Pretty Feet, Non-pretty face. What 2 Do?

[kis123]

You wanna make-out?

You couldn't possibly be serious. 😕

 

[kis123]

I agree, it would be difficult to enlighten you but i thought I'd try anyway.

You have the enlightening capabilities of a black hole, but keep convincing yourself otherwise and eventually you'll even believe it.

If you want to reduce yourself to mud-slinging and name calling, we're way beyond the point of reason. Besides, if I want to deal with preschool mentalities, I can go to the local daycare center nearest me.

Are you done yet? Give me a shout when you're ready to have an intelligent dialogue.

 

[Lttg]

If you want to continue this, we can go around the world if you choose to; you're well within your right to do so. If I haven't made my point clear to you by now, I guess it never will be.

You're sitting there, so sure you're 100% right, and you're condemming me for also being so sure im 100% right... that's a lesson in irony right there.

Look at it this way, my girlfriend is pretty, and I'd go as far out on a limb as to say shes pretty by anyones standards. Are you saying that because I didn't chose to go out with a less attractive girl, and that because i waited until i met a pretty girl that I liked, I'm immature? Because that's pretty much what it sounds like.

You are labouring under a mis-apprehension i feel. You seem to be suggesting that I would go out with a pretty girl even if she had a terrible personality. I'm afraid not. For me to want to date a girl she has to be attractive clear to the bone. I won't date horrible girls, and by the same token i won't date unattractive girls. I go for quality AND substance, it's called having standards, and you trying to call me shallow for that will fall on deaf ears 🙂

 

[Doubold_T]

Do you think we're happy with guys who don't bother, have guts the size of Texas and attitudes more suited for a braying jackass?

Do you mean to tell me, that all this time I've been doing it wrong ???

Is my face red!

But seriously, I've been with women of not "beauty queen", or "supermodel" status, who were intelligent, funny, warm, and I remember them all fondly.

Then were the the really pretty, popular "cheerleader" type, who couldn't find their a**es with both hands! They were about as attactive as a dirty sock.

Get to know the woman. You cold be missing out on someone great, and, if she lets you tickle her, well, that's all gravy.

And F.Y.I. summer. My beer belly is the size of Pennsylvania, thankyouverymuch!

 

[method11236]

You couldn't possibly be serious. 😕

If I was, that would make two of us.


But seriously, this thread is total garbage. There is no right way to decide with whom we choose to date and mate. There is only what is right for the individual.

 

[brianspencer66]

And then men wonder...
Why is it that we women have to be "made-up", in the most perfect shape, and "beautiful" for you all to be satisfied? Do women not have intelligence, character and personality, as well as "pretty feet"?
No one is saying basic hygiene isn't important. Of course it is, and those who don't practice cleanliness are sloppy. But it works on both ends, fellas.
Do you think we're happy with guys who don't bother, have guts the size of Texas and attitudes more suited for a braying jackass?
How dare you all? Seriously. I've seen pigs with more class.

I agree with you 100 percent. Alot of my males friends are average looking Themselves. Some of the things these guys say about what they expect from a woman physically but could never come close to themselves is a joke summer.

 

[elfriend]

Ok so this thread started out as a guy seeking suggestions and turned into and all out war.

ummmm...

😱
I think the emoticons explain in gist how I feel about this thread...

Entertaining.

 

[kis123]

You're sitting there, so sure you're 100% right, and you're condemming me for also being so sure im 100% right... that's a lesson in irony right there.

Look at it this way, my girlfriend is pretty, and I'd go as far out on a limb as to say shes pretty by anyones standards. Are you saying that because I didn't chose to go out with a less attractive girl, and that because i waited until i met a pretty girl that I liked, I'm immature? Because that's pretty much what it sounds like.

You are labouring under a mis-apprehension i feel. You seem to be suggesting that I would go out with a pretty girl even if she had a terrible personality. I'm afraid not. For me to want to date a girl she has to be attractive clear to the bone. I won't date horrible girls, and by the same token i won't date unattractive girls. I go for quality AND substance, it's called having standards, and you trying to call me shallow for that will fall on deaf ears 🙂

Everything I've said to you and countless others on this board have fallen on deaf ears; I personally could care less at this point. You called yourself shallow, not me; you can't find the word in one post I've written.

