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[Sunriseticklee]

Re: A Question About Something Sunrise Said..

What do you define as sexual tickling as opposed to torturous tickling?

To me it's all somewhat sexual. And I don't just mean if I'm tickling someone in sexual spots... I don't usually have sex with anyone I have tickled. But I've always found tickling a big turn on.

I'm not by any means a raving sex psycho and I fully admit if I'm tickling a lady I get rather hard. Even if it's just her ribs or something that normally wouldn't be sexual. I’ve openly stated there are a few ladies hee I'd like to tickle. But mostly because I love their attitudes or humor. I certainly wouldn't molest them.

That statement just struck me as curious.

Tron

Let me dive into your last statement first and then I will answer your question.....

Ive openly stated there are a few ladies hee I'd like to tickle. But mostly because I love their attitudes or humor.

Just as there are people who I would love to tickle me from talking with them on and offline, and just the camaraderie and closeness that has developed between those who I call my good friends.... There are people on this forum (who may be well liked or hated) who I would never let touch me, and it’s because of how they have treated me or others on TMF.

Racism, "sexism", "shapeism" Heehee... And just plain bad attitudes are a HUGE turn off for me. And honestly, it may be good advice for some guys to wear a strap when meeting me because if I clearly do not like you... and you touch me.... You may or may not get a warning. Just as I am sure there are people here who would rather never meet me (That is fine... LOL), there are people here who I hope I NEVER see.... and if I do, they had better not touch me. I just might vomit on them. They are that ugly and horrendous to me because they don't know how to treat people with respect, kindness, and even love.

Ok... how do I separate "sexual or erotic" tickling from the normal everyday kind of "innocent" tickling? I don't know if I can clearly explain my answer since it has to deal with my mind, my opinion and what turns me on. And an ex-boyfriend once told me that my whole body is one big hot spot! LOL So maybe I don't even know.

The obvious is making certain areas No-Tickle zones. For the sake of larger gatherings and huge functions like NEST... there is NO way in the world I am going to be in a crowd like that with my booty (and other things) and my "Dx" hanging out. LOL And they are off limits anyway! It’s a gathering, not a peep show... Course. nothing on me is peep size anyway. HEEHEE 😛

Second thing is, I know me, and I know certain things are huge and automatic turn ons for me. LOL Like I said to Areenactor in the "tongue" thread... LOL I am NOT into casual licking. Tongue, teeth, mouth on ANYWHERE.... (Awww Besides raspberries... which are just cute!) just set me aflame. I see it as highly erotic and so... general gatherings, big functions, I'd rather NOT deal with that feeling. Just honest to goodness mind boggling,... eye bugging torturous tickling for me.

I am not going to go through everything that sets me off, but just know that I do have clear and unbreakable boundaries. Right now I truly fantasize, look forward to being tickled into frenzy (past what I think I can physically take) without guys or girls stepping over the sexual boundary. I mean, I find plain non-sexual tickling fun and enjoyable, and THAT is what I am into right now.

And to be honest, I always separate tickling from sex, but as some know, that could only be a technicality, (Heeheehee) since I always separate EVERYTHING from sex.

I am certainly NOT against sexual ticking or erotic tickling. I think it will (and has) have its place. That "area" is a piece of me I am waiting to share with the right person. And HE can fulfill all my erotic tickling fantasies and my other fantasies as much as he wishes....over and over again.

So ticking to me does not equal sex. I love it on all of its levels, but unlike some, I can clearly separate each. For those who can not... NO THANK YOU! That's just the kind of gal I am. I don't eat cake with my grits LOL. And since I am on a diet right now... LOL NO cake for me. 😛

Live, Laugh and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee

 

[Neutron]

Thanks

Thank you for your answer. It was more than I expected. HOPEFULLY I'm not one of the people you'd never let tickle you. I know at times I can be somewhat tactless and bull in a china shopish but it's not because I don't like people. In fact I like people a hell of a lot. Sometimes I let a few things sort of shine through that aren't all the time me. I take care of my employees and their families regardless of whether it's good for my company or not. (almost at the cost of my job earlier this month)

1: I'm a cynically optimistic. Although I am a cynic I've noticed even the worst situations turn out ok more than 99% of the time.

