Is it wrong to tell a woman that she has pretty feet out in public areas?

[Cif]

I think a percentage of people here should get over the idea that if a woman paints her toenails its because they want you to compliment their feet.

Its just ludicrous.

 

[Phineas]

I think a percentage of people here should get over the idea that if a woman paints her toenails its because they want you to compliment their feet.

Its just ludicrous.

On the other hand, when I was living in Seattle and noticed a lot of women braving the cold weather in flip-flops and snow pants(!), I asked one of them what was up. Her response was, "I paid $40 for this pedicure, and people are gonna see it!"

 

[Cif]

On the other hand, when I was living in Seattle and noticed a lot of women braving the cold weather in flip-flops and snow pants(!), I asked one of them what was up. Her response was, "I paid $40 for this pedicure, and people are gonna see it!"

That very different to, "I paid $40 for this pedicure, and I'm hoping some guy is going to compliment them so I can take him home to worship them".

I brush my hair every morning and brush my teeth, I'm glad people notice, but that is all.

 

[Phineas]

That very different to, "I paid $40 for this pedicure, and I'm hoping some guy is going to compliment them so I can take him home to worship them".

I brush my hair every morning and brush my teeth, I'm glad people notice, but that is all.

Truth. There's a wide gap between the two extremes. Most people fall somewhere in the middle.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

HA! Like "Winkle, Winkle Little Star"?

Anything can & does happen in a Henry Winkler CalStar vid.

 

[tksleepwalker]

I think women are used to getting hit on and/or complemented on their breasts and other "ass"ets. But I wonder if a foot compliment might be unusual enough to kind of put them off-guard, and cause then surprise and joy to actually enjoy such a new comment?

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I almost did this twice in the same week one was to a female i have known for years ( Tanya ) and the other women i have no clue who she is but had nice looking feet. Tanya on the other hand when I had seen her at work she had on a very nice female business suit with tan nylons and they type of shoes shere you can see all the way around and top of her feet on her toes she had a french pedicure with whitetips and the same on her fingers but her feet i focused on the entire time, the next morning when i woke up its the first thing on my mind was her feet but i was afraid to tell her I dont want to lose a multi year friendship

 

[toyou444]

Its also, obviously, a gender thing too. I've been around females complimenting others pedicures or nail polish...heck I've seen women comparing feet and which ones were "nicer". But a compliment like that from a man...even one they know is usually interpreted as a "come on"...

Unfair? Sure. Some guys just like to give a compliment without trying to get something freaky going. But totally realistic.

~ toyou

 

[Jenna L.]

I have seen so many pretty feet with beautiful pedicures and toe and ankle jewelery in stores and such but I just don't have the guts to approach someone and tell them that they have really pretty, sexy feet. I am afraid of rejection or the person just calling me weird or something and end up embarrassing myself. Although if she really liked my compliment and ended up taking me to her place for some foot worship and tickling fun then it would be all worthwhile. How do other TMF members offer a proper compliment and have any got the ultimate prize of getting a foot worship/tickle date based on your comments?

I feel kind of mean saying this, but I kind of hope someone here tries telling a stranger she has pretty feet and gets slapped/gets kicked/gets called a pervert/gets laughed at/something awful happens to them. Thinking about it amuses me for some reason.

 

[TheTickleMonster]

Well I think it does depend on the girl, and also how you say it. And if they've just gotten a pedicure. If you just randomly compliment her feet, she'll probably think you're weird because on this site, sure we realize there are a lot of people that like feet, but in the real world people don't realize that there are people that find that spot attractive, even if they try to take care of their feet. However the best best if you want to compliment a woman's feet is probably after she gets a pedicure because it lets her know that that money she just spent didn't go to waste. Now I'm not promoting going out there and finding a girl that just got one and complimenting her feet, because you might still get slapped or whatever. I actually don't think it's ever really that good to go up to a woman and tell her she has a nice any body part if you've never talked to her before. Unless of course you're at a bar or a club where going up to a woman and hitting on her or talking to her is acceptable... of course with feet, you might still be seen as weird.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

I feel kind of mean saying this, but I kind of hope someone here tries telling a stranger she has pretty feet and gets slapped/gets kicked/gets called a pervert/gets laughed at/something awful happens to them. Thinking about it amuses me for some reason.

Mmkay.

 

[Jenna L.]

Mmkay.

It's just that it's such a bad idea that if someone actually does it after being told by practically everyone in this thread not to do it, they deserve whatever terrible reaction they get. Maybe the idea that someone would tell a girl she has pretty feet and then get slapped for it is funny to me because they're not just saying it to be nice. They're saying it with hopes of getting a tickling or foot session out of it. And that's just never gonna happen.