Having "standards" can close the door to opportunity. If I dated every man within what I thought were standards, I wouldn't met the fathers of my kids, and a very nice SO I'm dating now. They don't have the socially accepted "look" women go ga-ga over. They look like manly men of different heights, weights, and even races. That's why I know I'm 100% right; I've been there and done it so I can talk about it anytime I want. I won't even consider dating the pretty types; they can have any woman they want and tend to do so. I don't need that type of drama.

All I said was if guys would think outside the box on occassion they may find someone they could be happy with for a long time. What did I say wrong??? Let me answer that for you......NOTHING!

 

[Morpheus72]

Well, I made it to page 6....

...and got bored out of my skull

First of all, let's stop this "all men this..." or "all women this..." stuff. That's just silly.

Some men only date skinny women. Some women only date rich men. Some men only date women with attractive faces and bodies. Some women only date tall men. Some women want their men to be gamers. Some men want their women to like golf.

What does this mean? It means, as we learned in second grade, we're all different, and our preferences are different, too. It's not going to change!

People wear make-up (yes, men do too, nowadays). People go to gyms (yes, women do too, nowadays). People try to attract others by wearing slinky clothes and high heels (mostly women, I'd wager). People try to attract others by showing off expensive watches (mostly men, I'd wager).

And you know what? Others *don't* do these things, preferring instead to stay how they are.

Throughout my dating life, I've met wonderful women who I know I couldn't date. On the other hand, there have been women that have made me weak in the knees who wouldn't give me the time of day. You learn that that's just how it is.

In the end, most of us out there who are social, make an effort, and are aware of what we want in a partner will wind up happy. But what and who we like, that stuff is reasonably hard-wired into us. Being called shallow, wonderful, gold-digging, obtuse, or enlightened is not going to change that. People like what they like -- it's one of the things that makes us human.

Morph

 

[BorisandNatasha]

You can't tickle her face!






One must list ones' priorities and limitations.
Then weigh em out.


The answer(s) should become quite obvious to you in the end.

Boris

 

[Goodieluver]

There is a female at my job who has a sexy laugh, flawless feet, & likes me. the problem is she is not in the least attractive, to me anyway. Her feet beg to be tickled. She'd probably even let me tape it. But how to get intimate like that & not have her get too attached is kinda tricky.

Any suggestions?

light switch or bag or drop several grand for surgery if yer that shallow

 

[isabeau]

...and got bored out of my skull

First of all, let's stop this "all men this..." or "all women this..." stuff. That's just silly.

Some men only date skinny women. Some women only date rich men. Some men only date women with attractive faces and bodies. Some women only date tall men. Some women want their men to be gamers. Some men want their women to like golf.

What does this mean? It means, as we learned in second grade, we're all different, and our preferences are different, too. It's not going to change!

People wear make-up (yes, men do too, nowadays). People go to gyms (yes, women do too, nowadays). People try to attract others by wearing slinky clothes and high heels (mostly women, I'd wager). People try to attract others by showing off expensive watches (mostly men, I'd wager).

And you know what? Others *don't* do these things, preferring instead to stay how they are.

Throughout my dating life, I've met wonderful women who I know I couldn't date. On the other hand, there have been women that have made me weak in the knees who wouldn't give me the time of day. You learn that that's just how it is.

In the end, most of us out there who are social, make an effort, and are aware of what we want in a partner will wind up happy. But what and who we like, that stuff is reasonably hard-wired into us. Being called shallow, wonderful, gold-digging, obtuse, or enlightened is not going to change that. People like what they like -- it's one of the things that makes us human.

Morph

now that is one smart answer..very well done..i couldn't agree more..

also this thread was started like last year...i'm sure Tricham has gotten all the advice he needs or cares to hear by now..

 

[tricham]

Again! Read everything I said, then you'll see

light switch or bag or drop several grand for surgery if yer that shallow

A mutual respect developed in time. Take time out to get all the facts b4 you even "assume" someone might be shallow. ASS U ME

 

[SoopaMan]

now that is one smart answer..very well done..i couldn't agree more..

also this thread was started like last year...i'm sure Tricham has gotten all the advice he needs or cares to hear by now..

Yeah, I noticed. I think I started up again when I read the first post and posted.