Need some Advice

[ladytickler1]

Hey all,
I guess i'm younger compared to some of you, and I want to ask for advice.
How can I get a girl to let me tickle her and perhaps tie her down and do it without asking her outright and revealing my love for tickling? I'm very secretive about it and have never really tickled anyone as much as i'd like to. Advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[joham1]

You're pretty much asking for a way to sound an air horn in your yard without your neighbours hearing you!

On a serious note, sexual activities (especially ones involving an extra level of trust like bondage) really need to be discussed openly among all parties concerned. It's just not the place for deception - who knows, it might turn out fine, but equally it could make her feel very threatened (how do you know she hasn't had a bad experience with something like that, or is just uncomfortable with it?).

Sit down and have a chat about it. The worst that can happen is that she will be totally appauled (unlikely) but at least you'll know the state of play. The best that can happen... well, that's up to you and her and the things you're willing to try together. She's likely to be much more responsive to tickling (especially next time if there is the chance of repeat occurances) if you let her know beforehand and ask her about it. Springing it on her while she's tied up and helpless is not conducive to her being pleased or welcoming.

If you are nervous about bringing up tickling specifically, then blend it in with other fun bondage games to take the focus off. Discuss teasing, massages, vibrators, ice cubes, long drawn out body kisses... you get the idea. There are myriad things to do to a tied up (or non-tied up) girl that will be fun for both of you, and it will give you a chance to see how she reacts to various forms of tickling. If she seems to enjoy it, up the intensity a small amount and so on.

 

[wendyandpeter]

Like Nike, man -- Just do it. But there's a catch. ALWAYS REMEMBER, AND DON'T EVER FORGET:

1) sex is best when there's trust;
2) without trust, you can FORGET about bondage;
3) once she wants the bondage, don't ruin her trust.

That means: Your best chances of having your way with her will come from being a nice guy, giving her time to get to know you and like you, and respecting her limits at all times. Once she's negotiating with you about tying her up, just ask her if there's anything she DOESN'T want you to do. If she doesn't mention tickling, then go for it. But start slowly and give her the chance to back out. It may take several times of very whimpy tickling before she feels comfortable enough to let you really tickle her.

As for telling her all about your fetish -- just tickle her playfully whenever it feels right. Eventually, she'll tell YOU that you have a "thing for tickling." At that point, just say "yep, I sure do," and smile. If she doesn't want to be tickled, she'll let you know.

 

[Merciless11]

Honesty is better than tricks of deception.

 

[ladytickler1]

Thanks guys, although I have tickled some girls in the past (really good friends who i'm still really good friends with) they went like this.....the first was a small brunette, barely breaking 5 feet, very cute and very ticklish feet . We were sitting on her couch watching a movie, and she put her feet on my lap, so of course I started tickling them. She giggled and pulled away, so i quickly stood up and she put her feet where I was sitting, i sat back down on them an dtickle her for a good five minutes. The other was at another girls house, blonde hair, about 5'6, very attractive. We were sitting on her bed , and she said she could use a good massage so of course i volunteered. The second I got her shoes and socks off I asked if she was ticklish, and she screamed "NO NOT THAT" so i sat on her legs and tickled her bare feet for a good amount of time, it was all in good fun though.

 

[ladytickler1]

Merciless, in that icon of yours, are those your feet?

 

[Journia]

Honesty is better than tricks of deception.

Ha! That's what you think!!! *Flies into the air, a lightning bolt strikes, he falls to the ground.* Ooooh.