Is it wrong to tell a woman that she has pretty feet out in public areas?

[proud2tickle]

I concur not to be mean, but it's something u have to have the Chrisma for, and as stated by both sides of the debate it can't be done if ur looking for the result of just s girl to tickle play. If u do it has to be with the clever intent to really want to get to know a girl that peeks your interest in the areas of a relationship. It's like a conversation I had last night, chilvary is dead because women killed it and men buried it. I don't mean like opening doors and such, but really trying to prusue a girl and show her she is precious and important to u, like one person said she just liked a guy to be humorful, however now a days most guys wouldn't spend the time I try and get to know her and make her laugh because the next girl they see is probably easy and looking to give it up. There use to be type a girls and Boys and type b Girls and boys.... Now while u can splinter many factor of a and b, the a people want a long and meangingful relationship with Someone in multiple aspect and factors while type b just is looking to get laid and get there's..... The market is now flooded with type b

 

[Ciabatta]

I have the same need to compliment a Lovely Lady regarding Her pretty feet/pedicure/toe-ankle bracelet/shoes, etc. And, I have the same fear of embarrassment, rejection, or worse from her. A few Ladies with whom I was close enough to share the question had divergent POVs. One said that Women mostly always dress/groom themselves from head to toes so that other Woman would notice---NOT Men. Another said that looking pretty overall is all about the Woman's own ego satisfaction, again--NOT for Men's acknowledgement.

However, none of us with ardent, sincere, insatiable Fetishes for loving/worshipping/Tickling Lady's pretty feet/toes/soles/shoes would ever fear to compliment a Lady on Her feet, etc. if we didn't have the one shot in a million to make a fantasy come true.

I suppose after years of trying, without success, I would advise that offering a Lady such a compliment has to be skillfully considered, vis-a-vis a complete stranger vs. at least a casual conversation or a Lady who has pretty feet, etc. and seems to be confident enough to accept the compliment (if nothing further) or has offered you ( the Man) even the slightest compliment about something involving your looks, clothes, etc. and may expect a counter-compliment.

Tony

 

[LadyNerd]

Here is the problem with the fetish folks assuming a vanilla woman would take a foot compliment without finding it creepy: The foot fetish is one of the most widely known fetishes of any of them, to my knowledge. Most people have at least heard of that fetish, therefore, it would be really difficult to find a vanilla woman who heard the word feet in a compliment and didn't automatically register it to a fetish that has been put on television and in books as something negative.

Now, I'm biased and dislike feet, and I couldn't take that compliment without giving the other person a disgusted look in response. However, looking at all of this objectively, if the guy, or girl, giving the compliment was charming enough and was looking for a real relationship and not some nigh-impossible sex-capades immediately after the compliment, the person might get away with it provided it wasn't the first compliment given. It would likely be easier provided the vanilla woman was unaware of the foot fetish, but that might just make a relationship more difficult if she found it weird once it was explained to her.

 

[MacD]

What's the sense in telling someone unknown about her feet?
Most woman will feel unccomfortable if you only approach them and tell them they are pretty. Without naming body parts.

Although if she really liked my compliment and ended up taking me to her place for some foot worship and tickling fun then it would be all worthwhile.

you really do believe this could happen every now and then???


sorry but....

 

[Cif]

1) If you don't want a woman to think you're creepy, talk to her like she's a person, not an object.

You kind of failed at your first point. Women do this, women should stop doing that, women confuse me... they're not all the same and they're not all out to dupe you.

It came across as very self-pitying but it seems like your opinion on how women act might be the greatest barrier between you and getting a date.

Just saying...

 

[playfuldude]

I mentioned this in another post, but it meshes well with this topic. It has been my experience that when you compliment, or even mention that a girl has nice or pretty feet, toenails, soles; especially as a guy you will get the grossed out "uuuhh ok thanks" or worse. There are the exceptions but by and large FEET=CREEPY. Counter intuitively; if you comment on her shoes women seem to perk up and are glad you spoke up. Interesting that a comment about legs, feet, boobs, butt or something that a girl is basically stuck with is off limits except in the bedroom, but something that she can control or choose like shoes, a dress, or jewelry can be construed as non threatening as long as friendly rapport, and common courtesy remain in tact. Of course I guess every guy wishes it were as simple as walking up to her and asking if she wants to get freaky, but it the interest of social restraint, decency, and the fact that a womans BS meter is much better than we give her credit for, the fellas just gotta go along to get along. Women feel free to pounce on me and correct me if need be..

 

[Provocateur]

Many women have this really weird body=object problem. When you comment their body they immediately see you objectifying them, but if you say something nice about the stuff they are wearing it's a compliment to their ability to choose nice-looking clothes and a positive thing. In my experience saying nice things to women about their looks is a no-no until they trust you. Otherwise you're just a creep. (With the odd exception of just saying they look nice in general without being specific).
Women also seem to think that men are all blind, or should be.
Example: EX: Did she have a nice ass?
Me: Yes.
EX: How the hell did you notice?
Me: I have eyes!
Apparently the ability to notice something is bad. Honesty is also bad. Creepy people have eyes and are honest.
Theoretical example:
Guy: You have really pretty feet.
Girl: Ewww, creep!

 

[Mysterioushy]

tickle

 

[Coup de Grace]

No matter what, it's virtually impossible to compliment a strager on their feet without it sounding creepy... and this goes for any body part: legs, breasts, ass, etc.. I've never complimented women I knew well for fear of how it would sound. In addition, it would put that person on the spot and make them feel uncomfortable, especially if other people are eavesdropping.

There's this middle-eastern woman that rides the train with me that has the most heavenly pair of feet I've seen in years: perfect toe alignment, beautiful nails, great toe length, etc. Her feet are so pretty that I snuck a snapshot with my camera phone. 😛 We've spoken a couple of times and shared a smile or two, but as much as I would cherish the opportunity, there's no way I'm complimenting her tootsies. She'd probably stop wearing sandals and sit somewhere else.

For anyone that wants to compliment a stranger, I would advise you to get to know the person well before doing so. Common fetish or not, you're taking a huge risk and may end up scaring them away.

 

[FootTicklin'Man]

On the other hand, when I was living in Seattle and noticed a lot of women braving the cold weather in flip-flops and snow pants(!), I asked one of them what was up. Her response was, "I paid $40 for this pedicure, and people are gonna see it!"

Interesting, I once heard a girl say something like that in the middle of winter!! Made me laugh a bit!

With regard to the original post, I think this is an interesting topic but something we should only ever think about or fantasize about doing and not actually doing it. After all Jails are not meant to be nice places!