MasterPaladin
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looks a hell of a lot like a vibe going someplace to me lmao
So, who says pac man can't be one of us?! I demand equal rights!
Ahem! Anywhoooooo.........![]()
that was the only game i ever beat
I love all the work that is going on around here....
But...
I'm kinda lost here with some of the posts...
Why design something with the intentions of wearing it in public for the purpose of showing your love for the fetish, but then design it to make it not "too obvious"?
Why make a symbol to symbolize your love for tickling but then make it so that no one will know? Why hide behind a subliminal meaning?
It brings up the question as to if you really do love your fetish or not.
I say, if you really love the activity of tickling then you should wear the logo with truth and pride instead of trying to hide it with subliminal designs or discrete meanings.
Cavum said:After everything that has happend here I still feel like the simple neruon tree that Haribish made first is the best so far. Why make it so much more complicated? Seems like moust people here dig the Neuron tree. All the other "extras" around it can be added individual by people who want it. Thats what people does with the BDSM emblem as well. They create the background or extras to it like they want. Thats the beauty about having it as simple as possible, so people can add stuff to it themselfs to make it more personal...
The idea of whether or the symbol is obscure or obvious is going to come down to a vote, and that's all there is to that. Maybe I'll get my way and it'll be something mysterious, maybe I won't and it'll be something more obvious. Either way, when that happens I'll have a decision to make, as will everyone else.
I really don't appreciate that you keep saying if someone doesn't want to proudly wear an obvious symbol of his or her fetish, they don't truly love it, and bringing religion into it, even as an example, is a slippery slope. You don't know what's in my or anyone else's heads and hearts regarding their fetish or their religious beliefs. I don't choose to walk around sporting a cross, but that doesn't mean my relationship with God is any less than someone who does. You can't go around making these statements about other people's feelings and judging their dedication to a cause based on what they do or don't wear.
I can but repeat what Ive said. psychology major or not, its not easy to understand that different people have different needs, but try 🙂
You cannot argue this point as I fall into the catagory, I do not want the whole world to know what im into, its not theyre business nor theyre concern, and this doesnt mean I am ashamed of my fetish. And I want a symbol to wear because *I* will know what it means, this isnt about everyone else, its about the individual.
I love my fetish , I always have, but im not 100% comfortable with myself or other peoples opinions, a symbol that only holds meaning to those who know what it means give me the oppertunity to wear something that is important to me and represents a part of me but without everyone looking at me and knowing MY secrets.
If this makes no sense to you than its simply because are failing to put yourself in my shoes.
Are you so against something that the rest of the people in this thread clearly DO want?
Good point! Please now change your screenname to your real full first and last name, or begone! Otherwise you're just being coy and not really committed. 😉
Seriously, that's analogous to what you're suggesting.
Listen, the fetish isn't gonna get it's feelings hurt if you're not fully dedicated to it, or if you're seeing some other fetishes on the side... It's not going to be mad if you don't wear your wedding band to it in public, or proud if you do. And unlike marriage or other committed relationships, outwardly declaring your love of it may have unwanted social repercussions.
So, unless you don't get why spies need realistic sounding codenames and background stories, but still need to know a bit of the truth to recognize the folks in the field who are on their side, the idea behind this shouldn't totally elude you.
Haribish-
Picture this buddy...
You say you... "do not want the whole world to know what im into, its not theyre business nor theyre concern," and you also say... you want to go around "without everyone looking at me and knowing MY secrets."
All I'm saying is if THAT IS the case for you my friend, then a symbol would not be wise to wear in public, since like I said, from a psychological standpoint, people are naturally curious and they WILL ASK about the symbol... and also like I said...people WILL eventually know what it means at some point regardless of if we keep it a secret or not. All in all, it's meaning will no longer only be in the community, it will be in the public's eye and everyone will know about it...
If you want to be secretive... then it's foolish to have a symbol to bring attention to it...There's absolutely no way to argue around it my friends... absolutely no way.
I understand you both... I've been there before... I've felt the way you both have felt... as you say Haribish I've been in your "shoes"... 😀 I was the same way years ago...but then I been able to grow with it...
I guess I should have been more clear...
I'm not saying that you HAVE to wear a symbol, to show your love, and the love is not based on the symbol.... I'm saying that people who really enjoy the fetish, are ones who would seem to be the individuals more likely to wear a symbol since it will be out in the public's eye...Those individuals who would expose themselves by wearing the symbol would be more than able to take on the eventually questioning from curious folks and maybe the possible backlash afterward from the answer...
