Need the guys to please dress me...

[Em Es]

Looking sexy versus getting a man to ask you on a date

If Lea wants simply to look sexy, I stand by the answer I gave earlier: She should dress as attractively as she can while being comfortable with what the outfit shows off. Even girls with great figures should not don tight or revealing clothes if they feel self-conscious in them. If Lea carries herself well, that will be as sexy as any clothing can make her look.

But if Lea wants a man to ask her on a date, what she wears does not matter as much as being friendly and meeting the guy halfway.

 

[biggen7934]

just be you if youre not even with these guys yet. they will prolly be more into u if they dont think u r just trying to impress them. plus...what guy doesnt love a girl in jeans and a sweatshirt

 

[jersey_tickler]

I agree with both of you, completely. I'm just saying what i would do to make good first impressions, if I were a hostess and my friends were trying to set me up with some guy. If I was a girl of course.

 

[ThatPercussionGuy]

Shouldn't this be moved to the General Section? Not one mention of tickling in a thread under the 'Tickling Discussion' section.

 

[amkes]

I like the pajama pants idea because i have a small butt, I can wear a cute t-shirt that shows my navel, and being barefoot looks very natural... or maybe even black flip flops and an anklet?

Great idea...thanks u 😉

Lea

umm your welcome ^ ^

 

[unit5610]

Lea...I would stay away from the pajamas. To me it's too casual and sometimes it looks like the person couldn't be bothered putting real clothes on. That being said I love an anklet and bare feet, I think that's sexy as hell. Turtlenecks can be a little conservative looking, I'd go with the regular blouse, maybe even other than black since most colors look good with jeans. Showing a little belly when you stretch is nice, too. Good luck! Let us know what you chose and how it went.

 

[Lea28]

Yes,I went French

I like the pajama pants idea because i have a small butt, I can wear a cute t-shirt that shows my navel, and being barefoot looks very natural... or maybe even black flip flops and an anklet?


I think it would be a bit unnatural for flip flops indoors. They're a great casual shoe for quick errands of a casual, flirty style outdoors but inside they're out of place.

Imagine in winter if you kept your winter coat on in a cold apartment. Sure, you might be comfortable but it just seems a little off. Anklets looks great no matter what you're wearing but if your jeans are going to be ending fairly low (say within 2 or so inches of the ground) then it might be a wasted effort because nobody is going to be looking at it. If you're looking for foot jewlery I recommend a toe ring or two.

As for the blouse you can NOT go wrong with black. EVER. (Except with navy blue pants, which is a mistake I consciously make because I'm a man and lazy and nobody expects me to know better!)

Are you going for painted or unpainted nails? It's a simple matter to match your outfit to your nail color and it'll look stunning! (Really makes a pretty girl stand off if her toes match her top!)

Thank u;

I agree... 2 toes rings, no flip flops, and back to my fav jeans... I am most comfortable that way to be sure.

Dinner is tomorrow... just need a haircut today (just got my new ped) and I am ready; glad I am having it catered... more time with guests.

No, I am not looking to get laid, but to see friends i have missed and maybe make a few new ones... and really do want people to know / see the real me at home and casual.

OK... so if a guy whispers that my new pedicure is nice then maybe he can stay and help me clean up aftert the party 😉

But no expectations... not yet.

Many thanks, Lea

 

[Lea28]

I'll update on any tickle action...

Shouldn't this be moved to the General Section? Not one mention of tickling in a thread under the 'Tickling Discussion' section.

My room mate is a serious LER and plans on scooping one of our cute guy guests; he's insanely ticklish (I have first hand experience with him) and I am actually fixing them up... she gets all the best guys so I assume that i will spend the night listening to them in her bedroom as i snuggle my stuffed dinosaur...

She actually is into lite bdsm, and guys adore her. I am destined to be ignored.

Lea

 

[amkes]

well have fun hope it is a great date^ ^

 

[suikoden]

Without having seen you, I would say go with the black blouse so you can show of your tummy just a little and go with the jeans too. Casual, not trying too hard but still looking good.

Do you like to accessorise? An interesting necklace to draw attention to the throat etc? If you are at home and not going out you can probably get away with bare feet and sandals.

Have fun. Hope it all works out well for you.

 

[Em Es]

That's the story of my social life!

Lea, of your roommate participating in your party, you said, "Guys adore her. I am destined to be ignored." Boy, talk about having things in common! I was always the invisible man, the guy women looked right through to make time with another man.

 

[Lea28]

Thanks, it's the tall blond syndrome...

Lea, of your roommate participating in your party, you said, "Guys adore her. I am destined to be ignored." Boy, talk about having things in common! I was always the invisible man, the guy women looked right through to make time with another man.

She is tall (5'10) and built... she's ultra confident and even i think she's amazingly attractive...

I'm 5'3, no boobs, but fun in my own way... and my freinds say i have a great laugh, a nice smile, and cute legs and feet...

