Is it wrong to tell a woman that she has pretty feet out in public areas?

[bassman34472]

I have seen so many pretty feet with beautiful pedicures and toe and ankle jewelery in stores and such but I just don't have the guts to approach someone and tell them that they have really pretty, sexy feet. I am afraid of rejection or the person just calling me weird or something and end up embarrassing myself. Although if she really liked my compliment and ended up taking me to her place for some foot worship and tickling fun then it would be all worthwhile. How do other TMF members offer a proper compliment and have any got the ultimate prize of getting a foot worship/tickle date based on your comments?

 

[marcusb]

Would you consider walking up to some random woman and saying, "Nice breasts"?

Basically, no.

 

[LBFT]

This is a awesome question & Topic. I feel marcusb, makes a very good point. A person could be crossing the line if you tell a lady you don't know she has pretty feet. Again good question but one that does need a good bit of thought.

Thank You,
LBFT

 

[Wesker28]

Well look at it this way if a woman is wearing a toe ring and a pair of sandals, I think she would appreciate the compliment as she has gone to that trouble, and wants her feet to be noticed. Regardless though women like to be complimented so I don't see anything wrong with someone telling a woman that she has pretty feet, just don't go too overboard!

 

[milagros317]

Well look at it this way if a woman is wearing a toe ring and a pair of sandals, I think she would appreciate the compliment as she has gone to that trouble, and wants her feet to be noticed. Regardless though women like to be complimented so I don't see anything wrong with someone telling a woman that she has pretty feet, just don't go too overboard!

A woman wearing a push-up bra wants her breasts to be noticed by somebody, but would likely not welcome a random stranger coming up to her in public and saying, "Nice breasts you've got there."

Similarly I don't think that a woman with a great pedicure and a toe ring necessarily would welcome attention from a stranger in a public place.

 

[TMF Jeff]

I think you're going about this question the wrong way. The question isn't "Is it arbitrarily right or wrong to compliment a woman's feet in public?"

The question is "How is a woman going to feel/react if I compliment her feet in public?"

Obviously every woman is going to be slightly different, but I would imagine that the vast majority of women, who spend their entire waking lives dealing with men, are going to A) immediately understand that this is not a random admiration of their feet, but a fetishy comment that represents something deeper, and B) are going to find it a little creepy that you would be so forward with your fetish as to approach a stranger about it.

Most women are used to being hit on, so they probably won't freak right out over it. But, I think that mostly what you'll get is a polite smile, a quick thanks, and a look in their eye that suggests they're hoping you'll go away.

 

[Jerseyguy]

Interesting question..................it all depends on context. Would I compliment a stranger's feet out of the blue? NO. But if you are at a party or in a waiting room etc, and you strike up a conversation and get a positive vibe, I would certainly do that.

Further to this, with people I know, I have definitely complimented a woman's feet (nail polish, shoes, toe ring etc) and once I get that smile and thanks I go for the tickle, it works like a charm!!! Have done that at least a dozen times with ALL positive responses.

 

[Clm128]

I like jersyguys answer.... Comment the tie ring or nail polish but don't just come out and say she has pretty feet. You'll probably get a better response. Also where is key... A waiting room or elevator is perfect... Bus stop ect. But walking up to a lady in a store probably not so much lol.... Use your head and put yourself in her shoes... Not literally though 😉

 

[BellybTickler]

I would say, no it isn't wrong.

However, it is a rather odd way to start a conversation and would more than likely get you a weird stare than a positive response.

 

[toyou444]

I know a young lady who's ex had a foot fetish that he was apparently very open about (I didn't know him...just heard the stories) so she is used to the attention paid to her feet. She recently said that a complete stranger complimented her feet while she was out with her kids somewhere and that it really put her off. So here is someone who knows/understands that some people have an attraction to feet, who takes care of and displays them quite nicely, and STILL thought the guys was out of line for saying it in a public place.

Short answer: Don't do it.

~ toyou

 

[chicago]

Why even humiliate yourself complimenting some random persons feet? I guarantee whatever response you're hoping for is not the one you're going to get.

 

[xX Yuna Xx]

Why even humiliate yourself complimenting some random persons feet? I guarantee whatever response you're hoping for is not the one you're going to get.