So once again...if you like to be secretive, a symbol would not be wise to have...as opposed to the people who don't have to be secretive and will show the symbol without anything to hide.
Please try to see it from THIS point of view I'm sorry if my earlier posts weren't clear...
I never ever said I was against anything my friends, I'm just asking you to take this point into account when making the symbol...a symbol that is to represent/show/expose/associate the tickle fetish and those who participate in it!
I mean c'mon Haribish...why would I waste time here if I was against this?! I thought that my comments would have anybody assume that I really want a symbol! 😀
After everything that has happend here I still feel like the simple neruon tree that Haribish made first is the best so far. Why make it so much more complicated? Seems like moust people here dig the Neuron tree. All the other "extras" around it can be added individual by people who want it. Thats what people does with the BDSM emblem as well. They create the background or extras to it like they want. Thats the beauty about having it as simple as possible, so people can add stuff to it themselfs to make it more personal...
Good point (and that I mean without a shade of sarcasm, unlike above 🙂 ). Granted, I was initially under the impression that after a suitable number of entries had been made, there'd be a whittling-down process and a separate, polling thread to take votes from everyone on our options, but I've been under false impressions about such things before, and I shall therefore unimpress myself of such notions...
But, I hope you don't mind if I continue to add a couple of things to the thread beyond this decision, as I come to the final versions of pieces for Libertine and KittenToes, and if I come up with any other little thing I might think suitable for the topic.
I have to disagree with you. While I do think that the neuron tree is striking in appearance, I still think it leaves something to be desired as far as conveying "tickling". Neuron = sensation, not necessarily tickling. I also don't like the idea of the tickling emblem being about the TMF. Perhaps I'm misreading the message, but I don't quite understand the idea behind the tree concept of "branching out" unless it's specifically talking about the TMF and how we're a growing community. And I don't think that the emblem should focus on the TMF, it should focus on the tickling fetish as a whole.
The neuron is lovely, but I think that SOMETHING should be added to convey "tickling fetishism", and not just an enjoyment of sensation. I think it's definitely on the right path, though.
I have to disagree with you. While I do think that the neuron tree is striking in appearance, I still think it leaves something to be desired as far as conveying "tickling". Neuron = sensation, not necessarily tickling. I also don't like the idea of the tickling emblem being about the TMF. Perhaps I'm misreading the message, but I don't quite understand the idea behind the tree concept of "branching out" unless it's specifically talking about the TMF and how we're a growing community. And I don't think that the emblem should focus on the TMF, it should focus on the tickling fetish as a whole.
The neuron is lovely, but I think that SOMETHING should be added to convey "tickling fetishism", and not just an enjoyment of sensation. I think it's definitely on the right path, though.
I have to disagree with you. While I do think that the neuron tree is striking in appearance, I still think it leaves something to be desired as far as conveying "tickling". Neuron = sensation, not necessarily tickling. I also don't like the idea of the tickling emblem being about the TMF. Perhaps I'm misreading the message, but I don't quite understand the idea behind the tree concept of "branching out" unless it's specifically talking about the TMF and how we're a growing community. And I don't think that the emblem should focus on the TMF, it should focus on the tickling fetish as a whole.
The neuron is lovely, but I think that SOMETHING should be added to convey "tickling fetishism", and not just an enjoyment of sensation. I think it's definitely on the right path, though.
these are for skipadeedoodah the key inside the keyhole needs to be clearer I did this fast
I don't know skipadeedoodah wanted to see it ask her LOL
Im not sure what else you can add to make it more about tickling without pushing it into realms that make it invalid to a portion of the community, and also, do we need to? for instance how would you make it more focused on tickling? you cant add fingers or a feather or a ticklish area because peopels preferences on those things differ so much.
When did I say the neuron was gonna be a icon for the TMF? Looks like you think thats what I mean. I still think the simple neuron tree is the best so far and I don't understand why so much more have to be added on it. Take the BDSM emblem for example. It's simple and don't have alot of extras. The way you expain the neuron tree would be like adding a picture of a whip, ropes etc on the BDSM emblem. It's not nessesery. Why create something with so much extras that makes it less appealing to people? Take the feather for example. Some people here loves the feather like theyre own mother, wile others hate it like the pluage...yet both kind of people like tickling. Why would something like the feather then be added on the symbol? Im not saying Im gonna deside how it's gonna be like and I agree people should vote on it, but I just don't see the point on adding so much (sorry the term) crap to it just to make it more obvious that it stands for tickling...