 

[proud2tickle]

I am about to tell u something that will change your world. Women do get hit on all the time, some girls love it and some hate it, some girls know your hitting on them when u are try to act like ur not and some girls just don't care..... You idea isn't strange or wrong, but ur missing the message some of these people are sending. Your not going to get to play with a girl's feet if u compliment them. U may however open up a door to conversation. I use to be nervous to start a convo with a girl so in my game I developed starting off with a compliment to break the ice something that would get them to laugh. I picked three body parts to compliment; elbows, knees and feet.... I did it With a saracastic joking hint. I Would say you had breathe taking elbows, or has Anyone ever told you that your feet look sophisticated. All the guys who where ever worth knowing would always fire back a playful little line like, "well I do work out with knee flexes every day" or something like "well my feet have been a good foundation for all my life"..... Ur compliment probably will never get u what u want directly, but it may if done with no pressure and comfortable demeanor introduce u to someone amazing who u Can have a productive and healthy love life with and who will probably let u ticke and worship her in that realtionship. Tickling outside or a relationship is like sex outside of one. At some point your gonna want to share more then just ur physical self with someone.

 

[proud2tickle]

All the girls worth knowing

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i have done this many time, and never had a problem. the women were happy and some suprised that someone noticed. it's in how you do it, what you say, and body language.

steve

 

[maniactickler]

Id probably keep my comments to myself. better off swaying nothing and just wait until you get home and pleasure yourself to the thought.

 

[Horatio]

It's creepy to tell a woman you think she has pretty feet.
It's less creepy if you tell her you like her shoes.
It's even less creepy (almost acceptable) if you tell her you like her shoes, and ask where she bought them cause your wife/girlfriend would love them.

 

[proud2tickle]

disagree the whole girlfriend wife buy thing is more creepy then just saying hey i like your shoes..... being nice and saying i like your shoes is cool, stepping over board by adding someone else to the mix is weird........ Let me ask this, if u happened to be in area like a bar or club or some place social to engage talking to a girl u dont know and u say "hey, I bet you look great in flannel." is that weird or is that cute and clever...... u decide.....

 

[TickVix]

I don't think it is. As long as its done in a respectful manner and her feet are not the focus of your interaction. I've had that happen to me several times. I just took kt as a compliment.

 

[proud2tickle]

I don't think it is. As long as its done in a respectful manner and her feet are not the focus of your interaction. I've had that happen to me several times. I just took kt as a compliment.

now this is a girl who hangs out in the real world

 

[Jagermeistered]

If a girl wears sandals or flip flops; it is open compliment season. Like TickVix said(or, was pointing out)... It should be a innocent compliment(in passing).

Unless... 😉 - who knows...

 

[TickVix]

now this is a girl who hangs out in the real world

I try my very best 😀.

 

[TickVix]

If a girl wears sandals or flip flops; it is open compliment season. Like TickVix said(or, was pointing out)... It should be a innocent compliment(in passing).

Unless... 😉 - who knows...

That's basically how I see it. I don't think many women would find it offensive if a man kindly complimented them on their feet. Now if he says something about putting them in his mouth....that may cause a bit of an issue. In a more intimate setting that probably wouldn't be an issue depending on the level of rapport between the two, but in passing.......not a good thing to say at all lol.

 

[GodlessTickler]

Can you make a complement like that... Some people can.
Is it objectively wrong? Probobly not unless your killing a puppy while you do so.

But the STRONG take home message is that everything in the way you ask the question, says that YOU should probobly avoid doing so.

I had a friend who all the time dated girls using those god awful pick up lines, you know the ones "is your body a love buffet... Can I borrow a quarter.. " and so on. Because he had EXCELENT social skills. He didn't just walk up to a random woman and say that stupidity. He made it silly, funny... It worked for him. He had EXCELENT social instincts for what girls he could say it to and when.

I am a big believer that you can bring up anything... At the right time in the right place.

I'm not a foot guy, but I can see being friendly with a girl, and working in a foot complement in a NATURAL WAY and see how she reacts.

But if you walk up to any woman, mouth agape, eyes wide... Uttering in your best berry white "you have pretty FEET" it's gonna come out more Golumn and less Berry and the last thing she's gonna do is invite you home for a night of fetish fantasy.

Unless of course you have more money than god, and the woman in question is of a certain type... Then you can say whatever you want.
But if you really want an amazing night with a girl, I strongly suggest "Hi, how are you this evening?" Or something equivilant as an ideal opener.

 

[TickVix]

It's just that it's such a bad idea that if someone actually does it after being told by practically everyone in this thread not to do it, they deserve whatever terrible reaction they get. Maybe the idea that someone would tell a girl she has pretty feet and then get slapped for it is funny to me because they're not just saying it to be nice. They're saying it with hopes of getting a tickling or foot session out of it. And that's just never gonna happen.

I agree with you on the possibility of a tickle session coming from a foot compliment being very slim. However not so much on the slapping or embarrassing part lol. But just wondering.... would you or have you slapped a guy for saying you have pretty feet? Just curious