Lewd remarks toward TMF ladies & models

[TicklishPhoebe]

I must respectfully disagree with the "People on the internet are jerks so suck it up" mentality.

I don't think that having one's contact info on the internet (or in a newspaper, or magazine) makes it okay to be lewd/crude/sexually explicit to someone who hasn't agreed to it. IMO, that's very similar to verbally harrassing random women on the street just because 'they deserve it'. Yes, I realize that it happens, but I don't think it's ever deserved or justified, and publicly excusing the behavior does exactly that.

I was always under the impression that we lived in a civilized society where there are just some things that one shouldn't say (or type, as the case may be) to someone that isn't, er, an intimate aquaintance.

Yes, I realize that my best course of action is hitting the 'delete' button, but I'm still disappointed when human beings show a lack of basic common courtesy.

 

[qjakal]

Escalation...

I'm sure every generation has said it, but it DOES seem that we are sliding into a trough of discourtesy at an alarming rate this last decade or so.....even TV, once the owner of sitcoms with separate beds and chaste kisses between spouses has jumped onto the garbage scow! I don't mean to sound (too) old and prudish, but many teenagers vocabularies seem to be nearly 50% obscenities and slang...most clerks/cashiers can't do basic math, much less muster up the energy for a smile and a cheerful "Have a nice day!". Perhaps I AM getting a bit cranky as I approach the 50 year mark, but it still appears that we've lost something fairly precious, without much of a battle. Q

 

[Cyrano]

Neutron, first, I shouldn't have said anything cruel about you, I apologize. Second, I share things because I trust these people. There are people I know who I have not shared my tickling interest with, I'm afraid of how they might react, does that make me a coward? I'd say not, just human. I have told a few of my friends how I feel about Katie, but I have not told her. I told her long ago, and she didn't feel the same. I accept that and try to watch over her, is that so heroic? I'd say not, just human. I think most people here would do the same. I did study the spiritual aspects of ninjutsu, doesn't mean I can hover above the ground, doesn't mean I can calm my mind at will. People do yoga, zen meditations, garden, draw, paint, collect frigging bugs even, just as a hobby. This is mine. I studied a bit of taijutsu, doesn't mean I can take down 5 guys, doesn't even mean I can take down one. I can deflect an attack and run. I work on my reflexes, not my brawn. No, I didn't specify this, but why should I have to? "Hey guys, I'm a wuss." But if it needs to be said, hey guys, I'm a wuss. No big deal, I'm working really hard not to be, but I am, doesn't make me a bad person. Probably helped me become better than I would have. Maybe I wouldn't have desired peaceful outcomes if I was stronger. I didn't mean to flex my muscles, I meant to share how poorly some people treat women. Jason seemed concerned and I responded by saying he didn't hurt me. I apologize for the confusion and the insults.

 

[WallStreet]

The basic topic of the thread was about lewdness to women. Cyrano's story stayed on base. He didn't stray from the topic. There is no need to critiscize his story.
So far we have covered:
"Internet Hard Guys"
"Knights in Shining Armor"
"Woe is Me Tales"
"Monks in White Robes"
and "Cynics"
I would like to add one to this list:
"Angry Non-Provider of Content"
Definition- A disgruntled non-contributor who makes a big deal about people who make big deals. A bored person who bitches about people bithin'.
There is no known cure for this menace.
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It's unfortunate that this thread is evolving into a mini-war. That was not my intention when I started it. I think that Tickling Duo and Daddy, all of whom provide content, understood my point about lewd e-mails. These were the people I was speaking to. Those who have no interest in this thread shouldn't post on it. There's enough cool stuff on this Forum to occupy everybody's attention.

 

[Neutron]

LOL

Ticklish Phoebe,

Hmm I didn't mean everyone on the net is a jerk. That;s not the case. Sorry. I know for instance qjackel isn't a jerk. He's amused me on many occasions. Dave has amused me. QBWEaver amuses me. Jeff and Myriads are good guys. I tend to like Mistress Mia. A Big reason is they don't bring their problems here. However to post an email address on the net, THEN not expect to get some lewd email, ESPECIALLY when on message boards that are adult oriented. WEll that ain't happening, so people like Wallstreet etal should stop whining about it. As he said, It wasn't anyone here, so why whine about it. ESPECIALLY in the tickling forum. What exactly did some tramp he knows, getting lewd email have to do with tickling? I've noticed at times Wallstreet is rather full of himself because he at times pays some beautiful women to tickle them. I myself don't need to do that. But hey whatever floats your boat. I do at times tickle escorts, go to Tickling (fetish) places, and have tickled a model or two. But I don't view it as some big accomplishment. I mean that's WHY I paid to begin with eh? I've also tickled some total knockouts for free. I simply asked. But again I tend to keep my topics tickling related .

Cyrano, Why do you think Kate even wants protected? Where I'm from we call that stalking my friend.

Now Wallstreet. When did I make anything a big deal. I'm merely commenting is all. Just as many do on many other posts. I get a laugh at how some people take this net stuff SO seriously. (You included). I take it with a grain of salt. I'm a cynic, and a genius. Both of which have made me very wealthy. And I always reserve the right to view things through my eyes. I'll always give my opinion, regardless of the medium because lets face it, Genius is obligated to be heard.

Take care and Happy Tickling.
Tron

Cyrano,

 

[Neutron]

Oh And Tickling Duo..

Great website by the way. I enjoy it immensely.


Now, when someone like Cyrano feels obligated to give the intimate non tickling details of his life he also is obligated to accept whatever feedback he gets. Not all life is roses and we don't always agree. There is a general discussion section here. And had D'Artagnan posted there I wouldn't have commented.

Be Safe

TRon

 

[Haltickling]

No fights here!

Folks, as you all well know fighting is off-limits here. I don't know how people who are supposed to be gentlemen can fight each other in a thread about a woman being harrassed by other men. Any more replies in hostile fashion, and the thread is gone. More fighting about this in another thread, and the fighters are gone.

 

[venray]

Re: LOL

I get a laugh at how some people take this net stuff SO seriously. (You included). I take it with a grain of salt. I'm a cynic, and a genius. Both of which have made me very wealthy. And I always reserve the right to view things through my eyes. I'll always give my opinion, regardless of the medium because lets face it, Genius is obligated to be heard.

And I quote...."And I still to this day get a kick at how many people believe the crap a total stranger spews on the net. "



I see.


Ven

 

[Cyrano]

Katie's my friend, I protect my male friends if they need it. If they ask me to leave them some space, I do. In the case of Katie she was very down about how this guy was treating her, but would not leave him. Just about everyone knows someone like this. I asked Brad, the jerk, to stop treating her poorly. He told me not to get involved but I did. It was my fault, but I'm happy about the outcome. If you call that stalking, we have different opinions.

I don't know you, Neutron, but you seem to generally dislike me. Unfortunate I suppose. I'm sorry if I have offended you.

 

[Neutron]

Cyrano,

Nah man,

I don't dislike you. I'm neutral about you, just as I am about most net people. I have nothing to form a basis to either like or dislike you.

Haltickling, who is fighting? It's the internet man, one cannot fight here. It's words on a computer screen, no more, no less.


Be Safe


Tron

 

[Prime]

For someone who thinks its just words on a computer screen you sure spend alot of time defending yourself neutron...why bother man i mean its just words on a screen right? why there is absolutely no reason to even address me in your next defense..i'm just posting meaningless words...but i suspect a self proclaimed genius would already know that.. 😀

have a wonderful day.

 

[Myriads]

This thread seems to have strayed far from topic. It seems a good place to close it. So closed it is.

Myriads