As far as the "ocean" question goes... I gotta say, I don't have all the answers man haha. But that doesn't mean there isn't one. The theory of evolution is worked out very well, and most of the supposed "holes" are just misunderstandings of what the scientists were saying. You're going to have to research that question yourself (DON'T go to answersingenesis.com), and I'll also do some reasearch too. And if there ISN'T an answer yet... all that means is that no one has come up with one yet. It doesn't mean there isn't a reasonable, logical answer thats consistent with other things in nature. Which brings me to my next point...
That is the point though. If there isn't a scientific explanation that we've discovered yet, you can't rule out God completely, and that's because the boast of science has become "we can uncover all." The statement "we'll find the answer eventually" or anything similar to that that points towards future learnings are, much like with religion, statements of faith. You're putting faith in science, and perhaps even moreso, humanity's ability to understand all of it. But it's still a faith of sorts, and not actual science.
And they may not have been "the goal" of science, but that's what happened, nonetheless. From Gallileo to Isaac Newton, from Copernicus to Stephen Hawking, we've seen scientific theories directly contradict belief systems (and I know that Isaac Newton was religious, but his theories DID shed light on phenomena that was previously supposed to have been gods doing).
And yet they don't disprove God, only man's understanding of Him. And like you said, Newton being religious, there have been and still are an abundance of scientists who are religious. I brought this up last time, too, but the Farraday Institute.
And to the last thing... why? Why is there "too much regarding self consciousness.... to simply say evolution"? Because its novel, unheard of, and distinct from all other species? Isn't that... EXACTLY what a mutation is? Isn't that exactly how a species thrives over another species in a particular environment? And why add the "simply" in front of it? Evolution is such a broad, beautiful, all-encompassing theory. It drives life... ALL life. Things don't live without it. I'm sure there is so much we still don't know about it, and everything it is capable of. Why should, based on nothing but our (very flawed) intuition, think that anything BUT evolution made us? Like i said awhile ago... a lot of what is keeping us from accepting the fact that we are just another species governed by the same laws... i.e. all our behavior and thoughts ARE just chemicals... is because we're biased. We are us. It may just appear that we're free, special, brilliant, all the like. But all we have to compare it to are other animals that we find. We can't really compare our so called "enlightenment" to other species with a higher consciousness, because, for now, we're it. And if, in the future, evolution takes consciousness even further, then doesn't that just prove my point?
Because self-consciousness goes waaaaay beyond the propogation of the species and survival of the individual. Art, music, language, etc. go so much further beyond what evolution would ordinarily dictate as necessary for those two goals--beyond desirable traits, primitive mating calls, and herd communication. And you yourself said evolution doesn't care much about our mental being, so that kind of goes against your idea that evolution would take consciousness further.
And let me add something to "God can't be ruled out completely"... why have him there in the first place?
False premise. The debate of His existence was in the picture long before you or I got here. We landed among it.
It seems the biggest argument for gods existence is that he stands outside the human capacity to reason. God is part of a reality that can't be comprehended by human logic, and all that good stuff. But... what can't? If life were a matrix computer and all of our realities were just simulations, wouldn't the ACTUAL reality stand outside of our human cognition?
And that's exactly where people whose "religion" is science have issue. Again, it's not enough to say there's a scientific explanation, the explanation must be discovered. And thus it becomes that it's not so much faith in science as it is a faith in mankind's abilities to figure it all out. You could even argue it's based on power, the power of man over the universe and its destiny. And that's a very 21st century analogy for what Plato would have suggested, and what C.S. Lewis even hinted at.
And although there's no way to prove thats true... well... you also can't DISPROVE it. If you can't rule out god completely based on the fact that there are some things that we can't explain, for now, then you can't rule out, literally, an infinite number of possibilities of other realities. Of course, you can use people's "personal experiences" with god as a rebuttal to my claim, but what about peoples "personal experiences" with allah? Or krishna? or vishnu, or the great spirit, or with the matrix computer system, or the alien beings that are controlling our thoughts, or the paranoid schizophrenics delusions, or any of those emotional based responses? If most of those can be lumped into a category of "human tendency to see patterns where there are none", then what gives anybodies religion or spirituality REAL, ACTUAL, LEGITIMATE justification over another? Why do we HAVE to turn to god when there are unknowns? And if we do... why do we have to turn to the christian god? or the muslim god? or the native american god? or any god for that matter?
Strawman. While I have been saying God, I didn't outright say the Christian God, though that is the one I believe in. But you can substitute any other deity believed in and you come to the same impasse, except for those deities created specifically to be subservient to science.
And that all actually strays a bit far from where we started. I think I came in when I was picking up where Rox (who I don't believe is Christian, but apparently has a spiritual side too, do you take issue with her being spiritual too, then?) took issue with your concept of oneness after death. I guess she's asking, you find greater comfort in the thought of being worm chow and nothing more, than the thought of a separation of consciousness (spirit, soul, katra, whatever you wish to call it) continuing to place without pain and suffering.
As for me, I'll say it again: science and faith are not de facto mutually exclusive. There's too much evidence of that in our everyday life here on earth to conclude that.