Question to Married ticklers/lees????

[Neutron]

Actually..

We started up, so I'm taking some well deserved time off. My work group did 57% of the work during our latest refueling outage so right now I'm considered a hero at work 🙂 Besides I am working night shift this weekend so I have to take a couple days to get acclimated.

I do not believe the question is stupid because it's off topic or anything like that, Personally I could give a flying rats ass where anyone posts anything.

The reason it IS a dumb ass question is this person alleges he has found a partner, YET whether he can break the news about a part of his lufe to her. Some partnership eh? If they trully were partners then he'd say Hey look I'm into tickling, and she'd say cool. If not they weren't partners to begin with.

THerefore it's a stupid question.

Darth Neutron

 

[jpmtickle]

Gotta agree w/Tron...

Adam, the answer to your question is yes--you tell your partner, and hope, pray, cross your fingers, or whatever the hell you want to do to hope she comes on board with you. The complexity of your question comes in when you get the answer. If she says anything like "OK-tell me more" or anything else that sounds remotely positive, then you're a truly blessed man.

But, if she says "What the...that's too weird.", then you're left with the choice that your question implies. Unfortunately, personally this is the situation where I'm at. No, I didn't tell my wife before we were married that this is a part of me and she absolutely abhors tickling. So, I love my wife dearly and I'm not going to destroy our relationship over this issue (Tron) so I indulge it as I can. I would advise you not to seek out partners where you can not control yourself and find yourself in a complete mess! And ultimately, you've got to live with the fact that this is your situation--not ideal, but if the relationship works in most every other way--also consider yourself blessed.

My own wife is starting to show signs of coming around (we've been married almost nine years, know each other for fifteen)--as long as she is the 'ler--heh, heh. Just stay true to who you are and with time a knee-jerk hell-no may become a well-maybe, and more!

Good luck, and fly straight, brother!
JP😉

 

[fttickler]

Tron learn to read-Dumbass

I posted this as a question to get others thoughts as an open forum allows. If you don't give a rats ass.. don't answer. Since this is not a problem between me and any partner ( and I never said if I was involved at the this time or not ), though when the time comes I Do intend to speak to my current partner at the time. The only dumb thing said Tron to any of the responses are yours. Thanks for proving there is still illeteracy in America. To everyone else who posted. Thanks.

 

[BellaRisa]

Re: Actually..

I do not believe the question is stupid because it's off topic or anything like that, Personally I could give a flying rats ass where anyone posts anything.

The reason it IS a dumb ass question is this person alleges he has found a partner, YET whether he can break the news about a part of his lufe to her. Some partnership eh? If they trully were partners then he'd say Hey look I'm into tickling, and she'd say cool. If not they weren't partners to begin with.

THerefore it's a stupid question.

Darth Neutron [/B]

My point, um...Darth (wha?) is that you've asked questions considered 'dumb' or needless in the past, and been answered. You ask this person to be an adult regarding his life, yet you insult him like a child; forgive me, but most people I know give up the phrase 'dumb-ass' around the 9th grade. Along with the driving need to put others down. To be blunt: he wasn't bothering you, why bother him?

Furthermore, you've yet to answer MY question. I'll try again: if his question was so ignorant, why are you taking the time to return to this thread again and again and add nothing besides crabbiness? What did you hope to accomplish, besides helping 'tron' become even more of a four letter word?

I'd really like to see certain people around here stop treating others so callously and with such disrespect before requesting adult behavior. That's hypocritical and just plain wrong.

Bella

 

[Em Es]

Trust your gut instinct

Adam asked, "If your partner does not know of your fetish, Do you tell them and hope they understand or do you go out and make tickle friends? Just a thought that came to me the other night. Would love input."

I am happily married but an unhappy tickler. My wife gives me little satisfaction in the tickling department, so I seek tickle fun elsewhere. For example, in the 18 months we worked together, I tickled an attractive female coworker named Mary every chance I got - Mary liked the attention, believe me, although the touching never went further, and she only tickle me once.

I'm always on the lookout for lady tickle friends. Sex is not necessary - tickling is!

Adam, if your gut instinct tells you to keep it to yourself, don't tell her. Of course, any lover's gonna get the idea that you like tickling but if they don't give you the green light, I recommend NOT pushing it. I know my wife and know not to come out and tell her, "Look, I'm a tickle enthusiast. I'd like to tie you down and tickle you."

My wife knows I like to tickle. Before we were married, the tickling between us wasn't bad. But since our wedding day, she just gets mad when I tickle her. It sucks. I won't call the marriage a mistake but fantasize about being married to my former coworker Mary.

Hope this was not too long-winded. If your spouse just doesn't get it, you may as well talk to the wall. Avoid the conflict and look for your tickle fun elsewhere.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Re: Re: Flat Out..

If it's is so agonizingly ignorant for you, and you're as busy a man as you say you are with your running and work and body slides....


And didn't you barely get done harrassing dtrell for similar thread policing? I think I hear a pot calling a kettle gestapo Bella

Damn, Bella, this had me laughing. You're a poet-tes... poeticess.... smart & witty.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Re: Tron learn to read-Dumbass

Thanks for proving there is still illeteracy in America. To everyone else who posted. Thanks.

I usually don't do this, but.... you misspelled illiteracy. I couldn't help myself. Very sorry.

Heck, I probably just did, too!