Question for the Guys

[tbear01]

I've been with the TMF a bit now but am more of a reader than writer. I have seen questions from the guys about this but now I ask the question from a womans perspective.
How do you get a guy to tickle you without him thinking you're weird.. I've tried the little "subtle" things, but have to admit I'm a bit nervous about being thought of as strange. I would love to have some of the stuff done to me I read about here...
I've been told I'm attractive so I don't think that is an issue. I'm tall, blonde (natural, but not dumb) blue eyed and have size 8 feet.

inquiring minds want to know..

thanks

 

[Oddjob0226]

Well, answering as a guy, all you really need to do is ask. We are always looking for a fun lady to just play with. Even if the woman has an actual fetish for it and the man does not the guy will do it it becuase it is a fun thing. And we are always looking for reasons to touch beautiful women!

Just ask. You may awaken something within the guy he didn't realize he had and you'll win youreslf a "convert". And if guy #1 thinks you are strange, guy's #2, #3 & #4 won't really care.

Or, another way to get tickled is just drop by; I have some free time.....

 

[AffectionateDan]

Excellent question

I think the vast majority of us can identify with the fear of being thought weird for our love of tickling. I know that for years, I did. Restrained myself from COUNTLESS opportunities out of that dread of being "found out". Many of which, given the benefit of hindsight, were I'm almost positive, created by that person to give me (or someone) the chance to tickle them! My ex sister-in-law, for instance... she's one of those girls who tickles you until you pounce on her and "teach her a lesson" by tickling her silly. I'm POSITIVE she's a Lee. (shoulda married HER instead of her frosty sister, but oh well) Anyway, I'm gonna echo what Mr O.J. has already said here: Most guys are eager to touch a gal anyways, so a little gentle encouragement won't hurt your cause one bit! Stretch REALLLLLL big in a blouse that rides up and offers that tantalizing peek of ticklish belly. Plop your bare feet up in his lap, and if that isn't invitation enough, tickle him with your toes! Something's gotta give! Maybe use the example I gave... tickle someone until they tickle you back. Create opportunities to get yourself tickled, and I'm reletively sure that you'll get some results. And keep us posted! Always nice to know we've helped out a fellow member of our little family!

 

[TickleMantis]

If your ever in New Zealand I'd be more than happy to help out.😀

 

[MrPartickler]

I like this question....

As someone who doesn't just go around tickling every woman he meets or knows just because he can, I've also kinda wondered: what might one of these women do or say to get me to tickle them anyway--innocently or perhaps because they're shy ticklephiles?

I'd say I'm most likely to take the opportunity with someone I'm already friends with. Then, it's easy. All she'd have to do is say, in a playful/flirty way "Please don't tickle me" at some opportune moment. That would be enough for me; I'd look for any tickling opportunity after that. However, if I wasn't such an easy "mark" 😛, I can imagine she might have to tempt me a little more.

If, after saying "please don't tickle me" or "I'm sooo ticklish" your target tickler doesn't take the bait, try to tickle HIM; keep trying until he laughs or makes you stop. Then say it again and/or do something else playfully "bratty" to make him want to get you back. If teasing and joking around is already part of your personality, no one will think you're weird for this--just playful and fun. Still, I think that'll have to work. If, after all that, your guy doesn't take that bait, move on! (my number, by the way, is 555-... 😛 )

 

[steph]

Ok I'm not a guy but...

I'm a chick but I've had pretty good results doing exactly what Dan just said--just go for it.

Here's another little naughty trick we like to play on our boys <gg>: show some skin. It makes them want to touch you there.

I have more than a few of those little tops that tie in the back, leaving the rest of the back totally bare. I always wear them to parties in the summer, and if I'm feeling especially mischeivous, I'll find some crazy opportunity to sit on a lap or two--I've yet to find a guy that could resist running a finger down my spine or maybe a little massage. Once they see my reaction, they tend to want to keep going...Again, sorry, I know this was a qu. for the guys but I had to share...

 

[Sadistictickler]

hmm, I usually tickle when I'm in either a playful or aroused (yeah, I'm a tr00-fetishist 😛) mood, and it's mostly the feedback I get from my victim that determines whether I should go on or not, if she shows she likes it it's quite hard for me to prevent myself from tickling her to death

 

[Lazarus]

How about...

Ploping your feet in his lap, saying "Boy, I could use a massage, but you'd better NOT tickle"

While giving a grin and a wink...

🙂
😉

Laz, the world's strongest 'Ler

 

[steph]

Re: How about...

oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh Laz, great tease move!!!!

Oh ya, and it helps to be wearing your most obscene stripper shoes..I have a hundred! (So obviously painful, despite being so beautiful...)

Ploping your feet in his lap, saying "Boy, I could use a massage, but you'd better NOT tickle"

While giving a grin and a wink...

🙂
😉

Laz, the world's strongest 'Ler

 

[Em Es]

I would think most men will be eager to please

Do you have a certain guy in mind or is your question a general one? If you are looking for an attractive man with whom you can tickle, why not post a personal ad both on the TMF? There might be a TMF member nearby.

