way to explore my fetish. If they hate being tickled, I guess it depends on how much. I had an ex who didn't like being tickled but she would still let me tickle her because she knew it turned me on. If a woman hated being tickled and wouldn't let me tickle her at all, then that would probably be a turn-off.

I just don't see the point if there isn't any hope of a reaction. I kind of understand where y'all are coming from, where the act of tickling and touching in and of itself can be sexy, and I agree, but for me it ultimately comes down to some type of reaction whether it be a giggle or twitch or something.

The hope that you come across a spot on a "non-ticklish" person also makes the idea very sexy. Never know when you're going to strike gold. Maybe you hit a spot they never knew about

 

[magic fingers]

I have a female friend who is not ticklish at all on any spots, but she loves having her feet played with and she loves to tickle torture other people

Someone like that would be awesome, but only because I'm a switch

 

[kingp]

Not ticklish or really hates being tickled are huge turn offs for me...

 

[Hiphophooray]

I echo a lot of the same sentiments here, besides the extremists... If they aren't ticklish, it is unfortunately a turnoff, though certainly not a reflection of them as a person. lol

As for "hating to be tickled", I have only really experienced that with one-night stands who let me tie them up and I try tickling them from there. (Most of the time the result is awkwardly saying "what the fuck" through tickle-induced laughter and letting me carry on, but I digress.

Lmao smh

 

[bluey1]

Non-ticklish women would be a turn-off (not because I want to be mean and shallow, it just would be). And a woman who is ticklish but absolutely hates to be tickled and thinks it's "not on" and "inappropriate" would be as well, tbh.

Tbh, I like a woman who doesn't absolutely love being tickled, but it doesn't make her angry either. And she can definitely take being tickled and it gets her laughing and squirming, and while she wouldn't say she likes being tickled, she has fun being teased and tickled and made to laugh and squirm and driven crazy by someone she trusts.

 

[magic fingers]

It's been my experience that a huge majority of women hate being tickled because they feel violated

 

[BarbaricTickler88]

That's kind of harsh, don't ya think?

Nah, but I'm mostly joking anyway.

Non-ticklish ones are the greatest turn offs though, not gonna lie. The very notion that they don't react to touch is a major deal breaker. Agents of flaccidness, I call them.
At least you can fantasize about those that are ticklish, but hate it. Non-ticklish ones are just...bricks. That's how I see them.

But again, generally speaking this fetish of ours is neither normal, nor common. A HUGE majority of women consider most fetishes like this to be creepy and weird. They're entitled to an opinion, same as we are.
Toxic positivity isn't good for anyone but fascists.

 

[King of tickles]

Yes it is. Not only cause it’s awkward, but now reading or messing with them won’t really happen

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

To me it’s not a turn off but rather a disappointment

 

[lostphilosopher]

If there's a woman I'm interested in and she's not ticklish, yes. It's a turnoff and also disappointing.

 

[Tzing]

Both are complete deal breakers for me

 

[PVZTK]

I've actually never come across a woman who wasn't ticklish. The most I've encountered were women who were less ticklish in some spots than others, or women who were ticklish on some spots and not in others.

Now, when it comes to women who "hate" being tickled? That's a tricky one. The vast majority of people don't like being tickled, but I've never tickled a woman who absolutely hate being tickled. And I've tickled women who were on the high end of the ticklishness scale.