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park collegeO and didates26 - same person/troll

Yeah that's actually a pretty good point. Especially after what he did to Comfort Eagle. As for the Catfishing phenomenon I think its more just a natural evolution of internet anonymity. Like FeatherEndeavor said, people do strange things when they won't face, or think they won't face, the consequences of their actions. It's definitely a big thing in pretty much every fetish or sexual community online. You'll always get guys pretending to be girls for whatever reason be it a scam/trolling like in VivianLove's case or a guy seeing it as a better chance of him getting with a girl.

You also get females pretending to be other females. I've seen that happen. I was friends with such a person! The person in the documentary "Catfish" was also such a woman. They don't feel attractive or get the attention they desire.....so they take someone else's pictures and flirt online with them. The person who I was talking to was a young girl struggling with her weight and skin problems.....she got found out and owned up to it, apologizing to me and sending me pictures of what she really looked like. (this was not on the TMF).

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It could very well be this guy was just trying to get a rise from the regulars. He knew that the same old people would get into another flameout that would go on for pages and pages, knowing they couldn't resist the bait. It seems every one of his threads, regardless of the name, was designed for that reason. When no one would comment on it (at first), then Park College O would step in to get the ball rolling. I think he just liked pushing those buttons....especially since they're so easy to push! He was probably giggling his ass off, watching the page count mount. Just as he's probably giggling now, having one last laugh, at how long THIS thread is going on! lol.
 
You also get females pretending to be other females. I've seen that happen. I was friends with such a person! The person in the documentary "Catfish" was also such a woman. They don't feel attractive or get the attention they desire.....so they take someone else's pictures and flirt online with them. The person who I was talking to was a young girl struggling with her weight and skin problems.....she got found out and owned up to it, apologizing to me and sending me pictures of what she really looked like. (this was not on the TMF).

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It could very well be this guy was just trying to get a rise from the regulars. He knew that the same old people would get into another flameout that would go on for pages and pages, knowing they couldn't resist the bait. It seems every one of his threads, regardless of the name, was designed for that reason. When no one would comment on it (at first), then Park College O would step in to get the ball rolling. I think he just liked pushing those buttons....especially since they're so easy to push! He was probably giggling his ass off, watching the page count mount. Just as he's probably giggling now, having one last laugh, at how long THIS thread is going on! lol.


I doubt he's laughing since he can pretty much kiss his video business goodbye. Even if he comes back under another name and I don't notice, one of you guys will figure it out and let me know.

I'm sure he enjoyed the chaos but another of the things he was trying to do, and one of the reasons for the identity idiocy, was to drive traffic away from legitimate producers and towards his own product.

And that has now completely backfired. Like Vivian Love, he can pretty much forget ever making money from our community now.
 
I doubt he's laughing since he can pretty much kiss his video business goodbye. Even if he comes back under another name and I don't notice, one of you guys will figure it out and let me know.

I'm sure he enjoyed the chaos but another of the things he was trying to do, and one of the reasons for the identity idiocy, was to drive traffic away from legitimate producers and towards his own product.

And that has now completely backfired. Like Vivian Love, he can pretty much forget ever making money from our community now.

Hey in the meanwhile, Vivian had made a 6-figure monthly income! That was nothing to scoff at 🙄

Sorry, couldn't resist 😀
 
Part of me suspected it was a troll but i believed he was serious in the end and replied to it. Wish i didn't give him what he wanted. Oh well, at least he won't be coming back now. Thanks Jeff!
And man, i remember the fake tickle model thread. Didn't know it was him but something seemed off about it to me so i didn't post under it. Not like i know many models compared to everyone else on here though.

Maybe he's snickering at this thread right now, maybe not. But i hope the damage he did to his production career was worth it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 
Hey in the meanwhile, Vivian had made a 6-figure monthly income! That was nothing to scoff at 🙄

Sorry, couldn't resist 😀

I find my self quoting that debacle on random occasions. It was truly infuriating at the time, but now. Looking back on it. I truly did feed into that situation by continuing to get mad. Lol, at least I have some laughs from it
 
You also get females pretending to be other females. I've seen that happen. I was friends with such a person! The person in the documentary "Catfish" was also such a woman. They don't feel attractive or get the attention they desire.....so they take someone else's pictures and flirt online with them. The person who I was talking to was a young girl struggling with her weight and skin problems.....she got found out and owned up to it, apologizing to me and sending me pictures of what she really looked like. (this was not on the TMF).

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It could very well be this guy was just trying to get a rise from the regulars. He knew that the same old people would get into another flameout that would go on for pages and pages, knowing they couldn't resist the bait. It seems every one of his threads, regardless of the name, was designed for that reason. When no one would comment on it (at first), then Park College O would step in to get the ball rolling. I think he just liked pushing those buttons....especially since they're so easy to push! He was probably giggling his ass off, watching the page count mount. Just as he's probably giggling now, having one last laugh, at how long THIS thread is going on! lol.

Oh yeah it was definitely a mixed bag. The first episode was a lesbian pretending to be a guy, and I'm pretty sure the guy who got arrested for impersonating a bus driver (Yeah it did happen) just created a false persona for himself but used his real pictures and there was the couple who both catfished each other by sending false pictures because they felt their weight would be off putting. Glad to know you got the truth out of

I find my self quoting that debacle on random occasions. It was truly infuriating at the time, but now. Looking back on it. I truly did feed into that situation by continuing to get mad. Lol, at least I have some laughs from it

Never got involved myself so nothing to really lose but love retelling the story to others of the forum who weren't around for it.
 
