Worrying about myself now....
Alright.....
Just from reading this particular thread, I have realized just how many things I like... A LOT.... that are considered to be "things" to people! Be prepared to be a bit weirded out... this is more than my own mother knows about me!
(...And yes, all this from a woman!)
*clears throat*
I have loved tickling, both playful and sexual aspects, for some time now, though admittedly it ONLY gets sexual for me with the right person. (Hint: this is normally not going to include the chatroom!) But I was seemingly born that way, with no obvious triggers to be seen. This playful detached kind of attraction and the seeming omission of any obvious triggers is also true of almost every other following item on this list, save for control/power play. Outside the bedroom, I like things on an even, level basis. The back and forth is more for intimacy alone.
The two things that go hand in hand with this focus is laughter (actually, any kind of high emotional reaction will usually set me off.. I'm very emotional and expressive), and touching. I'm a true sensualist. I love being touched, and touching others. I'm what more standoffish Americans would call "touchy-feely". I hug people, rub shoulders, playfight, hold hands, and occasionally just casually touch somebody in the course of a conversation as a way of communicating. What I like intimately is something very close and tied-in to tickling... "tracing". Lightly drawing my hands across the body of another in a kind of exploratory manner. Not a massage, but just barely a touch, enough to give light chills.
The body area I tend to focus on (though as a 'lee and a 'ler I will love anything effective!) is the waist/belly/midriff area. Again, I don't know why... there's just something very sensual about that. So, naturally, an unbuttoned shirt or a cropped t-shirt does a lot for me! (Yes, I oficially throw in my lot with you "belly" people.)
Mimi made me realize another thing I have always loved, that I thought was just an unusual quirk of one or two of my past loves.... purring. Yes, I know EXACTLY what you mean, Mimi.... OH! This goes so well with my interest for long, thick, wavy hair. (Pardon the sacrilege, but the proverbial "Jesus" haircut... long, wavy, clean and natural, though preferably framing a clean-shaven face.) It feels just like curling up with a "big cat"... safe, and yet wild.... and it's SO cute and affectionate when a guy can actually do it right!
Blue eyes. I like blonds and redheads best in hair color, but ANY color hair is just about redeemable if offset by a pair of clear crystal-blue eyes. For some reason (possibly because it's a rare color to occur in nature), blue eyes seem to be the epitome of expressive for me... I can't say why. Eyes in general, in fact, have always been a focal-point to my attraction, even if not that fabulous shade of blue.
Going along with eyes, I'd have to say my weirdest little obsession (and, yes I HAVE found web sites out there!!) has got to be eyeglasses. Something about the way the frames set off the eyes and the profile. Sunglasses are okay, but to me conceal too much of the expression of the eyes. I have always liked an attractive set of wire-rimmed glasses on an attractive face, and many's the awkward face that, IMHO, can be improved by them. Do NOT ask me why... it's just a thing!
Pardon me for such a long post, but I figure not too many women post much, so you can all deal with it. 🙂
-=LadyKilroy=-