But yes, you get it! Assertive blond wins!

Lea

 

[Lea28]

Necklace... I have a a few really fun things...

Without having seen you, I would say go with the black blouse so you can show of your tummy just a little and go with the jeans too. Casual, not trying too hard but still looking good.

Do you like to accessorise? An interesting necklace to draw attention to the throat etc? If you are at home and not going out you can probably get away with bare feet and sandals.

Have fun. Hope it all works out well for you.

But maybe should NOT wear the black leather choker! Not yet anyway...

thank you, Lea

 

[Lea28]

Necklace... I have a a few really fun things...

Without having seen you, I would say go with the black blouse so you can show of your tummy just a little and go with the jeans too. Casual, not trying too hard but still looking good.

Do you like to accessorise? An interesting necklace to draw attention to the throat etc? If you are at home and not going out you can probably get away with bare feet and sandals.

Have fun. Hope it all works out well for you.

But maybe should NOT wear the black leather choker! Not yet anyway...

thank you, Lea

 

[OldEnglish]

I usually do not post that often but your thread drew me out of the shadows.

First of all, best of luck. I hope the night is a success for you.

Secondly, I am shocked that no one mentioned this [unless I skipped over it], but if you are looking to go the jeans and flats route but also want to look a little more 'dressy' without getting 'dressy,' why not slip on a pair of nylons, as well? Even just a pair of knee highs will work if you are wearing jeans. It's an elegant look, and since I am a fellow Massachussets-ean, I can vouch that the weather will dictate wearing something on your feet, even indoors.

Just my thoughts... I'm headed back to the shadows.

Old English

 

[Lea28]

Great thought...

I usually do not post that often but your thread drew me out of the shadows.

First of all, best of luck. I hope the night is a success for you.

Secondly, I am shocked that no one mentioned this [unless I skipped over it], but if you are looking to go the jeans and flats route but also want to look a little more 'dressy' without getting 'dressy,' why not slip on a pair of nylons, as well? Even just a pair of knee highs will work if you are wearing jeans. It's an elegant look, and since I am a fellow Massachussets-ean, I can vouch that the weather will dictate wearing something on your feet, even indoors.

Just my thoughts... I'm headed back to the shadows.

Old English

Black nylon works, and is better with jeans... then back to anklet and not toe rings... hmmm... thank you...

I hope i didn't waste money on the pedicure???

thank !

Lea

 

[Em Es]

But women do the choosing, Lea

The guys chasing your blond friend should know women do the choosing. They should instead concentrate on the girls who approach them, whether it's you or your friend.

 

[OldEnglish]

It's never a waste of money when pedicures are involved...

Old English

 

[TheTickleMonster]

Wear a skirt showing off your legs. low cut top is optional.

i'm with him lol.. i wasn't going to make an imput since u said u wanted to wear jeans lol but since he did, i will say a skirt as well 😛 lol

 

[Em Es]

Did I miss the post-party report, Lea?

Lea, did you start another post about the party? I have been wanted to hear what you wore, how it went with your male guests, and if your roommate affected anything adversely.

 

[Lea28]

Thanks for asking...

Lea, did you start another post about the party? I have been wanted to hear what you wore, how it went with your male guests, and if your roommate affected anything adversely.

Party: Food was ok (buffet) and the music was awesome; we danced alot after dinner. I ended up wearing jeans and a black blouse that kinda exposed my navel when i stretched or danced. I settled on two rings (3) and I was barefoot which i think made my friends feel comfortable / relaxed.

I did have a french ped... not sure you asked though 😉

My roommate was a doll; she helped with planning and music and danced with all the guys as I mostly talked with my guests / friends (danced some though).

I was a very well behaved girl; my roommate of course picked up a guy but he was NOT my type... I had no reason to be jealous nor engage in too much self pity... I was not shopping for a sleepover.

If you want to know about her, she wore all black including stirrup pants and a blouse much more tight than I would wear ever... showed her black bra. Her nails were painted black as well and of course she was beautiful. I saw a guy giving her a foot massage shortly before she disappeared for the night. In the morning i learned he was a talented toe sucker with "insanely ticklish feet."

I slept with my dinosaur, but was asked to dinner on the weekend (last) by a cute guy i did kinda like. Who knows about him?? He did say however that he thinks I have sexy toes (if he only knew) and a cute tummy (oh well).

Lea

 

[Raptor]

Well your outfit sounded cute so it seems you made the right choice. Who knows maybe this guy will be your "sole" mate

 

[jayson752003]

I know I'm waay late to this shindig, and I apologize for dredging this back up (after nearly a decade) but am I the only one extremely interested in hearing about the "roomate's" F/M escapades?? Or if they're here somewhere, and ive missed them, I apologize once again... Sure sounded like she mustve had quite a few, and I bet they were good ones to! Lol. Oh well, no sense In being greedy, can't expect to hear/or read every single true tickling story out there. 🙁 lol