Question for people who say they are lees only

[Gadilici]

Lol. It's ok, I've gotten used to translating you.

I agree. Since I rarely switch, there is a definite difference in the feel. Which is why I usually only lee at the most stressful moments in life. At least, on the rarer occasion I have a ler at that moment.

I guess lering for me is kinda like the rush a rock star feels in front of 50,000 people. Leeing.....it's more of a purging feeling. Not in a bad way, but sorta how some people use weights at the gym to deal with stress. Maybe the way I used to put on some thrash metal in high school and bang my head till I was exhausted. Just exerted it out of me. Think that's the closest description I have.

sure. it's fun. it's just that there's a distinction between how lering makes me feel and how leeing makes me feel that allows me to separate them.

that made no sense. it's 5:30.

Christopher

 

[desdemona]

I preface 'lee only on my profile because I don't want others to expect that I'm a switch or a Ler. It doesn't mean I won't try to please my partner - if they want me to tie them and tickle them, I'm game. But I don't want them to have false assumptions or go in thinking I'm going to turn the tables naturally. That's not who I am or what I find appealing. But I'm all for mutual satisfaction.

 

[goddess_nemesis]

You know why you love to be tickled. You find someone who understands and is not only willing but would love to fulfill your fantasies and tickle you just the way you want, whether it is light, erotic tickling or merciless tickle torture, testing and expanding your limits. They do this to you because you both love it. They feel the same way about being tickled. They enjoy it the same way you do. Why wouldn't you want to do for them what they did for you?

It's like asking Lers why they won't let their Lees get revenge. Everybody has different preferences.

For a long time I listed myself as a Switch, but over the years I've discovered that I'm more of a Lee than a Ler. Yet it was getting hard to find someone who was on the same wavelength as me when they assumed being Switch meant 50/50, which is why I now list myself as a Lee.

For me I'm more 90% Lee, 10% Ler. I very rarely Ler, but I will if the guy I'm playing with wants to switch. It won't last long, but I'll do it. I simply don't enjoy being a Ler the same way I enjoy being a Lee.

 

[Jerry67911]

I was actually glad when this thread fell to the 3rd page, hoped it had slipped through the cracks. Everybody is different, this is a whiney post and I didn't mean to offend anyone. I just hope to find someone eventually who will take turns with me, I'd be willing to just be a lee too, but probably would be bitter if I was with someone romantically who wanted me to tickle them but wouldn't tickle me back. Then again, they wouldn't want to be with me either. Now if we are just talking a tickle party or casual get together, I'm more than willing to tickle anyone who is willing.

 

[tickles]

I was actually glad when this thread fell to the 3rd page, hoped it had slipped through the cracks. Everybody is different, this is a whiney post and I didn't mean to offend anyone. I just hope to find someone eventually who will take turns with me, I'd be willing to just be a lee too, but probably would be bitter if I was with someone romantically who wanted me to tickle them but wouldn't tickle me back. Then again, they wouldn't want to be with me either. Now if we are just talking a tickle party or casual get together, I'm more than willing to tickle anyone who is willing.

..then you are looking for a switch... I am a lee but with the right person...likely another female...I could ler.....I can't ler a male!....but would tickle him if he wanted it and would do it willingly...but it's not my nature...

 

[No_Style]

gooood question. As others have said, I just prefer being tickled more... but of course I totally don't dislike tickling people either

 

[FenwickCat]

The most beautiful thing about tickling is that it feminises the ticklee. While they are being tickled they are completely helpless, submissive, and at the mercy of their tickler or ticklers, which in turn makes them more submissive afterwards, and less likely to wish to be the tickler in a relationship.

 

[Canadian_Eh]

I may poke at someone back or rarely participate in a ler-ish session. But lering is completely and 100% not me. On some levels I even feel uncomfortable doing it if someone wants me to dominate them. THAT is definitely not me. I don't choose to be this way out of spite. I just am what I am.

100% this! .. I couldn't have said it better myself! .. It's not in my personality to be dominant.

 

[ticklemepls]

it depends on the person i guess.... i have indeed been ler before for someone- and yes i did enjoy the revenge 🙂 but in all seriousness, i do enjoy being lee more, so i cant say with anyone else other than a few playful tickles that id be ler

 

[Gadilici]

Can't say I've ever felt feminine leeing. So, I'm gonna have to disagree with this one as a generalization.

The most beautiful thing about tickling is that it feminises the ticklee. While they are being tickled they are completely helpless, submissive, and at the mercy of their tickler or ticklers, which in turn makes them more submissive afterwards, and less likely to wish to be the tickler in a relationship.

Christopher