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Leaving the forum for good.

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pw_jagerbomb11

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I'm erasing my posts and profile content and I will not be returning to the forum.

Thanks to the people who I became friends with, if only for a short time.


Phil.
 
you've been here less than a month and already leaving the forum..... alrighty then.
 
ticklemepls said:
you've been here less than a month and already leaving the forum..... alrighty then.
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Yes. It's my choice to leave, because I hate the guilt and total disgust I've felt towards myself recently. So much for the people on this forum being non-judgemental and tolerant of people.
 
you get all types of people in all types of places. Its a shame you've felt it necessary to leave, I hope you return and give it another shot 🙂

Hari
 
People who think its clever to try and publicly make fun of someone can kindly NOT, thankyou very much.

Again, good by the the OP, its very disappointing that you've been made to feel this way and as I said, I hope you choose to return and give it another go and if not I wish you all the best.

Hari
 
I've never understood why people will announce they're leaving a forum but not elaborate on what caused it. It's obviously a big deal, because you're leaving, it's obvious you don't care what people are going to say, because you're announce it to the public, why not take that last shot and tell everyone what, specifically, had pissed you off so much.
 
Comfort Eagle said:
I've never understood why people will announce they're leaving a forum but not elaborate on what caused it. It's obviously a big deal, because you're leaving, it's obvious you don't care what people are going to say, because you're announce it to the public, why not take that last shot and tell everyone what, specifically, had pissed you off so much.
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This, pretty much, except I think the fact you announce it to the public suggests that you DO care what people are going to say. Otherwise it would be simpler to say your goodbyes in PM's and send your email to the people you'd like to stay in touch with, and just not bother with the forum itself. But now it's "out there" and open for debate, though without an elaboration I'm not sure what sort of response you are looking for...?

That said, it's always unfortunate when people don't feel they found what they were looking for and choose to leave. Just remember it's never too late to turn a clean slate and give the forum another try. 🙂
 
Comfort Eagle said:
I've never understood why people will announce they're leaving a forum but not elaborate on what caused it. It's obviously a big deal, because you're leaving, it's obvious you don't care what people are going to say, because you're announce it to the public, why not take that last shot and tell everyone what, specifically, had pissed you off so much.
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Considering they hadn't been a member for more than a month, it could just be an attention getting device. We've seen this before. Generally when someone leaves, they just stop coming around, or others will try to delete the account without all the grandstanding and drama. Some folks just seem to crave the attention, considering, like you said, they don't elaborate on the cause.
 
Come on OP! You did not quit school when you failed your first test did you? Or quit your job when you had your first bad day? You have not even begun to sample the wondeful forum we have here. Do not toss the whole bucket of apples because you found a few rotten ones on top.

Be fair to the forum, the fetishes it supports and most importantly to yourself.

Peace
 
Going to miss our chats mate

If you want to continue having a private conversation away from the forum email me at [email protected]

Enjoyed our talks even if it was brief

Take care
 
I don't understand the logic of announcing one's departure either. Sometimes you feel like hanging out here...other times life keeps you too busy to. I've taken off years from here myself. With over 100,000 members total with 1,000 members online at any given time....one person's departure isn't a big deal. Sure some are missed more than others but those individuals that will be missed usually don't have to start "farewell" threads. If anything a simple blog entry detailing one's circumstances and contact info would be plenty. These threads scream of narcissism and a "look at me" attitude which completely overshadows what might have been a legitimate problem that he had.

Oh well.

GQ
 
Phil.. if I may.. for a minute.

I've been here a long time.. nearly ten years. You say in your farewell post.. "Thanks to those who I made friends with", and also, "So much for the people being non judgemental".

Two questions enter my mind: One.. do you still enjoy the idea of tickling, talking about it, and learning about it? You say you have "guilt". I think all of us feel that emotion about an interest like this. The question is.. is the guilt you feel.. worth throwing away an interest you may still have?

Second.. to the person or people who you feel were "judging you". To allow those people to chase you off the forum.. is.. to me.. regrettable. Such is the purpose of the ignore button. If I allowed everyone on this forum who "judged me" or said negative things about me.. to drive me off the forum, I'd have been gone nine years ago. I have tried to learn to direct my attention toward those who are civil to me, ignore those who arent civil, and try to avoid posting certain subjects in the main forum.

Ultimately, it is your decision, of course, but, if you enjoy any aspects of the forum, or people on this forum, I'd encourage you to stay, and try to work through the issues you're feeling.

Whatever you decide, Good Luck to you.

Mitch
 
I can't even remember seeing any posts made by you....or did people piss you off in the chatroom?
 
no offense but i don't know many people who would think twice about meeting someone who has been here such a small amount of time... so don't take it personally...
 
pw_jagerbomb11 said:
I'm erasing my posts and profile content and I will not be returning to the forum.

Thanks to the people who I became friends with, if only for a short time.


Phil.
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I have never understood why people make posts like this one. When I decide that an online community is not worth my time, I simply cease going there.
 
PW,

You won't be missed. Sounds harsh, but true.

Adios.
 
I definatly would not check the thread and post replies as the OP has done... send the farewell message and log out... press the red button... not keep going back to check what people said like a 5th grade gossip girl XD
 
To allow others to dictate your decisions is sad. You allow others to control your actions, and that is something you must look into yourself to change.

Humiliation, Embarrassment, or whatever are internal emotions that you have felt based on the comments of a very few.

The problem isn't the people chastising you, but your over reaction to them. You will still feel the way you do about your fetish regardless of what people tell you.

Here is a tip: Stop giving a shit about what people think of you and care more about what YOU think for you. Look yourself in the mirror and like the person looking back at you.

That is all that matters. It really is sad to see one be dictated by the actions of others. You control your life, yet you allow others to do it. Very sad indeed.
 
There are dicks in this world and there are folks who are not and every other form of person in between. You must realize that not everyone is going to have your back, especially in an anonymous setting as this one. Some are being flat out honest of their assessments of reality others are just being jerks. Still, this is a microcosm of society at large. Many people wont say the things people here will say to your face but yeah . . . ok I lost the point I was trying to make.

Anyways PW I hope you reconsider, I definitely wont throw stones as I live in the same glass house as you.

Thanks,
K
 
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