Patient lers?

[TklDuo-Ann]

Lees - is it just me, or do you notice the same thing? And what do you do about it? Do you clue them in, or breathe a sigh of relief when they don't figure it out?

A lot of guys seem like they want an immediate and very vocal reaction or they just give up and walk away. *shrug* Their loss, I guess.

What I do depends on my mood. Sometimes, I'll just lay there while they flounder. But, often, I'll point out the good spots and challenge them to see if they ca get the better of me....which they always do if they're persistant enough. Of course, if Drew happens to be around, he will often announce the proper spots and touches to use. I don't recall ever breathing a sigh of relief, since I actually love it when they DO find the spots and touch. When they don't, I just get bored.

Ann

 

[MrTicklee]

Lest we all forget, this is the now generation.

Anyway, a slow methodical build up, in my opinion, can be the best way to tickle a Lee into complete and utter oblivion...well, at least from personal experience. I think many have hit the nail on the head...even though an initial reaction (screaming, thrashing, etc.) does not occur, that does not mean the Lee is not experiencing some form of a reaction internally that will most likely result in some wonderful reactions for the steady and patient Ler who sticks to his/her guns. Even working over some of my less ticklish places on result in making my more or most ticklish spots even more ticklish...it's all related. It's the big picture, right?

An aggressive Ler will break me in a relatively short period of time, nearly every time...but a slow and methodical Ler, mixed with some aggressive tickles, will have me screaming for hours. I guess it all depends on how much time we have!

 

[jaba]

the patient tickler reaps big rewards......

A little different spin on Miss Lk's topic of patience.....

It is often nice, when possible, for the tickler to know the "ticklish reactions" of his ticklee, and use that knowledge to the advantage of both participants........

There is a very ticklish young lady member of the TMF, who shall remain nameless because I prefer to be descreet in my private tickle play.....(jaba NEVER tickles and tells ) ........

This lady is so ticklish she fights like a cornered banshee when tickled, so in the interest of saftey, (both mine and hers..... ) I secure her pretty good with restraints, so I can perform my ticklework with less "resistance"....

She struggles, and laughs furiously (yummy!), and she can take the tickling for hours......

hours of struggle lead to her eventual exaustion, and her exaustion becomes yet another form of "restraint", further preventing her from escaping the tickling sensations.......

And when this lovely lass FINALLY ends her physical resistance to the tickling sensations, and her only escape is her helpless, unrestrained laughter 😛oke3: .......

Her laughter changes!......higher octaves, greater intensity.....a laugh that will NEVER be heard by the "hurried".....

That laugh made me flush with excitement, and amazement, when I heard it.....here was the hidden music I was seeking from her!........

So it may take time, but if you have the patience to discover this "tickle treasure", you will truly be rewarded with the sweetest sound on earth........






jaba

 

[kis123]

WOW!! What a post!

Patience is indeed my strong suit.
One of my 'lees once said that the song 'Slow Hand' might have been written by a 'lee yearning for my return.
I love to take a loooooong time about tickling; and my touch is always gentle. I have actually had complaints that I was TOO gentle, but never the reverese. As for those who thought I was too gentle; slow persistance showed them that my gentle methods would eventually break them, and far more thoroughly than the haste of others.
There is also the fact that my preferred gentle techniques, when combined overtly sexual touching, if that has been agreed to, can result in my giving the 'lee tickled orgasms, or ticklegasms.
I have accomplished this both orally and by intercourse, and to see my 'lee cum while laughing or giggling from my tickles is the ultimate joy for me as a 'ler.

*thud*
*drops on floor*
*eventually wakes up*

Please excuse me while I have a nice cold shower!!!

 

[venray]

 

[lk70]

Oh for cryin out loud, Ray!

 

[venray]

No need to cry hon.......tears of laughter will do.......

 

[TickledToDeath]

LMAO!
Nice one Ray!

 

[Coffee]

I agree with LK70 but i have to say it depends on the amount of time you have to play with your Lee and how much experience you have with that Lee. For both the more the better. LK70 I'd be more then happy to slowly find all your spots...lol

 

[TklDuo-Drew]

LMAO!
Nice one Ray!

Ditto



Drew

 

[terorizer]

hours of struggle lead to her eventual exaustion, and her exaustion becomes yet another form of "restraint", further preventing her from escaping the tickling sensations.......

And when this lovely lass FINALLY ends her physical resistance to the tickling sensations, and her only escape is her helpless, unrestrained laughter 😛oke3: .......

Her laughter changes!......higher octaves, greater intensity.....a laugh that will NEVER be heard by the "hurried".....

This describes exactly a friend of mine!! May be the same friend! lol She has a gorgeous laugh that most lers who play with her never hear, because it takes some patience to build up to it.

I think because there's just such excitement that comes with tickling, it's easy to get ahead of one's self, and that probably accounts for a lot of the "attacking" hurried tickling styles.

 

[Mastertank1]

Gee!

*thud*
*drops on floor*
*eventually wakes up*

Please excuse me while I have a nice cold shower!!!

Hope you didn't hurt yourself with that thud!
Now, I seem to recall reading somewhere that you're in a committed relationship? 🙁
Sigh. Well, if I'm wrong about that, maybe we can get together and let me demonstrate for you? 😛oke3:

 

[kis123]

Hope you didn't hurt yourself with that thud!
Now, I seem to recall reading somewhere that you're in a committed relationship? 🙁
Sigh. Well, if I'm wrong about that, maybe we can get together and let me demonstrate for you? 😛oke3:

Nah--softies like me usually bounce when they hit the floor!

Yes, I'm in a relationship (committment level could stand to be reviewed), but your post caught me off guard, if you know what I mean........ But you definitely gave me some ideas to share with him. Should I end up single again, let's just say............ 😉

This is kis returning this thread back to it's original owner......