2: I'm a nuke. Unfortunately the business requires focus on what is wrong, instead of what is right. It has to be that way, eventually it does sort of become part of a personality and way of thinking. I try to guard against it. It also make me extremely anal about accuracy.

3: I guess I sort of hardened some after my older sister died 7 years ago. We were exceptionally close.

Overall I like many of the people here. I'm just a low drama sort of guy. Some of you give me the best laugh I get all day. I like the creativity. venray, Tickling Duo, QB Weaver, Myriads, qjakal, Dave, Sunriseticklee, Big Jim, siamese dream and Supertickler always have good well thought out posts, excellent senses of humor and are very self effacing (Which in my mind is one of the most admirable human traits). There are others, but whenever I see a post from one of the above I read it because even though I might not agree with it, I know there's something in it that will either make me laugh, or get me thinking. (and yes there are others). I was especially touched when I got back from vacation and found an email from venray wondering if I was ok.

I believe you just defined what is to me a different category of tickling. Erotic. I guess what I thought was sexual tickling is really erotic tickling. For instance when I tickle I don't need nudity to be turned on. The tickling itself is the turn on. In that way it's erotic. I guess to take things to the Nth degree sexual tickling would be tickling with the intent OR as an method of enjoying sex. In this case I guess it would really be considered foreplay. I've had tickling that ended up in sex, BUT I never tickled with the intent of it ending up that way. Even when tickling for fun I consider it erotic. Then again, I've never been the type to just start tickling for fun. I guess it's a violating someones space sort of thing. I can't just touch someone.

When I tickle I love bondage, but actually prefer the lady to have some clothes on. Usually panties or shorts. It adds to the mystery and fun in my mind. Usually whatever she is comfortable wearing is good with me. I'm easy BUT I don't expect her to be. I also never tickle anywhere that I haven't been given specific permission to touch.

Gotta run

Mike

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Re: Thanks

Thank you for your answer. It was more than I expected. HOPEFULLY I'm not one of the people you'd never let tickle you. I know at times I can be somewhat tactless and bull in a china shopish but it's not because I don't like people. In fact I like people a hell of a lot. Sometimes I let a few things sort of shine through that aren't all the time me.

You might want to email me and ask.... Seriously.

So... are you saying that you ALWAYS get turned on when you are tickling someone? Like all the time? And there has never been a time when you were tickling and it was just fun....?

That is so strange to me. Because there are people who just don't turn me on... LOL They could tickle me all day long (or I could tickle them) and I would be like... Heehee... See ya later. Just as dry as dry can be. LOL....

Then there are those one or two people who can just look at me with that I'm-gonna-tickle-you-look.... and its like INSTANT.... I get just WEAK! Wow..... But that is only because I am attracted to them. And I have met very few people that I have been instantly attracted to.

Ok then... This is actually interesting to me.
Live, Laugh and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee

 

[Neutron]

Hmmm..

Your email address isn't public. (my address is public here by the way, if you don't want your addy public them mine is [email protected]) If it were I'd email ya. I certainly am NOT a propenent of the public maulings ladies get in the Personals Forums.

Good question by the way. I guess I don't always get turned on by tickling. I mean when I tickle I do so for fun. I asked the question and LOL I can't even answer it!!. I rarely do quick tickles. Usually when I tickle it's because I have the time and it's sort of prearranged that I'm gonna tickle. I've never been to a gathering, and I've always been more attuned to private sessions. Not because I want sex or anything, it's just me I guess. Maybe it's part position too. Usually I like some sort of bondage (but not extreme) Plus with men getting turned on is much more dependent on contact or physicality than with women. By that I mean some guys get hard with just the wind blowing. AM I making sense? I DO tickle for fun, but usually end up hard.

Mike

 

[AphxA]

lesson

Whats todays lesson kids.

Kids: unwanted touch=a pair of sore marbles

 

[Neutron]

Hey Sunrise..

What is your email address?

