I've been wondering...

[Red_Feather]

...If a girl I know has an interest in tickling. At a party she got quite drunk and tried to tickle a guy. He turned out not to be ticklish. Now that alone wouldn't have made me have a second thought, but it was her reaction that interested me. She seemed very dissapointed that said guy wasn't ticklish, and then spent a large part of the rest of the night trying to find a tickle-spot anywhere on his body.

It got me thinking, mabye she's into tickling. Now I'm quite a cynical person, so I'm well aware it could be wishful thinking on my part. Then again, it does seem quite an unusual reaction, even for a drunk person. Any thoughts on this would be very welcome. 🙂

 

[amk714]

If both of you are friends, make yourself a tickle target for her. For example, pretend you have to get something that's up high when she's around you, and stretch up your arms. Tell her you can't quite reach it and ask her for some help. If she's into tickling, I bet she'll go for the bait and try to tickle you. 😀

 

[kered]

It sounds like your female friend was really interested this guy and getting frustrated from his non-reactions.You might try AMK714 suggestion. It may work.

 

[Luv2Tickle69]

If you 'bait' them (female 'lers)....they will come....

-Field of Ticklish Dreams.

......it's a line from a little known movie... 😉

 

[Red_Feather]

Thanks for all the replies 🙂

It sounds like your female friend was really interested this guy and getting frustrated from his non-reactions.You might try AMK714 suggestion. It may work.

That would make sense. All the girls want this guy, although unfortunately for them he's already taken.

I do know this girl, and I intend to try and get closer when the new term starts. I'll definitely try to get her to tickle me, or sneak in a few tickles myself (She's always going around barefoot for starters 😀). This is a girl who I've found attractive even before said incident, so I'm interested to see where my luck will take me on this one. 😛

Any more suggestions/comments always welcome. 🙂

 

[Hiryu]

Next time she's around and makes a sudden move, flinch on purpose and when she asks what's wrong say something like "Oh um nothing. I just thought you were trying to tickle me." Act nervous about it too.

 

[Red_Feather]

Well I am now back at uni, so any more suggestions would really be welcome. 🙂

I tend to suffer from shyness a lot. It's something that I'm gradually coming out of, but I find it hard to engage in social situations. If anyone has any suggestions that could help me out with that I would be very grateful. 😀

 

[phfttklr]

My advice...don't hesitate. First chance you get to be near this woman, take it. You will be kicking yourself if you wait and someone else comes walking through the door.
I can't think of anything to say to get her to tickle you because I don't know what her, if any, feelings are towards you.
Did she tickle this guy solely on the fact that she was attracted to him or does she tickle for the fun of it?
If you think there is a chance with her, try and talk to her with some sort of guessing game of information and tell her she'd have to tickle it out of you.

Lot's of other ideas from the fine people here are or will be up, so keep looking for this thread, good luck and keep us informed.

Ladies...give him some help, huh? You know we can't figure you out. 😀

 

[Red_Feather]

Well I'm on 'hello' terms with her really. Although we live in quite a small-ish hall of residence, so it shouldn't be too hard to get to know her better. The problem that I have is how. I'm a sensitive guy, and female friends have told me that I would make a good boyfriend, It's just that I tend not to 'stand out' but sink into the background and not get noticed.

Thanks for the reply. 🙂

 

[steph]

It's not that big of a problem honey~not everyone is drawn to the "life of the party." Some times the shy ones can be fun~they're full of surprises and no one sees ya coming! 😉 Look sharp and wait for an opportunity~go get her!
XOXO

The problem that I have is how. I'm a sensitive guy, and female friends have told me that I would make a good boyfriend, It's just that I tend not to 'stand out' but sink into the background and not get noticed.

Thanks for the reply. 🙂

 

[Red_Feather]

Thanks for the reply Steph 🙂

I have made some quite big steps in 'coming out of my shell' since I've been at uni, the only real problem I have is that my shyness is ingrained. In other words, I'll tend to stop speaking and 'fade out' even without me noticing it. I have to make a conscious effort to be outgoing.

As to this girl...I already hang out with her friends sometimes...even go down the pub ocassionally. I intend to do that and mabye get chatting to her. 😀

 

[steph]

You'll be fine sweetheart...Inside you always were. You'll find your way I promise...
XOXO

 

[Red_Feather]

I thought I'd ressurect this thread just in case anyone was interested in an update on the story.

