laughtermech
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Thanks for your reply.Yes.
Thanks for your reply.Yes.
THANKS FOR SHARING IN ALL CAPS 🙂AS A LER, I FIND IT TRULY SEXY, AROUSING, AND SEXUAL. I KEEP IT IN CHECK WHEN FOOT MASSAGING MY FOOT GIRLS (LEES), BUT THEN IT USUALLY TURNS SEXUAL FROM THERE. WE LOVE IT.
It’s OK, no worries. It’s nice to know, there are people out there that find Tickling sexually arousing like we do if you know of any girls in Tampa Florida willing to make extra book let me know every time I advertise on Facebook I get band lolThanks for sharing that. I hope you do find some people that share your enthusiasm for having your feet tickled and you can enjoy having your feet tickled by them. I also hope you can enjoy the beautiful non-shameful world of fantasy and self-love. Wishing you the best. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.
Thanks for sharing that🙏Outside of a dating relationship, no it's not sexual. That said my most ticklish place is a sensitive place depending on the tickle method.
Thanks for sharing that🙏If I have an intimate connection to the guy I'm tickling, it becomes sexual for me. Otherwise, it's not sexual to me. I've tickled dozens of men "platonically."
Well said! Thank you for giving that in-depth perspective on attraction and intimacy. Makes total sense and I am actually the same way. Again, many thanks for sharing these thoughts🙏For me, there has to be an attraction. At this point in my life, tickling is usually in the context of an intimate relationship, so that always has a sexual context. That partner knows of my fetish and is tickling me to turn me on or at least knowing that it will. But the infrequent times when I've tickled (or been tickled by) a kid or a woman I'm not attracted to, it's just been playful and non-sexual. I haven't tickled (or been tickled by) another guy since I was a kid, but I can't recall that ever having a sexual context for me either.
Outside of an intimate relationship, I've been tickled by women who I find attractive but I'm not in an intimate relationship with and who know nothing of my fetish. Those situations did create sexual thoughts for me even though the real life scenario was just playful.
So I'd say that for me, attraction leads the way. If I'm sexually attracted to someone then those sexual thoughts will inevitably include tickling. But tickling without attraction isn't going to be sexual for me.
Sure.Thanks for sharing that🙏
Thanks for sharing that🙏 Much appreciated.Almost always, yes. Seeing brief tickles between others can be just playful. But when a guy tickles a girl, if her reactions are cute, that's always a turn-on for me. And seeing adults tickle kids makes me uncomfortable
Thanks for sharing that. Interesting. If you don’t mind me asking, have there been times when you were surprised just how arousing things got while being tickled by someone you were playing with and was someone you were very attracted to?for me there’s usually a sexual undertone and it’s almost always arousing (assuming the person I am playing with is someone I enjoy being around) but I very rarely want it to be taken to a sexual place.
YESApologies as I’m sure there have been other threads and posts in this forum related to this question I’ve posed in the title of this post, but I thought I’d go ahead and pose it all the same.
So…what do you think…is tickling sexual to you?
It sure is to me. I really can’t separate the two things. One always equals the other. I know there are plenty that feel the same way as I do, but I also know there are plenty that don’t.
Tickling has always represented something very sensual and very sexual to me. Any time I watch a tickling scene (mainly between a man and a woman, but also vice versa and also between women, not so much between men), I become sexually aroused. I want the progression in the scene to go from tickling, to turn on, to sex.
I especially love the connection between the pleasurable feelings that come from having your feet touched, to those tinglings that happen between your legs (think reflexology and the pressure points on the feet that affect other areas of the body).
I love to explore that connection as women experience the joy and pleasure of a good foot massage that gets them ‘in the mood’, there’s some playful tickling involved, and then…one thing leads to another and he’s between her legs running his tongue up and down her vulva and labia, tickling her clitoris and making her cum wildly and often.
I’ll stop there for now.
Interested in your thoughts on this topic.
Thanks for the space to raise this issue and question, and thanks for considering,
TLM
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Thanks so much for sharing that perspective. Very interesting. Appreciate the feedback and respect that position.For me it can be both. I don't get turned on every time I get tickled, and over time, those sort of playful interactions have become a core part of my intimate life. I am an extremely touchy person in general. With my husband, tickling is an extension of that. In the right context such as when we are making love or if we are doing more of a hardcore scene, then yes, it is sexual. It is for this reason that I don't let anyone other than my husband tickle me. Even when it isn't sexual, it is still an expression of our intimacy.
Thanks so much for sharing that perspective. Much appreciated.I don't really have much to add, but the short answer is that it is to me. If I am doing a tickling session, there is no need to involve my genitals at all. Interestingly, I get plenty of sexual gratification just from being tickled. Just from my feet being tickled in fact. I guess that's what happens when you combine a strong tickling fetish with a strong foot fetish. It was a bit to difficult to accept that this is most of my sexual life, but luckily a lot of people I've met in my life, specially for m/m experiences, have been indulgent and even into it.
Thanks so much for sharing that perspective.It mostly is for me. I don't get hard all the time, but it's still only something I would do with a guy I am interested in. I would never tickle my younger sisters or any of their children. Friends I have are off limits too, unless, it's a cute guy I may pursue.
Agreed.Context is everything.