Question about tickle torture

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I recently met this guy from TMF. He lives in CT and we have been communicating back and forth online. We have made plans to get together after New Year's and meet in R.I since that's about halfway between us since I live in Philly. Anyway, my question is how do I get through a tickle torture session without using the safeword for at least twenty minutes or longer? The reason I ask is when I was looking on Yaqi's website, he describes tickling a woman for at least an hour without her using safewords. Is that even possible or is he exaggerrating?

Is there a way to build up some kind of endurance when it comes to tickle torture, lol? I got this guy's phone# while were chatting and he plans to really TICKLE ME LIKE CRAZY 😱. Of course I WILL TICKLE HIM THE SAME . Is it possible that the more someone has the experience of being tickle tortured they can build up a tolerance where they can tolerate it longer during tickle play?

Does anyone have any hints they could give me? Just wondering.

 

[leeboy]

First of all R.I. isn't half way between Philly and CT. RI is east of CT.

But as far as the Tickling goes, the best way to last a long time is to just relax and laugh. Just let out as hard and as loud as you need to and get into a rythm or pace. Almost as if you were a distance runner. Get into a laughing pace. The worst thing you can do is try to tell yourself that is doesn't tickle, and tense yourself up, grit your teeth and try to hold it in. Doesn't work. It just makes the tickler more determined and the session less enjoyable for you.

 

[Goodieluver]

from talkin with my ler, the talk is worse than the actional action. I tickled my ler for almost an hour and 30 mins and after she said she wished it woulda lasted longer, so its all dependant on yer mood and how it goes, dont worry u'll luv it. She was terrified by my talk of the ticklin and then she said she wanted more! heh

 

[lk70]

I think a lot of this depends on the ler. IMHO, tickling to get to the safeword isn't the best way to go about it. The best lers tickle til you're ALMOST ready to scream the safeword, then back off a bit, or move somewhere else, then bring it back around again. Varying intensity is the key to a loonnggggg session. Believe me- you can be tickled like crazy for hours and hours and never need the safe word if the ler knows what he's doing (or she is doing, as the case may be.)

 

[Goodieluver]

I think a lot of this depends on the ler. IMHO, tickling to get to the safeword isn't the best way to go about it. The best lers tickle til you're ALMOST ready to scream the safeword, then back off a bit, or move somewhere else, then bring it back around again. Varying intensity is the key to a loonnggggg session. Believe me- you can be tickled like crazy for hours and hours and never need the safe word if the ler knows what he's doing (or she is doing, as the case may be.)

Heh i kept thinkin i was doin somethin wrong after ticklin for so longer she didnt use the word, heheeh then i realized she misunderstood the rules and thought she couldnt use the word, all ended up good and she actually enjoyed that better

 

[cncreteman]

I think a lot of this depends on the ler. IMHO, tickling to get to the safeword isn't the best way to go about it. The best lers tickle til you're ALMOST ready to scream the safeword, then back off a bit, or move somewhere else, then bring it back around again. Varying intensity is the key to a loonnggggg session. Believe me- you can be tickled like crazy for hours and hours and never need the safe word if the ler knows what he's doing (or she is doing, as the case may be.)

Now thats a Ticklee for ya!!!! WOW

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Welll here's my problem leeboy. When I am being tickle tortured while being tied up, my body does have a tendency to tense up while being tickled. I joined TMF this past April and since then I have tickle tortured about 9 times which isn't as much as some other people. I do tend to squirm quite a bit and my most ticklish areas are my tummy, armpits, feet, and inner thighs. When I am tickled on my inner thighs I crack up, go crazy, become hysterical because IT TICKLES SO MUCH! It's really hard for me to relax while being tickled there 😱.

 

[Machival]

Yeah, I agree with the person who pointed out the geographical miscalculation. You might want to find a place that's actually somewhere between CT and RI. Here's a map of New England:

http://www.eia.doe.gov/emeu/reps/rpmap/rp_new-eng.jpg

And here's one of the northeast quadrant of the U.S.:

http://www.radissonhotelsdirectory.com/findahotel/northEast.gif

By my calculations, somewhere in northeastern PA would be your best bet for a halfway point between CT and Philly.

 

[tommytikl]

I think a lot of this depends on the ler. IMHO, tickling to get to the safeword isn't the best way to go about it. The best lers tickle til you're ALMOST ready to scream the safeword, then back off a bit, or move somewhere else, then bring it back around again. Varying intensity is the key to a loonnggggg session. Believe me- you can be tickled like crazy for hours and hours and never need the safe word if the ler knows what he's doing (or she is doing, as the case may be.)

Yep, that is very true...

That is also why I have the Red, yellow, green "safeword" system,
Red, is STOP right now.
Yellow is move somewhere else, slow down but don't stop tickling.
Green is keep going even though I am laughing my fool head off and I am coughing and weezing.

As a ler, getting the safe word out really shouldn't be the goal, the goal should be that both the lee and ler have a good time.

 

[jaba]

safeword? you gotta really listen for it!

