Is your tickling/foot fetish so bad that?

[LoveSoles81]

You will not date someone that refuses to let you tickle them, or touch their feet? Ive been dating, and before I even go on a date with a girl, I make sure a she is down with it. If not, to the curb she goes!

 

[crydun]

I'm like that. A guy has to at least be open to it or we're wasting time because... it's part me and my sexual makeup...

 

[dcbahr]

I tend to get to know the girl first, I can't just let them know right away, just...cause I'm shy I guess, smile. If they have a problem with it, I try to justify why I like both feet and tickling, but no, it's not the first thing to be brought up unless it just happens to work in context of the conversation. Granted, if the opportunity arises where both or one is involved, I will of course not hesitate to take advantage of either, big grin.

Dave

 

[DannyMc]

Tickled For Two

When foot tickling is so much a part of a person it seems best to be with somebody that will make it enjoyable for both of you .

 

[scorpionldr]

yea, It's really that bad. today I met with a girl i've been talking to a lot.....we have a pretty strange sense of humor, and we get along well...so I went out on a limb and just tried tickling her. She was PHENOMINALLY ticklish, but just couldn't take it, like to the point all i had to do was get to her side with one finger and just wiggle around, and that was only for 2 seconds at MAX. I really think based on that, that we won't work out too well. Tickling is too big of a fetish for me to just shut out of my life.

 

[Strider]

It's never exactly been a problem, because I, for whatever reason, tend to be able to sniff out people who are sexual deviants like me(and I mean that in a good way). So, even if they're not into tickling, they're into enough things that, at the very least, they're not going to be weirded out by the idea of tickling.

 

[Redmage]

Kink is a basic part of my makeup. I haven't been seriously involved with anyone who didn't share at least some of my kinks in...well, in so long that I can't remember the last one. Maybe it was in college.

But I don't think this is bad. Kink is a part of who I am. It's not kind to anyone that I might be involved with to try to pretend that isn't so. It's too important not to make itself known sooner or later, so I say let it be sooner, before either of us has too much invested.

 

[TicklishLurker]

I couldn't imagine beind with someone who didn't want to tickle me, especially on my feet. Which is probably one of the reasons I stopped looking cause too many people said "Ew! Feet are gross!"

 

[tulipangel]

Well, If I knew how important tickling and feet were to me before I met my BF I probably wouldn't be in this relationship! If I had it to do over, I would have made darn sure the guy I dated was into it as much as me or at least open to trying it out! But, its not the case so I try to put up with the un-opened mind I am with 🙂

 

[reflexology414]

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I'm the same way. It just wouldn't work for me any other way.

 

[tcklft]

Great question!

I've yet to meet a woman who didn't enjoy a foot rub, but have met a few ladies who either were insensitive to tickling or hated being tickled. Life's too short to spend time with someone who takes no pleasure in what is an essential component of my sexual makeup, so to the curb they went. I am certain that both they and I were all the better for it.

 

[Cromartie Dude]

Yep, i think it's essiental for us in a relationship to be able to tickle them. I don't think i could date a girl without it man.

 

[nowayjose]

You will not date someone that refuses to let you tickle them, or touch their feet? Ive been dating, and before I even go on a date with a girl, I make sure a she is down with it. If not, to the curb she goes!

I think a woman would be rather weird who will not let me touch her feet, or give her some tickling every now and then (in a playful way).
However, submitting to getting tied up fast and tickle-tortured is a different thing, of course.
I think there're more important qualities in a relationship than that fetish, at least for me.

 

[conehead180]

Yep, i think it's essiental for us in a relationship to be able to tickle them. I don't think i could date a girl without it man.

Agreed! I'm fortunate enough to have never met a girl that disliked being tickled, and if I ever do, I sure wouldn't date her.

 

[Mitchell]

For me, as far as a relationship is concerned, foot worship and foot play would be mandatory. (I.E. kissing feet during other sexual activity). If a girl said to me:" Mitch, you can never, ever touch my feet during sex", I couldn't logically be happy with that person. The way I see it, I am certain I will have to do certain things to make them happy, and worshipping their feet would be one of the things I would need to keep me happy.
Tickling is more of a complex issue. I have known of, and have heard of, so many mainstream girls who hate to be tickled. This would depend. Again, the never, ever factor would bother me. If I could meet someone who would be open to my tickling them even every once in a while, even if not in bondage, or torturing tickling, I could live with that. I do realize that many girls hate to be tickled, so this would be open for discussion and compromise.
I believe that relationships are about sacrifice and compromise. I hope to meet someone in the community into tickling, but, if not, hopefully, I can find someone who will love me enough to at least be open minded to compromising on my needs with the fetish issues.

Mitch