Is ticklishness a weakness'

[chicago]

Hey, I may be ticklish, but I ain't weak.

Got it?!

 

[DLazarus]

Yes, TicklishGiggle, we've got it hon, but all I know is that I lose my strength when I'm being tickled. It's almost impossible to fight back.

Don

 

[nylonsnfeet]

Depends...

As most have said, depends on how it is used. I think of it as a being alive. On the other side: What is not being ticklish?

 

[Softstroke]

I'd say definately yes! In fact, one of my favorite things is discovering someone's "secret weakness" is their ticklishness.

 

[drew70]

I may have been born weak, but not last week!

If ticklishness is weakness, consider me in full paralysis.

 

[Iwant2Btickled]

weakness... well, i suppose so.. even though i love it, i kind of become helpless when i'm tickled...i can't do anything but squirm and laugh. Sure, I try to fight back most of the time, but it usually doesn't work, one well placed hand can usually put me flat on my back, and once I'm down, well, i'm down for the count.. 🙄

 

[Diego]

Yes but...

Yes it is, I am horribly ticklish in my feet and my wife can breake me (if I am properly tied.

Althought its also fun, two ex-girlfriends told me that they didnt like that I was so ticklish because they thought It was a weakness for a man to be that ticklish (although I am quite a strong man)
They said it was OK for a woman to be that ticklish but not for a man

What do you think?

 

[fruityfoot]

I never thought of that that way.
I think not because unless you over power someone - you can't tickling him/her.

but if the person is already tied up, well, that's a different story - we all know that means torture 🙂

 

[chicago]

Yes it is, I am horribly ticklish in my feet and my wife can breake me (if I am properly tied.

Althought its also fun, two ex-girlfriends told me that they didnt like that I was so ticklish because they thought It was a weakness for a man to be that ticklish (although I am quite a strong man)
They said it was OK for a woman to be that ticklish but not for a man

What do you think?

Hey, you can't help how ticklish you are. That said, something about an overly ticklish man, especially one that likes it, weirds me out. I know it's retarded, but I can't help gettin' the willies when I see a guy gettin' tickled.

That's just me. If you like being tickled, go you.

 

[SirDigbyChickenCaesar]

Hey, you can't help how ticklish you are. That said, something about an overly ticklish man, especially one that likes it, weirds me out. I know it's retarded, but I can't help gettin' the willies when I see a guy gettin' tickled.

That's just me. If you like being tickled, go you.

Wowzers, that is a new one on me. I'm sure there aren't many men on here who get weirded out by a woman being ticklish and liking to be tickled, so I never thought that a woman would be weirded out by a man that likes to be tickled. Let me officially welcome you to the the thankfully short list of people that are weirded out by me in one way or another. 😀 😀

 

[Deleted member 2452]

Something about a guy who trumpets his 'extreme ticklishness', and seems to be constantly 'asking for it', is kind of...submissive, I guess...makes me think of a dog rolling over on its back and wagging its tail.... Besides, it's much more fun to find out a big strong guy is ticklish "accidentally", and willing to fight back....😀

now i would have thought he was being open, and honest.. go figure?
i too am highly ticklish, and in some unusual places. i do not think of it as a weakness, just another way to play, lol
gee i guess i just weired out some of the kids here.

steve

 

[chicago]

I never said it was right or made sense, just that was how it made me feel.

Now get over it.

 

[barefeetarebest]

Hey, you can't help how ticklish you are. That said, something about an overly ticklish man, especially one that likes it, weirds me out. I know it's retarded, but I can't help gettin' the willies when I see a guy gettin' tickled.

That's just me. If you like being tickled, go you.

Something about a guy who trumpets his 'extreme ticklishness', and seems to be constantly 'asking for it', is kind of...submissive, I guess...makes me think of a dog rolling over on its back and wagging its tail.... Besides, it's much more fun to find out a big strong guy is ticklish "accidentally", and willing to fight back....😀

Thank god for chocolate and vanilla

 

[Deleted member 2452]

Open and honest is fine, am I not being open and honest by saying it doesn't do anything for me, personally? No one's judging.