[QUOTE
As a ler, getting the safe word out really shouldn't be the goal, the goal should be that both the lee and ler have a good time.[/QUOTE]



I think both goals can be achieved with pretty nice results in some cases...

For instance....

I recently has some tickle play with a nice lady who told me that she loved tickling so much that no one has ever caused her to safeword, but that she wanted to be tickled to that point just to know what it felt like.....

And like most ticklers, Jaba loves a challenge!

So, while I had to reach REALLY deep into my "tickle bag of tricks", with some patience, (and some awesome bondage) I found the tickle technique (in this case, it was slow, teasing tickle circles right along her arches and between her toes) that was her real weakness, and I could tell by the increasing intensity of her beautiful laughter that she was reaching the tickle limits that she sought....

There was a lot of protests and "please stop" and "ok,ok, no, no.....but no safeword yet (you ladies can be sneaky at times...)

So, for the rest of our tickle play, (we had all day, he he) I many times brought her to that "third level of laughter"that we love so much, and after a while, during one of our breaks to let her breathe, she quietly said her "safeword" and giggled softly and smiled.

She said she was trying to say her safeword while I was tickling, but she was laughing too hard, and unable to say the word, so she had to wait until our break in the tickle play...(this lady really loves to be tickled!)

We both got what we wanted.....

You just gotta listen to the laughter of your ticklee.....(smile)


Jaba

 

[steph]

Amen sister!
XOXO

I think a lot of this depends on the ler. IMHO, tickling to get to the safeword isn't the best way to go about it. The best lers tickle til you're ALMOST ready to scream the safeword, then back off a bit, or move somewhere else, then bring it back around again. Varying intensity is the key to a loonnggggg session. Believe me- you can be tickled like crazy for hours and hours and never need the safe word if the ler knows what he's doing (or she is doing, as the case may be.)

 

[Illtcklu]

I think both goals can be achieved with pretty nice results in some cases...

For instance....

I recently has some tickle play with a nice lady who told me that she loved tickling so much that no one has ever caused her to safeword, but that she wanted to be tickled to that point just to know what it felt like.....

And like most ticklers, Jaba loves a challenge!

So, while I had to reach REALLY deep into my "tickle bag of tricks", with some patience, (and some awesome bondage) I found the tickle technique (in this case, it was slow, teasing tickle circles right along her arches and between her toes) that was her real weakness, and I could tell by the increasing intensity of her beautiful laughter that she was reaching the tickle limits that she sought....

There was a lot of protests and "please stop" and "ok,ok, no, no.....but no safeword yet (you ladies can be sneaky at times...)

So, for the rest of our tickle play, (we had all day, he he) I many times brought her to that "third level of laughter"that we love so much, and after a while, during one of our breaks to let her breathe, she quietly said her "safeword" and giggled softly and smiled.

She said she was trying to say her safeword while I was tickling, but she was laughing too hard, and unable to say the word, so she had to wait until our break in the tickle play...(this lady really loves to be tickled!)

We both got what we wanted.....

You just gotta listen to the laughter of your ticklee.....(smile)


Jaba

Jaba , is this person on TMF? If so maybe she's the one that can give advice here!

 

[jaba]

I'll tickle it out of her.......

Jaba , is this person on TMF? If so maybe she's the one that can give advice here!

Sure, ok, I will ask her to join in on this topic and provide her input......some of the tmf ladies here know her....

I would ask her to do this under threat of tickle torture, but knowing her, she would probably take that challenge in a heartbeat and it would take forever to get it out of her, ha ha....

Jaba

 

[lk70]

I found the tickle technique (in this case, it was slow, teasing tickle circles right along her arches and between her toes) that was her real weakness, and I could tell by the increasing intensity of her beautiful laughter that she was reaching the tickle limits that she sought....

You are a rare ler, Jaba! Not many have the patience and are able to keep up the slowing teasing tickles until they build up into madness. Most prefer the instant response that all out tickling gives. How surprised they might be if they settled in to watch a nice long movie with their lee's feet in their laps!
(and no, folks, I was not Jaba's lee- more's the pity!)

 

[jaba]

more's the pity.....

You are a rare ler, Jaba! Not many have the patience and are able to keep up the slowing teasing tickles until they build up into madness. Most prefer the instant response that all out tickling gives. How surprised they might be if they settled in to watch a nice long movie with their lee's feet in their laps!
(and no, folks, I was not Jaba's lee- more's the pity!)

more's the pity is right.......

but a jaba can always dream, can he not, lk? (smile)

someday...... 🙄 🙄 🙄


jaba

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Jaba, it sounds like you're a good ler. I think a good ler is someone who varies the speed in which they're tickling someone. For example, they can start out slow and then gradually get faster and faster. Just vary that throughout the tickling. From what I've read about how you tickle, I'd want you to tickle me if you either lived closer to me or I lived closer to you!

 

[jaba]

what a sweet compliment....

Jaba, it sounds like you're a good ler. I think a good ler is someone who varies the speed in which they're tickling someone. For example, they can start out slow and then gradually get faster and faster. Just vary that throughout the tickling. From what I've read about how you tickle, I'd want you to tickle me if you either lived closer to me or I lived closer to you!

wow..... 🙂 what a nice compliment, Jen.....thank you.....