Tron

 

[AphxA]

sunrise still exist

Hey sunrise what ever happened to ya. I can understand with school starting again, its hard for you to talk to use since your a teacher. I really like talking to you. you have a great personality.😀

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Re: sunrise still exist

Hey sunrise what ever happened to ya. I can understand with school starting again, its hard for you to talk to us since your a teacher. I really like talking to you. you have a great personality.😀

BOOOOO!

I went to sleep... Like normal human beings with no life who go to bed at like 7 o'clock on a Friday night... and then wake up at 4 o'clock in the morning because their body forces them awake on a SATURDAY MORNING WHEN THEY SHOULD BE SLEEPING INNNNNNNNNNNNN GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

Sorry.... I am sooo grumpy. You would all hate me if you were next to me right now. Nah you wouldn't! I'm much more ticklish in the mornings so.... I'd be in trouble.

But I'm still grumpy!.... Ok WHAT DO YOU WANT! DARN IT!

yadda yadda yadda... NO! You can't have my email! Wait until I email you!

DIE! No Laughing! No TICKLES FOR YOU!
NighttimeTicklee,


AphxA.... LOL How's that for a great personality? Heeheehee 😛

 

[Neutron]

BWAHAHAHAHA

Sunrise that is SOOOO sneaky. 🙂 LOL. And low LOL.
But funny as all hell. 🙂 Damn uppity women.


Tron

 

[Neutron]

AND Unfair ..

Now I have to start checking my email everyday.

Tron

 

[AphxA]

sunriseticklee

HA SLEEP! I DONT NEED SLEEP, I HAD TWO BOTTLES OF MOUNTIN DEW, 12 CUPS OF COFFEE, AND AN ENTIRE BOWL OF PURE SUGAR.......MUEHEHEHEH AND IM WIDE AWAKE....I'LL JUST REST MY HEAD ON THE KEY BOARD.......ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZNO MOMMY NO MORE ORANGE JUICEZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ🙁 😱 😉 😛 🙄 😱

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i find tickling

to be highly, ALMOST totally sexual. yes i can, and have tickled for fun. but at the same time i have recognised that it is erotic at the same time. that doesn't hold true when i'm tickling my kids, but tickling an adult woman, it's not easy, to stay cool.
steve

 

[Neutron]

Agreed..

arena actor put it very well. Fun but erotic.

Tron

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Re: AND Unfair ..

Now I have to start checking my email everyday.

Tron

YOU DO THAT! And why don't you hold your breath too... My favorite color is purple. Take a picture of yourself in that shade, post it on TMF and I will email you immediately! PROMISE! 😉


APHXA! Sleep! Darn it. It’s good for you! Not good for me... but you know, I'm different. Hmm very different.

Areenactor-- Ok. So tickling is almost always sexual and erotic for you. I see nothing wrong with that. It’s just that I am the opposite. Tickling is almost always innocent (or tortuous) and fun for me... while I still recognize and feel that it can be erotic. I have NO problem controlling myself. (ok... so there is one spot when being tickled that I just about lose control... LOL But that spot is almost always off limits so that doesn't count. 😛)

People see tickling in different lights... Which is cool to me. But to be perfectly honest, I kind of shy away from the guys who state that tickling is purely sexual to them and that they have problems controlling themselves because of it. I definitely do NOT want to be alone, tied and tickled by someone who could "LOSE control" at my expense. And I have run into too many guys who can't differentiate between what I want and what they think they are going to get. Regardless of how many countless times I have explained it to them... they just don't seem to get it. And it is maddening, discouraging, and often ends up painful for the guy. There are just some things SUNRISETICKLEE ain’t gonna put up with.

And that is why for the most part I have stopped with the personal ads and the "one-on-one" bit because I feel more comfortable at gatherings where there are people there like Tero, Dan, DVNC, MKeemer, and JC (etc) who will crush a guy who crosses the line. Course that's if I am not busy crushing the guy myself which I am SOOOO able to do!

And because most of the Georgia guys who answered my ad wanted more than just tickling. And THAT, Sweetheart, Sunrise just ain't giving to ANYBODY!


Live, Laugh and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee

 

[Neutron]

LOL..