Also, you can place a personal ad in your local newspaper or on an Internet personal ad site. Put the word TICKLING in the headline. Describe yourself and what you want. Insist on a recent photo with replies. I think you will have a nice selection of male ticklers from which to choose.

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

 

[TickledToDeath]

All you have to do is ask or start tickling me. I will return the favor or the action 😉 😀 .

Rather simple, yes?

TTD

 

[The Sean Man]

Hmmm....

No man can resist tickling a sexily dressed lady. If one does give you a poke, make sure you give him a devilish smile. Then dare him to try it again. Who can turn down a dare like that?

The Sean Man

 

[kingp]

just ask a little

For me just asking would be a dream come true. Simple and to the point, but since you aren't sure if he is a ler try shoe dangling and when he looks at your foot say something like " what are you thinking about?" or " don't you dare tickle there, I see you looking.." and see if he takes the bait. I know I would LOL, but then again I am easy

 

[Faramir]

*waving hand like crazy in air*

me...me...me...pick ME...erm...please...!!

 

[Tickle-Underarm]

Cool question!

I liked this question too.
I just can't see why a guy should think of it as a weird thing. Maybe this is just because I love to tickle! Anyway, I think that a girl totally NOT into tickling is more weird than a girl asking to be tickled.

I'm in MD, maybe I can help you out 😉

 

[MrMacphisto]

hello tbear01

Tickle-Underarm has it right... There's more of a chance that a girl would think a guy is weird for the tickling interest than a guy would think a girl is. I obviously can't speak for my entire gender, but as far as I can tell, we tend to be a bit more open-minded about some of these things. (Yeah, I'll probably get flamed for that one.) Then again, all the girls I've mentioned my interest to had no problem with it. Granted, I've only mentioned it to girls that were already interested in me or were close friends, so maybe that helped. Whatever the case, I'm sure most guys would tickle you if you just used one of the previous teasing methods. I know I would... lol

By the way, I'm a North Carolinian myself; perhaps, I could catch you online sometime. You sound very interesting to meet.... 😀

 

[$Tickletorturer]

here we go

Well honestly if we were dating it's I'd do it anyways. But as for non-tickler guys I don't think there should be too much of a problem. Contrary to popular belief guys are very interested in pleasuring their women. So if ya let 'em know that's what turns your crank I'd think they'd do it. And as far as tickling being "weird" goes, to any woman I've mentioned my tickling fetish too, very few of them have thought of it as weird. Most even liked the idea.

 

[toneus79]

tbear01 you want men to do what to you ?

You're Wierd !

 

[Darkknight]

I'm with Laz, but if you want to be more "cutesy" you could sit next to a guy and ask him, "What would you do if a gal put her feet on your lap?" Before he can answer, put your feet on his lap with a wicked grin on your face.

If he's one of us, he'll have already have blirted "this!" and be tickling your feet. 😉

Playful gals rock. And size 8 feet rock too.

DK

 

[tbear01]

Well, I must say I'm plesantly surprised and very pleased at all the answers here. For those who asked if I was thinking of someone in particular to tickle me... no.... happily single right now. And for the one who wanted to know what I wanted someone to do? God! surprise me....everything!!!!

 

[sugarmouse]

[ ask him, "What would you do if a gal put her feet on your lap?" Before he can answer, put your feet on his lap with a wicked grin on your face.

If he's one of us, he'll have already have blirted "this!" and be tickling your feet. 😉







im always testing men by doing soem of the things mentioaned here..liek stretchin that usualy gets me poked inthe belly lol...the yu are askin a biased crowd here tho!! it gets easier..if i tease and hint and a guy stildont tickle me i get well ranty lol!!
but jus make yur ticklish spots available..most guys cant resist touchin female flesha anywyas...thenjump as if it tickles ..whether it does or not...that one usuallyworks for me
😛 men r easy😉 wel most of the time!!😕

 

[njjen3953]

Re: Re: How about...

Oh ya, and it helps to be wearing your most obscene stripper shoes..I have a hundred! (

100 shoes or pairs of shoes?

Just checking to see if you also have a shoe fetish. LOL

 

[steph]

Re: Re: Re: How about...

Oh Jen--you so silly!! <gg> Ya know, I think the shoe fetish is indigenous only to the male population. (Someone correct me if I'm wrong here.)

I actually used to work in the shoe dept of a local upscale dept store and eventually learned to HATE shoes...but I am OBSESSED with my Candie's and enjoy shopping for the stipper shoes.

XOXO

100 shoes or pairs of shoes?

Just checking to see if you also have a shoe fetish. LOL

 

[njjen3953]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How about...

Oh Jen--you so silly!! <gg> Ya know, I think the shoe fetish is indigenous only to the male population. (Someone correct me if I'm wrong here.)

I don't know about that. Jobelle, can you answer that one? 😉

 

[steph]

well

of course I'm distinguishing between an actual shoe fetish (sexual) and shoe OBSESSION(which is most of my female friends!!) LOL!