I would love to go to you for a tickle visit, but I usually have a nightmare of a time getting my tickle bag through the airport screening process (ha ha) 🙂

however, the laughter you can produce from a simple honey dipped q-tip on the right part of the anatomy is amazing..😉

simply amazing......

and it makes your ticklee taste great too..... (smile)


jaba

 

[Goodieluver]

wow..... 🙂 what a nice compliment, Jen.....thank you.....

I would love to go to you for a tickle visit, but I usually have a nightmare of a time getting my tickle bag through the airport screening process (ha ha) 🙂

however, the laughter you can produce from a simple honey dipped q-tip on the right part of the anatomy is amazing..😉

simply amazing......

and it makes your ticklee taste great too..... (smile)


jaba

You can always simply tell security yer with a traveling group of rocky horror picture show impersonators

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Actually I meant to post Machival that he lives in Massechusetts (hope I spelled it correct) not CT. So then it probably does make sense for us to meet in R.I. Just wanted to make that correction, lol.

 

[jaba]

I tried that..

You can always simply tell security yer with a traveling group of rocky horror picture show impersonators

I tried that already......

those folks have no sense of humor....


jaba

 

[Hiryu]

I think both goals can be achieved with pretty nice results in some cases...

For instance....

I recently has some tickle play with a nice lady who told me that she loved tickling so much that no one has ever caused her to safeword, but that she wanted to be tickled to that point just to know what it felt like.....

And like most ticklers, Jaba loves a challenge!

So, while I had to reach REALLY deep into my "tickle bag of tricks", with some patience, (and some awesome bondage) I found the tickle technique (in this case, it was slow, teasing tickle circles right along her arches and between her toes) that was her real weakness, and I could tell by the increasing intensity of her beautiful laughter that she was reaching the tickle limits that she sought....

There was a lot of protests and "please stop" and "ok,ok, no, no.....but no safeword yet (you ladies can be sneaky at times...)

So, for the rest of our tickle play, (we had all day, he he) I many times brought her to that "third level of laughter"that we love so much, and after a while, during one of our breaks to let her breathe, she quietly said her "safeword" and giggled softly and smiled.

She said she was trying to say her safeword while I was tickling, but she was laughing too hard, and unable to say the word, so she had to wait until our break in the tickle play...(this lady really loves to be tickled!)

We both got what we wanted.....

You just gotta listen to the laughter of your ticklee.....(smile)


Jaba

Very nice! Bravo! That's the way it should be done too. So how long did it take for you to break her?

 

[Tidas]

Welll here's my problem leeboy. When I am being tickle tortured while being tied up, my body does have a tendency to tense up while being tickled. I joined TMF this past April and since then I have tickle tortured about 9 times which isn't as much as some other people. I do tend to squirm quite a bit and my most ticklish areas are my tummy, armpits, feet, and inner thighs. When I am tickled on my inner thighs I crack up, go crazy, become hysterical because IT TICKLES SO MUCH! It's really hard for me to relax while being tickled there .

I know exactly what you mean about tensing up, because those are my worst tickle spots too, I don't care who you are the Inner Thighs are the worst. Just go with it. If you tense up, then you tense up. If you're loose with it, then you're loose with it. The trick is to stop thinking, let go and laugh, just completely let go of thought. Just enjoy the tickles 😉

 

[TKLDNSNE]

My inner thighs are the worst. I just let loose and have fun with it. My wife and I do tickle play a lot. I love to tickle her thighs too and she has a harder time with it. Hey jaba, I would like to talk with you sometime about your methods. I love to go back and forth between soft and intense tickling.

Ticklejen, you honestly have to know your limits when it comes to this. With some people just talking about tickling gets them sweaty and exhausted. Just try and relax and enjoy it the best you can. What helps me is when my wife and I have tickle play, I go first. I just imagine what I will do to her while she is tickling me. It works for me anyway.

 

[jaba]

tickle and tell?

Hey jaba, I would like to talk with you sometime about your methods. I love to go back and forth between soft and intense tickling.

Disclosing my "tickle secrets"? Ha ha, I don't know about that, ha ha.

A true lady does not "kiss and tell".....

Does a true gentleman "tickle and tell"? Ha ha.....

Maybe we can p m if we can be descreet and disclose no identites (smile)....

I will give my preference on one "tickle point", however.....

I prefer lady ticklees who love "restraint tickling" (as long as the restraints are comfortable and creative and fun for us).

A "kicking, screaming, thrasher" is not my ideal ticklee.

I love to experience how a truly ticklish lady, who really loves tickling, reacts when I find and slowly stroke those hopelessly, helplessly ticklish areas( yummy), and our restraints prevent her from escape and hiding those ticklish treasure spots.....oh, the laughter such tickling elicits!

Trust me, that is when her laughter turns into a true symphony!

jaba

 

[TKLDNSNE]

You are awesome. I hope to talk with you soon.