Excellent.. By the way I never lose control. That would make me an animal, and judging by the news lately there are enough animals in this world 🙁 (Sorry these kids disappearing at the rate of once a week is really really getting to me).
I've never been a slave to sexual pasion, nor have I ever done anything to anyone I haven't been given permission to do. Because that is totally wrong. Especially if someone is tied up.
I get irate at those who lose control in any fashion, whether it be sex, temper, substances or whatever. I like to look myself in the mirror and unequivocally state, Yes I am human, in looks and behaviour.

Tron

 

[Neutron]

Sunrise Is A...

SMART ARSE!!! LOL. Oddly, I can't hold my breath. I mean I can but I don't turn any colors or anything. After a couple minutes of holding my breath I simply pass out. Another thing I, I can't walk a straight line. I can walk roughly a straight line but not like a cop would make you do it. A couple years ago I was stopped for a broken tail light. The officer thought I was drunk (I don't drink). So he made me try to walk the straight line. I can't do it. Eventually I convinced him I wasn't drunk. Now they make us walk one at work for our anual physical. I guess it's a balance test. I've had to take an alternate balance test since we started this walking in a straight line thing. Again the odd thing is I have excellent balance.


Mike

 

[Deleted member 2452]

sunriseticklee, i feel the need to explain...

... first, yes as i stated, tickling, and being tickled is highly charged with sexuality for me. BUT, thats because i like it that way! i have sufficent control over my self not to pitch a tent in my shorts every time i engage in a little tickle! i have tickled co-workers for as long as i have been working, and never once became tumescent. neutron put it well, i'm not an animal. i'm just a guy who loves tickling, and when the time is right, i become aroused by it.

so, you wouldn't need a goon squad with me. in another thread recently i stated i'm a gentleman, when i lady lays down the ground rules, i follow them to the letter! another reason i prefer my tickle partner to be untied, they have some feelings of safety.

i hope i have explained myself to everyone, not just sunrise.

steve

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Re: sunriseticklee, i feel the need to explain...

... first, yes as i stated, tickling, and being tickled is highly charged with sexuality for me. BUT, thats because i like it that way! i have sufficent control over my self not to pitch a tent in my shorts every time i engage in a little tickle! i have tickled co-workers for as long as i have been working, and never once became tumescent. neutron put it well, i'm not an animal. i'm just a guy who loves tickling, and when the time is right, i become aroused by it.

so, you wouldn't need a goon squad with me. in another thread recently i stated i'm a gentleman, when i lady lays down the ground rules, i follow them to the letter! another reason i prefer my tickle partner to be untied, they have some feelings of safety.

i hope i have explained myself to everyone, not just sunrise.

steve

Well dear, thank you for the explaination, but well... I was just explaining myself to everyone as well. Being sexy to someone while they are tickling me is fine.... Having them do things that I clearly DO NOT want is not fine with me. I had a guy tell me that he wanted to tickle me but that I had to meet his requirements of letting him kiss me while tickling and that he would also have to "relieve himself" while I was there... I think that is F***in insane. And he tried to convience me that he really wasn't asking for too much. "I just require 2 things. We don't have to do it! It's not like we are having sex." ?!!!!!!! 🙄 Ok NOOOOOOOOO!

I chat and tease and joke... and that's all good. But man! A guy has got to know.... There are spots on me that are OFF LIMITS... and things that I will not do and won't allow done to me. My rules! Not theirs (when I am the lee)! When I am with someone that I completely and utterly trust with every ounce of my body... (only one such person exists)... then that person can break (heehee) the rules. And I feel totally comfortable and sort of excited about that.

Live, Laugh and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee


This, Areenactor is of course not directed personally at you.

 

[Neutron]

Sunrise..

The guy you talked about relieving himself... I know a guy like that and frankly he gives me the fucking creeps. I'm not sure if he's into tickling (I never ask any males that), but he's said this sort of shit when talking about going on dates and shit. I wonder what women think about him. I guess there's there are freaks in every show. 🙁

Hey got an email addy? 🙂

Tron

 

[AphxA]

trons message

Dude! thats some sick s***.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

sunriseticklee

you are 100% correct. no one can argue with your last post. well, i guess some people can argue anything, but they'd look foolish trying in this case!
still friends.
steve
p.s. i'm just paying with you too. in all truth, you are too young for me. i didn't realize you were only 24. lol