Good topic, I think.
To address Hal first.
Nationalism to me is a more "defined" sense of patriotism. Nationalism seems to imply that not only does one have pride and love for their homeland, but that they feel the homeland is better off in a state of isolation. Unfortunately, I think too many of my fellow Americans tend to think in the extremes of Nationalism, a.k.a. the mother of war. I wonder if other countries have this same issue. "We can do it without anyone's help."...or..."We have to take care of the rest of the world before we tend to ourselves." I also tend to think that Nationalism leans toward governmental issues more than it does the human condition of loving one's home. "Our government, right or wrong is always right just because it's ours" kinda thing.
As far as the word PATRIOT, I think that's culturally something Americans think of because it's a hallmark of a time in American's past when the citizens self-tagged with the desire to HAVE a homeland of which to be proud. One can't argue the logic of that I would think. I wonder why the distaste for an American to call oneself a patriot. This might worth another thread, or even an old one, but the topic begs to question given the reply to one person's opinion. The current application of the word in American society falls into things like Kurtch mentioned...like the sports team. Americans using that word does not imply that the citizenry of other countries are not patriots. I'd like to toss in here a comment to Kurtch that I understood your statement to be one coming from a personal application of the word, much in the way that Hal or Red might use it to self-define their views of thier homes. By illustrating your own partiotism, you helped to define the word. You love your home, you're proud of it. I wonder if the word Patriot, pr one of equality, is used regularly in other countries. If not, surely there is a concept or long standing ideology that sits in its place. No? Then what type of symbolic entity takes that role?
Another difference between the two words I think is a simple one. Nationalism is the tunnel-vision of society that prevents the eyes from seeing the worth of another country. (I can feel the argument of the current war coming up - so, I shove it downward in hopes of keeping the conversation on topic) Patriotism, on the other hand, doesn't exclude,in my thought, the patriotism of other nations.
Patiotism is defined by more than the state's legal boundary lines. It's defined by the language, the customs, the laws, the sources of common issue that make up a homeland. It's common sense that the concerns of a patriotic people are going to fall in the lines of a nation. This may be an unfortunate side effect, but never the less it's true. One cannot be more aware of the rights of the warring tribes to the east and west when every member of one's own tribe suffers ill. It's very basic. I belive patriotism to be a by-product of self preservation.
A few telling quotations on the topic:
Ovid - Love of country is more potent than reason itself.
Voltaire - We must love our country, even though it treats us with injustices.
Samuel Johnson - Patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel.
Stanilaus Leszcynski - Patriotism is a feeling of welfare and the dread of seeing it disturbed.
Bob Hope - I'll lay an egg for my country if I have to.
H.G.Wells - Athenian democracy suffered much from that narrowness of patriotism which is the ruin of all nations.
George Santayana - To me, it seems a dreaful indignity to have a soul controlled by geography.
George William Curtis - A man's country is not a certain area of land, of mountains, rivers, and woods, but it is a principle; and patriotism is loyalty to that principle.
I say I agree with that last quotation. I'll add that common principles are developed via the common ground on which we live our lives, thusly correlating the idea that patriotism is dependent on the borders of our nations. Mind you, there are obvously exceptions, but generally speaking, I'd say it's true. Generally speaking again, I'd say a world with patriotic fervor is more healthy than a world without it.
Joby
Blah...I'm not correcting anymore! Typoglycemia is tough late at night!😛