need some advice on m/m tickling

[cubs123]

Hi, so im a guy in my 20's and i absolutely love tickling. I am definately a lee though. My friends have always made it a point to gang up and tickle me. Anyway in my drunkeness one night i confessed my tickle fetish to one of my guy friends. So after asking me several questions and explaining it to him, his response was "well what are we waiting for? lets get you tied up and tickled." I couldn't believe it, it really surprised me. But sure enough he wants to tickle me. So here's my dilemna...i've never had any experience like this with another guy and it makes me nervous. Obviously tickling is very arousing for me, so thinking about being tickled by another guy kinda weirds me out. So help me out here, should i think that way or should i just let him tickle me to tears?

 

[Inverse]

*Shrug~* :3 That's really going to be up to you. I say just have fun. It's easy for me, being pansexual and all~ I suppose, but I really don't see why people have to make it a big deal. It can cause a sexual response, but~ I dunno I thought adults were pretty good at not being too squeamish and gigglish about this kind of thing. Just let him tickle you, and if you don't like it, well~ at least then you know from now on and the worst thing that happened is that you laughed a bit. <3

 

[gilmourwaters]

its very simple.....you do what makes you happy, lay ground rules with the guy if need be. If it turns out you didnt have as much fun as you thought for whatever reason , chalk it up to experience and dont do it again!

 

[-Hari-]

If you feel you can out yourself through it and you aren't going to be too uncomfortable then for both your sakes get tied face down, that should help you hide the inevitable 😛

You may find that if its too weird a situation then you will loose alot of ticklishness out of pure nervousness and mental discomfort.

Have a think about it, ultimately your the best person to ask 🙂

 

[Deleted member 2452]

don't do it! it will come out, and you'll be the butt of a lot of nasty jokes. find a girl to take care of your tickling needs.

steve

 

[Cosmo_ac]

Personally, I see nothing wrong with m/m tickling, nor use it as a means of associating someones sexuality. That being said, you have already said you feel a little uncomfortable with the idea. This could be simply jitters about being tickled, or it could be more. My advice would be to think about it for a while, and if the jitters persist, then perhaps it would be best if you tried to get some f/m tickling instead.

You should be aware though that when it comes to m/m tickling, there is still a bit of a stigmatism, both here and in the real world. Enjoying such an activity, for whatever reason, can result in some negative backlash (because apparently people don't have anything better to do with their lives), so I would take the time to think over the subject and weigh the pro's and con's and how you feel about them. In the end, it might just be worth more to go to a female dominatrix and pay to get tickled then get tickled by one of your friends for free.

 

[rhiannon]

As it was said before - totally up to you. If the thought doesn't repulse you (I cannot be tickled by another woman....turns me completely off), then I don't see a reason why you shouldn't do it. What are you worried about? That you could be bisexual or gay?

 

[BellybTickler]

Well, it sounds as though you're subconscious is telling you something. I would set the boundaries with your friend first, and go from there.

 

[Inverse]

don't do it! it will come out, and you'll be the butt of a lot of nasty jokes. find a girl to take care of your tickling needs.

steve

Oh noes! Whatever will they think of me!? 🙄

 

[rhiannon]

The only thing I am wondering is: What exactly did you tell your friend? I mean, when I talk to female friends of mine about sex and what I am into, the last thing they would answer is "Hey cool, come on, let's do it!" 🙂

Are you sure this guy isn't somewhat into you?

 

[Inverse]

Maybe he's just into tickling~ maybe he just finds tickling fun, and it doesn't have to be any more than that. I've tickled people I'm not 'into'. Plenty of girls can get into tickling without wanting anything more than that with them too. Somehow this is an alien concept when applied to men? Maybe he's just a hell of a lot more comfortable with his sexuality than most of people. Who knows?

 

[rhiannon]

Maybe he's just into tickling~ maybe he just finds tickling fun, and it doesn't have to be any more than that.

Uhm....no. Look what he said:

Obviously tickling is very arousing for me

That is why I wonder what he told his friend! I mean....if my friend told me "O boy, it turns me on so much to get my ellbow nibbled (or whatever, just as an example 🙂 )", I would not even think about offering to do that to the person....unless I had a sexual interest in them. You see what I am saying?

 

[Inverse]

I meant his partner, not the OP. :3 I know the OP found it arousing, but was replying to your implication that his friend might be wanting more.

 

[rhiannon]

Yeah well, that is why I wonder what exactly he told the guys. If he was actually, as he is implying, confessing his fetish - which means "Tickling turns me on", or if he was saying something like "Man, I think it's so much fun/relaxing/cool to be tied up and tickled".

 

[stockytickler]

It's the most fun I've ever had and -- prepare yourself for a shock -- but it doesn't every-single-time lead to sex, even with my bf. So yeah, go for it. If you get turned on you can take care of that on your own time. Cheers. 🙂