It's true. If this happened to me (As I love with tickling and stuff) I would probably say thanks or something But deep down inside I would be creeped out and probably walk away lol it would help if you knew this woman and talked for a bit before you get into the fetish talk and feet compliments 😛

 

[ticklishdanny]

I don't know what you think is going to happen if you compliment a woman on her feet, but I am sure that it is not the reaction you are hoping for. You could say she has nice feet, but that might lead to having one of them ending up hitting you in the groin.

 

[Phineas]

I have seen so many pretty feet with beautiful pedicures and toe and ankle jewelery in stores and such but I just don't have the guts to approach someone and tell them that they have really pretty, sexy feet.

'kay, here's your first problem. You don't see a person, you see "pretty feet". That's objectifying.

I am afraid of rejection or the person just calling me weird or something and end up embarrassing myself.

This part is kinda normal, despite the subject matter. Most guys don't have the guts to walk up to a woman and start a conversation, regardless of what they want to talk about. It can be overcome, and your chances of success go up dramatically if you're able to not act like you're Only After One Thing. Hint: opening with a fetishy comment is not the way to do that.

Although if she really liked my compliment and ended up taking me to her place for some foot worship and tickling fun then it would be all worthwhile.

Well then, it'll never be worthwhile because the chances of this happening are exactly nil. So, if that's the only reason you want to do it, then don't.

How do other TMF members offer a proper compliment and have any got the ultimate prize of getting a foot worship/tickle date based on your comments?

A) a "foot worship/tickle date" is not the "ultimate prize", so stop acting like it is. Talk to her like she's a person, not a target/object.

B) if you really think it is, then you'll probably never get anywhere with a woman who doesn't have an hourly rate attached. Get used to that.

C) Technically, yes. Nearly every woman I've ever actively complimented on their feet has let me 'experience' them eventually. So, I've gotten your "ultimate prize" many times over.

tl;dr - I agree with Jeff. The only times I've ever had a compliment received positively was when I had already established a rapport with her as a human being, and taken an interest in her as a person. If she likes you, you can tell her anything you want.

 

[Kobai]

Socially Awkward Fetishist is awkward!

 

[Sandrock74]

Here's a way to keep it simple:

A woman you don't know? Say nothing....and don't stare, either.

A woman you do know? I'm sure they wouldn't mind a compliment, may even be flattered....however, don't go overboard with it!

These two simple rules have served me very well over the years.

 

[Sodahead]

No, it is not worth it, and I would ask you to re think your approach a bit.

Women probably don't paint their toe nails and get pedicures in hopes that a man will see them in public and want to lick/tickle/worship them. They just don't do stuff like that in real life.

 

[TiickleNiicole]

It could make for an awkward situation but I don't think i'd call it "wrong" to do so.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Although if she really liked my compliment and ended up taking me to her place for some foot worship and tickling fun then it would be all worthwhile. How do other TMF members offer a proper compliment and have any got the ultimate prize of getting a foot worship/tickle date based on your comments?

I've never heard of a woman being so taken w/a compliment that she then signs up for having some random dude worship/tickle her feet.

That kinda thing only happens in California Star videos.

 

[Mane'o]

I hope the OP got the answer clearly enough. How many ways can one say, " no, dumb idea". My wife gets regular pedis so her feet are attractive and her toes are colorful and she wears sandals to expose her good looking feet and often adds an anklet or toe ring. She does that in large part for me and enjoys my compliments but if some stranger complimented her feet she'd get far away from him as quickly as possible.

 

[Sandrock74]

That kinda thing only happens in California Star videos.

HA! Like "Winkle, Winkle Little Star"?

 

[Dave Pavet]

It's only wrong if while you are telling her you are openly masturbating in a public place.

 

[Capt Spaulding]

I don't think I'd do it to shy

 

[Phineas]

I hope the OP got the answer clearly enough.

IME, a more likely outcome is that he ignores all of us, screws up enough courage to do it anyway, and then comes back here to whine about how women don't like foot guys after she maces him.

"I don't understand why she freaked out, all I did was tell her I wanted to suck her toes..."

 

[smokinj]

Not a good idea. There's really no way to say that to a woman without her thinking you are a weirdo or a creep.