I *really* think this girl has an interest in tickling now. She did the same thing last night, with the same guy. She even got tickled back by him and someone else, which she seemed to enjoy.

A pity that she's not interested in me, but what can you do? 🙂

 

[Storm_Cat]

I thought I'd ressurect this thread just in case anyone was interested in an update on the story.

I *really* think this girl has an interest in tickling now. She did the same thing last night, with the same guy. She even got tickled back by him and someone else, which she seemed to enjoy.

A pity that she's not interested in me, but what can you do? 🙂

I'm reading this as she is too focused on this other guy, even though, as you say, he is already taken. She (IMHO) seems oblivious to his relationship, just doesn't care, and wants to steal him away from his current g/f. She'll either give up eventually, or get burned by him, or maybe even succeed (but personally I'm leaning more towards the burn).

Frankly I wouldn't waste my time, just because she seems like she's into tickling wouldn't be the be all, end all for me....there's got to be more in a relationship than just that....unless that is all you are looking for...a little tickle toy...!!!

 

[Red_Feather]

I'm reading this as she is too focused on this other guy, even though, as you say, he is already taken. She (IMHO) seems oblivious to his relationship, just doesn't care, and wants to steal him away from his current g/f. She'll either give up eventually, or get burned by him, or maybe even succeed (but personally I'm leaning more towards the burn).

Frankly I wouldn't waste my time, just because she seems like she's into tickling wouldn't be the be all, end all for me....there's got to be more in a relationship than just that....unless that is all you are looking for...a little tickle toy...!!!

Well she is a nice girl. I think the fact is that she feels attracted to him, and then makes these moves on him when she's drunk (She was a bit drunk last night as well).

Its not just the possible interest in tickling that attracted me to her, she's a fun, bubbly person as well. I don't know if I could get into a relationship with her, but it would be nice to have her as a close friend. 🙂

 

[Storm_Cat]

Well she is a nice girl. I think the fact is that she feels attracted to him, and then makes these moves on him when she's drunk (She was a bit drunk last night as well).

Its not just the possible interest in tickling that attracted me to her, she's a fun, bubbly person as well. I don't know if I could get into a relationship with her, but it would be nice to have her as a close friend. 🙂

So then is there possibly another way you could get close to her/get to know her better....similar interests...studies....home life outside of Uni...??

 

[Red_Feather]

I'm unsure. Still haven't spoken to her much. She smiles at me sometimes, but doesn't really speak to me.

 

[Storm_Cat]

I'm unsure. Still haven't spoken to her much. She smiles at me sometimes, but doesn't really speak to me.

Well then....there you have it...!! If a smile isn't an invitation to getting to know her better, I don't know what is..!! After you get to and then past that point...after you know her better...just think of things to do for her....that other guys wouldn't do.....that will just charm her right out of her shoes (without becoming her 'doormat' of course)....and at the end of the day.....she's YOUR's....!!!

Trust me....girls love to be charmed....!! Am I wrong here ladies...???

 

[Red_Feather]

Well then....there you have it...!! If a smile isn't an invitation to getting to know her better, I don't know what is..!! After you get to and then past that point...after you know her better...just think of things to do for her....that other guys wouldn't do.....that will just charm her right out of her shoes (without becoming her 'doormat' of course)....and at the end of the day.....she's YOUR's....!!!

Trust me....girls love to be charmed....!! Am I wrong here ladies...???

You really think that smile is an invitation? I thought it was just an embarassing pause in conversation, but then again I'm a pessimist.

You really think I should go for it?

 

[Storm_Cat]

You really think that smile is an invitation? I thought it was just an embarassing pause in conversation, but then again I'm a pessimist.

You really think I should go for it?

Yes....but take it slowly....don't rush her, and put the tickling thing aside for the moment....unless she starts in on you. You've already stated that you are on the timid side. For the most part I am as well, but I try to make that work IN my favour as opposed to against it. All you really have to do is look confident, and you'll find yourself actually feeling/being confident. After awhile...you find that the shyness kind of goes away.

Normally, I don't approach women I don't know...I have to have at least met them. My now best friend (female), actually approached me the very first time we met! Granted, my situation is different from yours, but still it all relates. ....Human interaction and relating to each other...!!

 

[Red_Feather]

I'll see... I still don't know if she likes me.