See, this is why the (insert girly voice here) "I'm oh, so, ticklish...you wouldn't tickle me, would you???" guys turn me off....they're way too sensitive
.......get it?

saddly, no i don't get it! if like to tickle a guy, why not a guy who enjoys it? so am i right in reading that you only like to tickle guys that don't like it, and may punch you to make you stop?

steve

 

[StuGatz9]

Extreme ticklishness can be a weakness if it's used by a serious tickler (guilty as charged) who's intention is to establish his dominance over you by tickling you excessively. i.e., to the point of torture.

 

[ericr]

I am very ticklish and like to think of it as a gift. I think a lot of men see it as a weakness or at least not very manly; even though they are ticklish, they verbally deny it. On the other hand, I have heard that strong, in shape, athletic people tend to be among the most ticklish.

 

[alchemy]

It depends, people!

People see different things different ways. For some, it's a weakness due to the fact that they either don't like it, or have issues with control and/or submissiveness. For others, it's a blessing for exactly the opposite reasons. The qualification of an inanimate thing automatically requires moral and personal experience past onto it, which are in and of themselves, relative.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

You're right, you don't get it. You've read me wrong.
There's a difference between tickling a guy who likes it (a lot I've met do, regardless of whether they admit it) and a guy who acts submissive about it, that's all I'm saying. What in my posts indicated I wanted to tickle someone who didn't like it?

you siad it 2 posts back;
Besides, it's much more fun to find out a big strong guy is ticklish "accidentally", and willing to fight back....

i read this to mean you want a guy who may be ticklish and will fight you to make you stop tickling him. if he fights i'd say that is a strong indication he doesn't like it!
what you younger gals don't realize is, it take a more "manly man" to admit his desires, and weaknesses. to hide is cowardly!

as an example, i met my wife at a holloween party, i was dressed as a woman. i looked damn good too, lol(2 different guys tried to pick me up).
she and several other of her sorority sister thought i had not only a great sense of humor, but was very assured of my manhood, and not fearfull of what others may think, very macho. which is contradictory in a way, considering how i looked, lol!

 

[toyou444]

Just my 2 (more) cents.

I agree with the amazon that there is a difference between a submissive and guy who is ticklish and likes it (or doesn't for that matter, I guess).

I am ticklish. I like to be tickled. I have asked people to tickle me. But I am not submissive. I like to lose that control sometimes. But I will also instigate and tickle back.

It is a weakness in the sense that I can be rendered weak when tickled by someone who knows how to tickle me. However it is also something I enjoy so I do look at it as a weakness is the sense of it being detrimental to me as a person.

~ toyou

 

[sillygrl22]

ohhh yess, it is like my only weakness!!! I just go limp and start laughing and squirming like craaaazy!!! but its funnn!!!

 

[barefeetarebest]

Look, I've obviously offended you, somehow, by simply expressing my own opinion. I do that a lot, I think. But I thought I was making it clear that I was talking about a tickle fight, and not a physical fight, when I talked about "fighting back" (Hence the 😀 icon).
Not every woman who likes a strong man wants to be physically abused (You keep going back to the word fight, so that's the implication that I'm reading). All I mean is that I prefer an equal partner, rather than one who prefers, even insists, that I consistently exert control by tickling them (a "weakness" that also turns them on...who's controlling who?). I thought I'd made the difference clear. I apologize if I hurt your feelings. It's brave to admit your weaknesses and desires. I regret not making what I meant to say even clearer, so that you misread what I wrote, again.

Okay?

This got me to thinking in relation to myself.... I think it is that I like to top from the bottom if I am the 'lee...

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Sorta. If I don't want to get tickled, I can contain it and have enough strength to get away. If I do, I'm weak as a kitten.

 

[DLazarus]

ohhh yess, it is like my only weakness!!! I just go limp and start laughing and squirming like craaaazy!!! but its funnn!!!

Exactly sillygirl. I'm like that too. I go limp and I am unable to do anything to physically stop the tickling. I love it, but I get weak physically.

Don

 

[Miss Serendipity]

Oh heck yes! it's a major weakness for me! soo ticklish

but to each their own!

 

[fredf]

Physical vs moral

Tickling can make me so weak I can't stop the tickler. Tickling can break me, and has been used that way when I was tied up, or even not. In both cases, great fun. Does being ticklish and liking to be tickled make me morally weak or less of a man? In a world where men are supposed to be non-feeling and in control and dishing it out, I suppose so. But I don't want to live in that world because it would be no fun. For me or the girl tickler.