Lees: What have been your moments of surprise?

[WickedTouch]

For lees and switches, have you had times where you were surprised at how ticklish you were, or that a specific spot was ticklish? Were you surprised in your first tickling session? I'd love to hear any of your stories about this.

For me, I mostly had Ler experience for years, but felt comfortable exploring my lee side more when I met my now wife. I've always known I was a little ticklish, but was so surprised at how much when she first tickled me. On top of that, she wasn't even an experienced ler yet, though I was still so surprised by it. I think the bondage, which I was not used to being in for tickling, was a big factor in it. She is much more experienced now and sometimes it still surprises me how ticklish she can make me feel.

What I have found is that there's a bit of an advantage that new (to me) lers have on me. I think I feel more vulnerable around them and they are more unfamiliar to my body and mind. When we first met a female ler friend of ours, I was so surprised at how easily she destroyed us with tickles. Different tickling styles can make the whole experience different from one ler to the next. As much as I love being a ler as well, I look forward to being surprised more in the future.

So what about you?

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I think the most surprising for me is that I have grown more sensitive/ ticklish as I have gotten older.

What I could easily take in my 20s, can sometimes destroy me now. I don't want to be TOO specific because I like it when my ticklers explore and find spots. 😁

 

[WickedTouch]

I think the most surprising for me is that I have grown more sensitive/ ticklish as I have gotten older.

What I could easily take in my 20s, can sometimes destroy me now. I don't want to be TOO specific because I like it when my ticklers explore and find spots. 😁

Interesting... I think that's been affecting me too. It's really hard to tell if I'm actually getting more sensitive or just have more and better experiences (was mostly a ler for years). Either way, I've been surprised about it! Yes, don't divulge anything–Here there be tickle monsters! lol

 

[milagros317]

My biggest surprise came in 2001 when I was first tickled on my collarbones. (It was by Mistress Roxy at Rebecca's Hidden Chamber.) I turned out to be incredibly ticklish there, which I had not known previously.

 

[WickedTouch]

My biggest surprise came in 2001 when I was first tickled on my collarbones. (It was by Mistress Roxy at Rebecca's Hidden Chamber.) I turned out to be incredibly ticklish there, which I had not known previously.

Wow, that is interesting for sure! I'm known to explore and find unusual spots, but I could have well missed that on a lee. Every time I hear a story about a spot I've given little or no consideration to, it's like it opens up a different dimension to it all. Thanks for sharing! (Now I'm wondering...are mine ticklish? lol)

 

[torturoustickle]

I don't Lee very often, so although I am well aware of my ticklishness, those initial finger pokes and strokes are like electric shocks making me jerk and buck. With a Lee usually perched on top, looking down, I see the look of surprise even in their eyes, followed by an evil grin.
Right about then I start to regret my choice. 😬😭😂

 

[torturoustickle]

I think the most surprising for me is that I have grown more sensitive/ ticklish as I have gotten older.

What I could easily take in my 20s, can sometimes destroy me now. I don't want to be TOO specific because I like it when my ticklers explore and find spots. 😁

I love hearing this! 🔥
As people get older, it's almost expected that with maturity, some sensitivity will be lost. I often wonder if that's just wishful thinking. Lol
I mean a lot of people get more conservative as they get older as well. And being reduced to begging, drooling, submission is something they may try to avoid. My favourite Lee's to tickle torture into that state are those exact people.
Oh, and feel free to be specific ......... very specific. 😉

 

[WickedTouch]

I don't Lee very often, so although I am well aware of my ticklishness, those initial finger pokes and strokes are like electric shocks making me jerk and buck. With a Lee usually perched on top, looking down, I see the look of surprise even in their eyes, followed by an evil grin.
Right about then I start to regret my choice. 😬😭😂

That evil grin, oh I know the one! Even the sweetest girl seems to turn vicious when they find out how ticklish I can be. Okay, okay, enough nightmare fuel...I need to sleep tonight lol

 

[torturoustickle]

That evil grin, oh I know the one! Even the sweetest girl seems to turn vicious when they find out how ticklish I can be. Okay, okay, enough nightmare fuel...I need to sleep tonight lol

I know right!
It sends shivers down my spine. I'm big and strong but all of a sudden feel small. I want struggle to get away, but feel that will just give further indication of my rising desperation.
With a few pokes, before the real tickling has even started, you're looking for ways to delay the inevitable. 😱

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I love hearing this! 🔥
As people get older, it's almost expected that with maturity, some sensitivity will be lost. I often wonder if that's just wishful thinking. Lol
I mean a lot of people get more conservative as they get older as well. And being reduced to begging, drooling, submission is something they may try to avoid. My favourite Lee's to tickle torture into that state are those exact people.
Oh, and feel free to be specific ......... very specific. 😉

Like how specific?

Like the time I was having an extremely normal (still so much fun), standard session with an ex, and to my surprise, I had a random orgasm simply from my armpits were being tickled? I WAS SHOCKED! I honestly had no idea what was happening until it happened. And back then, I pretty much was tickled every day. BUT it got my attention and made me notice all the little changes in my sensitivity over the years.