It was clear that didates26 was a sock puppet account of someone, it just wasn't clear who it was.

It was clear that Vivian Love was a sock puppet account of someone, it just wasn't clear who it was.

So...in that thought process, why were they allowed to do the things they were for as long as they did? Vivian Love spent MONTHS doing their act, with multiple posters even pointing out clearly that the poster was playing a bit, that they were being inflammatory for no good reason. Yet nothing happened. There isn't even an argument to be made about it being a witch hunt. Hell, when P&R was still accessible to anyone on this site, trolly sock puppets flowed like water down a stream to attempt to share their regressive politics and argue with others. That finally got fixed...with a solution a lot of people demanded for over HALF A DECADE being implemented.

What was gained by letting these morons skip about sprinkling shit crusties all over and stinking the joint up for so long?
 
That's a fair question.

First of all, it's because you cant stop people from creating new accounts. If someone wants to create a new TMF account, or facebook account, or twitter account, they're going to. That's not something that can be controlled by me or any administrator, even of a billion-dollar company.

So in some cases, it's like - "I could kill this account, but how does that change things? The same person will just do the same thing again." Shutting down an account is not, by itself, a particularly effective action to take.

Also, its only obvious in retrospect, in the sense that there are a lot of posts that are in the "might be a sock-puppet" category. I see a lot of members who initially make me suspicious for one reason or another. Sometimes just the timing of their joining the forum will raise my radar because it coincides with something I've done behind the scenes.

I once banned someone from the chatroom for being a catifish, based on not just my observations but also some behind the scenes things that I was able to see. And it turned out to be wrong. There were some coincidences that made it "obvious" and yet it wasn't the case.

And when you're in the position where making that determination has consequences, it's not the same as just being an outside observer who sees a problem and wishes something would be done about it. Once I take an action, it's extremely hard to undo it. In the above case, the woman I banned was PISSED, and had every right to be. We could have lost a valuable member of the community over that mistake.

And there have been other situations like that, where what I thought was obviously going on turned out to not be the case. So I've learned to be careful, methodical, and comprehensive.

With Vivan Love specifically, it was so obviously fake that I just didn't take it seriously at first. I figured nobody cared about the fact that it was obviously a fake persona as long as it was giving them what they wanted.

But even with that being said, your impression that nothing was happening until the moment when they got shut down is not really accurate. There was a lot of behind the scenes detective work and discussion going on. There's more to it than just "kill or don't kill the account."

Once I get to that point, I have to figure out what's going on so I don't make the problem worse. If I had just shut down Didates as soon as I sniffed out a problem, I would not have also been able to shut down their other accounts and give the community a complete picture of what had been going on. And I would not have been able to put myself in a position where I would be able to keep an eye on that person in the future if they attempt to return.

And in some cases, I just don't know because I have thousands of people to keep track of. I wasn't aware that Didates even existed until this latest incident.

This is a big forum, and there's no road map for how to handle things in a way that won't inadvertently make things worse.

For example, you brought up P&R - I agree that there was that problem, but just killing sock puppets wasn't a solution, because if you think we didn't do that you're mistaken. People just create more of the same, and then I have to chase them around like children. And because we're dealing with a troll instead of a reasonable person, it becomes a game to them - "how much trouble can I cause before I get caught this time?"

We tried a dozen different ways to deal with that situation. You may recall the revolving door of policies on the P&R forum as we tried tuning it and adjusting it. And we considered at least a dozen more where we'd say "What if we do this? What if we do that? How will that play out in the long run?"

I was looking for a permanent and least-disruptive solution. And I found one, that not only made that specific situation better, but also solved other problems with the P&R forum, like its effect on the tone of the forum in general.

TL;DR - we do ban sock puppets; sometimes they come back; sometimes banning them isn't a big enough solution.


It was clear that didates26 was a sock puppet account of someone, it just wasn't clear who it was.

It was clear that Vivian Love was a sock puppet account of someone, it just wasn't clear who it was.

So...in that thought process, why were they allowed to do the things they were for as long as they did? Vivian Love spent MONTHS doing their act, with multiple posters even pointing out clearly that the poster was playing a bit, that they were being inflammatory for no good reason. Yet nothing happened. There isn't even an argument to be made about it being a witch hunt. Hell, when P&R was still accessible to anyone on this site, trolly sock puppets flowed like water down a stream to attempt to share their regressive politics and argue with others. That finally got fixed...with a solution a lot of people demanded for over HALF A DECADE being implemented.

What was gained by letting these morons skip about sprinkling shit crusties all over and stinking the joint up for so long?
 
Anyone remember that young torch singer lady who was looking for ticklers to fulfill and satisfy her tickling needs,only to be revealed as a fake(with the intended ticklers having to go through dealing with her manager).
 
Anyone remember that young torch singer lady who was looking for ticklers to fulfill and satisfy her tickling needs,only to be revealed as a fake(with the intended ticklers having to go through dealing with her manager).

lmao no, details? That sounds like a hell of a story.
 
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