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no tickling for me *cries*

I kinda feel your pain in a way. I also am alone right now (kinda best for me after a 4 year hell of a marrage with the devil herself lol, then following, a girlfriend who played head games). However, I will say this as ive said to an online young friend of mine round your age with a simmaler problem. Women are the last thing you need. You need to just make yourself happy, accomplish your goals, and dont let anyone or anything stand in your way. Fuck those people who put you down..they aint worth shit nor your time or emotion. I honestly belive that since you are young, there is a right one out there for you somewhere, pretty much stop looking and when the time is right..that person will just come to you. I too used to be one that broke their ass for people and got fucked (not in a good way) in return. Also, its sad but true, I do agree with you 100% about what you said bout all them wanting is a pretty face, no matter how shitty they get treated. But hey..it's their loss. I can tell your a good person and someone who actualy deserves you will come your way eventualy. Like I said...dont look..life is too short and there are much more important things in life than finding another half (girlfriend/boyfriend/sign. other, etc).
 
If it's any consolation, Jay, I'd be happy to be your girlfriend if a)I wasn't married and b) you didn't mind and older woman. 😛 I've known you for like a year now and I think you're fantastic. 😀
 
<-- almost 20, and never had a date or girlfriend, either. I am depressed about this, and every other aspect of my life pretty much all the time.
 
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Allright loveless guys. You wanted advice, you recieved advice from dskodj and myself. Tonight is Saturday night. Every town has at least five different places where single people try really hard to impress one another for the slim hope of going home with a total stranger for 15 minutes of bad, unremarkable, drunken, sex. You have two avenues:

1. Take our advice, go out there, and see what you can do.

or

2. Shut up.
 
ya know mayday why dont you shut up how bout that , you sit there and say all that advice and ya its good advice but since you dont know me personally you really dont know how hard it is for me , so dont sit there and tell me to shut up
 
You don't think I don't know? In high school I was a social leper. I couldn't get a girl to acknowledge my existance much less a date with her. I've been in the same boat as you and I know from personal expericiance it starts and ends with your own personal confidence. That's it.

Now if you want to just stay home and mope, fine. Just stop belly aching about it here if you're not going to make any attempts.

So what are you doing tonight?
 
Then go somewhere else. No excuses! Make it happen!
 
I hate to say it but MayDay has a point. What's the use in asking for advise if you're just going to turn it down and say it's impossible? If you ask me you're defeating yourself before you even have a chance.
 
well if you really knew me personally you would understand what i have been through i guess you would have to know me personally to understand
 
Powerhousegym04 said:
well if you really knew me personally you would understand what i have been through i guess you would have to know me personally to understand
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Would you fill us in? Your right, we don't know who you are, give us some more information and maybe we can find a solution. It never hurts to ask.
 
I know how you feel - but believe me, girls that wanna date you cos you have big muscles or some shit are unlikely to make good girlfriends. The most attractive part of a woman is her brain. OK physical attraction is important but if theres no connection there its doomed to failure.
You definitely should try being friends with girls too because that could develop into something and they can introduce you to their female friends. The kind of girls you want to meet (intelligent, thoughtful ones) will find it attractive that you can have a platonic relationship with a girl cos it shows you have respect for women and dont just view them as objects of sexual desire.
Also, things will probably improve when you leave the education system because when people get out into the big wide world and get a job they learn a lot of things that no school can teach them. People cant all be lumped into little categories like it seems a lot of people that age try to do. Everyone on this planet is different - all 6 billion of us - you have to approach every person with an open mind.

"Different hearts beat on different strings" - Neil Peart

PS - Dont come across like you're really dying for a date cos that is gonna put girls off big time.
 
i kind of agree... never having had a relationship, EVER, is a dificult boundary. one doesnt have the social grounding at different levels, doesnt 'know the game'...
i myself have never had a GF, and i am 19.... then again, i think i have surpassed the stage of endless longing and torment, and have realised that if i really ever am attracted in a transcendental sense, rather than a 'oh, shes hot, i would like her for gf' manner, i will go for it. until then, as long as i gots my porn, i is okie-dokey! screw women: a good left hand is mans best friend!
 
What age did you say you are? 20? Hardly over the hill.

Go to gigs or clubs or whatever with mates and try to get talking to some girls.

Why dont you try online? Local chat rooms or message boards could help you meet people that live near you and you could arrange a meeting and take it from there.
 
Why dont you try online? Local chat rooms or message boards could help you meet people that live near you and you could arrange a meeting and take it from there.


why o cause thats not how i wanna meet a girl
 
you know what? fuck you. quit bitching. if you just patronise us and whine when we try to give you advice, you obvoiusly don't want a girlfriend that badly, or are a drama queen.
 
"why o cause thats not how i wanna meet a girl"

What difference does it make how you meet someone? It sounds to me like you're making excuses, no offence.
 
aussiemonkey who you talking to like that , you think your something special cause i dont , go whack off to your gay porn ,

iriish idk its just ive trid to meet girls online , im not even joking when i say this but last time i met someone i ended up meeting a 30 year old stripper named vince
 
nessonite said:
If it's any consolation, Jay, I'd be happy to be your girlfriend if a)I wasn't married and b) you didn't mind and older woman. 😛 I've known you for like a year now and I think you're fantastic. 😀
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First off, thanks, Ness. ^_^ It is good to know there's hope.

Second... I realize this is a very emotionally charged subject for many people (myself included) and it can very easily get ugly... what helps no one is if it breaks down into a shouting match and insults fly.

Third, the best piece of advice I can offer is really to seek counseling. That's what I did after feeling miserable and lonely for an entire year, and it is honestly much better than getting advice from people online, mainly because a counselor WILL get to know you and be able to help devise a plan that suits your needs specifically. That's what I'm in the process of right now.
 
Well Id hardly say you need counselling because you aren't the best with the opposite sex, cos Im not great with girls either, but if you try you will get there eventually or at least you've more chance than if you sit about and be depressed about it. I think this guy is afraid of rejection and as a result looks for as many problems as possible to reduce the chances of him approaching women and maybe getting turned down. Regarding Vince, well, perhaps you were looking in the wrong sort of place. Either that or it was just bad luck.
 
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