I remember (in my 20s) just laughing at the people who were "so ticklish" that a feather would drive them absolutely wild. And in certain spots, that is true for me too. But everywhere? There? Nope! Gotta be fake! My tk friends would try to convince me that it could definitely be real. NOT BUYING IT! lol..... (I was cough am pretty stubborn back then.)

Fast forward-- A couple of years ago, I was in a session (filmed). And he was using every single tool he could think of on me. (Boooooo.... I like hands.) And something he pulled out felt soft, like silk. I didn't know what it was, but it was kicking my ass! It tickled SOOOOO badly. I finally asked, "WHAT IS THAT!?" And at the time, either I didn't hear the answer or he wouldn't answer me.

It wasn't until I watched the video that I realized it was a feather. SHOOK!!!!! Since when was that part of me feather ticklish? And it IS NOW! Horribly!

Whole body phenomenon. I have always been ticklish everywhere. But now it's just worse, and the older I get, the more sensitive I am to touch. I thought it would be the other way around too.

Ummm... There was never drool in my thoughts, though. Maybe you were describing the submission and not the process of growing older. 😭

 

[torturoustickle]

I have always been fascinated with feather tickling. My earliest memories were of cartoons with trapped feet or underarms, and the villain tickling the damsel. I also remember my great disappointment when I discovered that very few people were. 😭
I think it's a power thing. Sending someone into hysterics with something as delicate as a feather is like 😍🔥😍🔥
I have only ever tickled one Lee who was sexually turned on by tickling. I mean to the point of orgasm. She had certain spots and after a few sessions opened up about it.
It was fascinating to watch really, and certainly answered my questions on if you can become more sensitive after tickling.😱
I have to admit you're the first Lee/Switch I know to embrace what you described as a "whole body phenomenon". Most have a least a few spots that either aren't ticklish, or they hate being touched there because they are too sensitive.
I can imagine your Lers having that 'kid in a candy store' type reaction. Lol

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Candy store isn't open for everyone. 😁

There are some spots that are off limits to most ticklers. Friendships, time, etc.... allow others to have freedom without limits. Connections definitely play a part for most of us in kink. I will admit that some of my reactions ignite based upon who I'm playing with. I was really in love with the ex. Like... "Love of my life" love.... So I realize that I was more open with him than with most anyone else. I will probably never love like that again. And it's ok. I don't know if I even want to. The thought of it scares me, actually.

Still... My body has a mind of its own. Sometimes it'll react strongly to something as simple as a foot rub. And there are a good number of spots on me that send me from 0-100 just with a feathery, soft touch or a kiss. I keep most of them a secret because that's WAY too much control a ler could have over me.

 

[aberdeen]

By college, I had already had tickling sessions with some young women, but I was always the Ler...
In college, at about age 20, I met a woman about 4 yrs older (grad student) who worked with me part time in an office on campus. We enjoyed talking to each other, despite the age difference and different fields of study. But I guess I was too slow to pick up her signals that she wanted to spend more 'quality time' together...So one day we were sorting and organizing papers on this large wooden desk, a desk so wide that I had to lean over and stretch to reach the far side where certain papers were to be stacked. My female friend P decided she couldn't resist the opportunity to say HELLO in a new and different way....So as I was leaning way over ( wearing jeans ), P decided to 'goose' my ass by clutching and digging into the crease below one butt cheek, at the highest point on the back of my thigh! Never having been tickled vigorously or in a spot like that...I did manage to muffle a scream of ticklish agony but collapsed backwards into her lap! I was 5'5" and she was 6'3"....so I fit rather nicely but still...I was stammering and gasping as a 30 yr old coworker and a 60 year old grandmotherly looking coworker stared at my disheveled appearance, not knowing WHAT had been done to cause my fall!
I covered by stating "CRAMP! I got a CRAMP!" Well embarrassing as it was, and shocking that one squeeze would tickle so deeply and cause such an involuntary ruckus, I gathered myself and became more serious about that relationship! We spent the spring and summer getting to know each other very well, and yes (for those wondering) I did get my 'payback' on the poor girl...quite a bit of 'payback' actually.

 

[torturoustickle]

Candy store isn't open for everyone. 😁

There are some spots that are off limits to most ticklers. Friendships, time, etc.... allow others to have freedom without limits.

And so it should be!
There are so many examples of why trust should be of utmost importance.
The uncontrollable reactions that tickling produces, the vulnerability of the Lee, the undeniable mental aspect, the emotional release, are just some of reasons that lend towards the Ler having to be trusted.
We all love that feeling of helplessness, giving up of control, and having our limits tested.
However, there has to be an underlying trust that your Ler, despite enjoying the tickling torture as much as you do, will always have the Lee's best interests at heart.
Only with that level of bonding, trust, connection, and understanding can you enjoy the full experience. 😍